Author/Old Xiang good
I don't know if you have the same situation as me, but as you get older, a wave of anxiety rises in your heart. Want too much, have too little. Everything in the future is unknown, everything in front of you is not satisfactory, always thinking of going back to the past to change yourself at that time, maybe the current life will be a different world.
In real life, no one has a time machine, it's over, there's no room for negotiation.
We always have too many regrets and unwillingness.
But even if you were given a chance to go back in time, would you really make a different choice?
In the movie "Return to Seventeen", the male protagonist Mike has such an opportunity to start again!
In the film, 17-year-old Mike is a school figure, and at a key basketball championship game, he decides to give up his future and propose to his pregnant girlfriend Scarlett. 20 years later, middle-aged Mike's life and career are frustrated, his wife Scarlett decides to separate from Mike, and a pair of children are like passers-by to him, and Mike has to move into the home of his friend Ned, a new upstart in technology. Mike reminisces about his brilliant future, but on the way back to high school, he encounters a mysterious cleaner who suddenly returns to 17 years old...
Do you think this is a story of changing her life against the odds and becoming president from then on?
NO NO NO！
Uncle Mike, with his 17-year-old body, was preparing to shine, but found that his two children had many puberty problems. So he spent all his time helping his children grow up, and he also approached his wife with a new identity and reintegrated into his family that was on the verge of breaking up.
Turned around and got back to square one...
Sometimes, we obviously have the best things in our hands, but we turn a blind eye, give up the near and far, and have to say that this is the saddest side of human nature.
This film reminds me of Charlotte in The Troubles of Charlotte, who dreamed of going back to school after getting drunk, when everything in his life went perfectly – with money, fame, and the people he despised the most were also unsatisfactory... He did not have the happiness he had before, and he still missed the feeling of being with his wife Ma Dongmei, even if he was poor, he was still happy. He also returned to reality and was enlightened.
The storyline of Mike and Charlotte is actually the crux of our lives. Even if the mountains and rivers are repeated, once the epiphany is realized, the choice of love will not change.
I believe that everyone has had a fantasy: "If you give me a chance to start again, I will definitely ..."
Yeah, "If at the time... Maybe now..." The sentence pattern has appeared in our hearts more than once, and everyone will always have a moment or two, which is unbearable to look back on, and wants to start over, but is there any regret medicine in this world?
After we find the right excuses for what we think are right, we want to go back to the glorious peak of the original and start over. Imagine a different picture of life. However, we may forget the most important point, which is that there were good reasons for making this choice at that time, whether it was a moment of impulse or rational contemplation. The unhappiness of life may make us forget the deep thinking behind the original choice, and forget what we took for granted. Even if we travel back in time, go back in time, and history reappears, I believe that we will repeat the choices of that time, repeat what we now consider "mistakes".
We really need to change our attitude towards life and cherish every moment, but don't easily evaluate the time we have spent, because this time, the other time, today to evaluate yesterday is never objective.
Believe that all the past you have made the right choice, believe that all the today you are cherishing, but also believe that all tomorrow you will do your best to work hard, then your life will always be full and happy.
The vast majority of mistakes in life are due to forgetting the original intention.
Perhaps, there is no such thing as the right choice in this world, only to strive to make your choice correct.
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Original text: Old Xiang good