"Return to Seventeen" is a film about a youth romantic comedy produced in the United States in 2009, but it has brought me a huge psychological impact, I think this movie has taught me that there are many choices in life, but no matter what you choose, there will be regrets in the end.
The gist of the film is this; in a crucial ball game in high school, Mike chose scarlett, who was pregnant, and chose to be responsible for Scarlett and the child, but there were many crises in his life.
In marriage, Scarlett and Mike's relationship is in crisis, facing the risk of divorce lawsuits, and in the family, the children do not pay any attention to their fathers, like passers-by.
All this made Mike regret his choice at that time, thinking that if he had chosen to finish the ball game, he would not be different, so he returned to the high school campus and silently lamented himself in the photo, along with the appearance of a cleaner, Mike's life has also undergone a wonderful change.
He returned to his 17-year-old appearance, he decided that he wanted to prevent all this from happening, so he and his friends pretended to be father and son and entered his children's school, in the school he saw his daughter and a little in love, his son was bullied by his classmates, and regretted that he cared too little about them.
However, after his own efforts to solve the problems on the children's side, his wife's side is going to fight with himself, he still loves his wife, after impressing his wife with true feelings in court, he finds that he wants to help his wife and children, but does not want things to get very bad, and finally Mike decides to live for himself.
A historic scene happened again, in a crucial basketball game, when he saw his wife leave, he decided to choose the family again, and so they kissed happily.
Even so, when he was unhappy in his life, he always thought that it was his wife's problem, never felt that he had anything wrong, he was becoming more and more decadent, and he did not know how many days he missed with his family.
I only remember my daughter's 8-year-old ice cream, but I don't want to, my daughter is already 17 years old.
When he returned to the age of 17 and found that his wife was far stronger than he thought, self-reliant, and far more concerned about the family than he thought, he found that his wife still loved him, he was amazed, sighed, and realized that he was the one who was the most idle in the family, the least concerned about the family, but he found all this before but did not realize it, and he was miserable.
I remember what the father said in the movie when he enlightened his lovelorn daughter: "When you are young, everything is like the end of the world, in fact, it is not, just the beginning, you may meet more villains, when you will meet another boy one day, will treat you like a treasure, like the sunrise and sunset, all accompany you." 」 ”
Word by word touched people's hearts, not because the young and good-looking young man said this, only if the father was talking to his daughter, perhaps, he wanted to teach his daughter the same truth as his own experience.
We often think, what would we do if we went back in time to a certain period of time? Do you prepare for the exam carefully and try to do a good job; do you remember a few more lottery numbers so that you can get rich one day; or do you cherish the person who was once by your side?
This kind of assumption, let yourself fall into the bottomless thinking and regret, in fact, if the time can be turned back, you may not choose a different answer, as people often say, God let you choose which road then this road must be the best, so we do not have to worry about the road we have traveled in the past, but should be based on the present, grasp the present, the present is the best.
I remember that in "Love Apartment", Lu Ziqiao once said a sentence: Life is not acting, every day is live broadcast.
Yeah, live streaming means no replays. Our life is limited, and youth is like the sunniest, clearest, and best journey on the road of life, each of us will experience this part of the road, and likewise, we will miss it.
There is no way for us to be able to stay at that time, and can only say that I will not regret the decision I made, the path I chose, and it was all worth it in my opinion.
As Ostrovsky said: A person's life should be spent in such a way that when a person looks back on the past, he does not regret his wasted years, nor is he ashamed of his inaction...