In fact, seeing the light and dying is not the most tragic situation that will be encountered in online dating.
Being cheated of feelings, and being cheated of money is.
Five months ago, Mr. Chen attended an online blind date and quickly fell in love with a young sister.
During the period of communication, the woman has been borrowing money from Mr. Chen for various reasons. But never.
At first it was only tentative, three or four hundred. Seeing that Mr. Chen did not refuse several times, his courage gradually grew.
Once asked for 10,000 yuan and said that he was hospitalized.
Mr. Chen felt that this was a perfect opportunity to face the base, so he rushed to accompany him and wanted to give a surprise.
Unexpectedly, I only saw one man.
The other party claimed to be the younger brother of the younger sister and mistakenly took the sister's mobile phone.
Mr. Chen was a little skeptical, but he believed it anyway. After all, how could such a bizarre thing happen to oneself?
But once doubt exists, it takes root.
After a few months, Mr. Chen still felt that there was something wrong with the other party.
Because several video calls were prevaricated by the other party, they called the police.
The end result: the man who claimed to be his younger brother had been impersonating a lady to make friends with scams.
After 5 months of interaction, Mr. Chen was deceived by about 200,000 yuan.
It is ironic that the person I have been dating for a long time can't figure out the gender.
In fact, even if they do meet, some people can pretend that the lady is very well dressed, making it impossible to distinguish.
The movie "Lady Boy" tells a series of stories caused by a male actor pretending to be a lady in his life.
01
Mike is a good actor.
But he could neither be special enough to be impressive, nor handsome enough.
Can only be mixed all day in small plays and soap opera cameos.
Once, the logical question of whether a tomato could sit down was too real, offended the advertiser, and almost lost his job.
Learning from a friend that a soap opera is interviewing an actress, Mike disguises himself to audition in order to make ends meet.
The disguised Mike is named Peach, and she positions herself as a serious and old-fashioned woman, but open-minded and independent.
Her unique personality allowed her to get the role of head nurse of the hospital.
Peach's first scene is to kiss an old man.
She used her wit to dodge this kiss in the play, but unexpectedly did not escape the kiss outside the play.
When Peach is in the dressing room, another actress, Julie, will change her clothes in front of her.
Peach can only quickly avoid.
Since then, Mike has lived two different lives.
On one side are the unknown male actors, and on the other side are the increasingly popular actresses.
02
Julie is the little nurse in the crew, with a beautiful and simple personality.
Peach likes her.
But Julie and the director are dating.
Peach has seen the director stealing love behind Julie's back many times.
Julie also knows these things, she just doesn't have the courage to end the relationship.
The same was true of the previous relationship, so although Julie was still unmarried, she had a two-year-old daughter.
In Peach, Julie saw the independent side of women, so she was deeply encouraged and broke up with the director.
Peach becomes Julie's friend and learns julie's mate selection criteria.
However, when he confessed to Julie as Mike, he was still splashed with wine.
The degree of embarrassment is no less than Zhang Boyang's hook-up paragraph: Hello, go away.
In order to pursue Julie, Peach decided to continue to dress as a man.
At this time, Julie invited Peach to go on vacation in an old house in the countryside.
Peach gladly agreed.
However, what awaits him is a blind date with Julie's father.
Yes, Julie's father took a fancy to Peach.
In the face of the pursuit of the future old man, Tao Tao seems to have ten thousand horses roaring past in her heart.
In the evening, Peach is also arranged to share a bed with her sweetheart, Julie.
However, in the face of the other party's honesty and trust, he did not know how to tell the truth.
After returning from vacation, Peach shows her heart to Julie, but is rejected.
Because Julie knows that her father likes Peach, she can't accept Peach for his father's sake.
When Peach wants to reveal her true identity, an accident comes.
Julie's father asked Peach to meet, and after meeting, Peach could not refuse, so he put up a marriage proposal diamond ring.
Peach was extremely shocked and fled.
When I got downstairs, before I could ease up, I met my actor colleague in the soap opera, the old man who had forcibly kissed the peach.
He followed Peach to learn Peach's address, and also forcefully entered Peach's house through some means to confess.
Peach's refusal was understood by the man as a desire to refuse to return the favor, and almost raped Peach Peach.
Just as Peach was about to knock him down, the roommate returned.
The old man thought that it was Peach's boyfriend who had returned, and fled into the wilderness.
Peach didn't understand how things had turned out the way they were.
03
Mike is desperate to get rid of Peach's identity and become his true self.
Always playing, it's really too tired, and the emperor can't stand it.
It just so happened that the soap opera he participated in ushered in an opportunity for live video.
Peach tampered with the lines, said what she had always wanted to say, and cleverly showed her male identity.
At this moment, Julie angrily gave Peach a punch, Julie's father was so surprised that his dentures fell out, and the actor who pursued Peach collapsed on the sofa.
Only the director said happily: I knew that there was a reason why she didn't like me.
After the truth came out, Peach's fame took to the next level, and he invested in his friends' drama and returned to real life.
But he couldn't let go of Julie.
So he cheekily went to seek the forgiveness of Julie's father.
Julie's father looked at the face next to him, and his smile gradually solidified.
Seeing the diamond ring returned by the other party, he resisted the idea of killing the other party and let him go out and give it again.
Mike also confesses that he likes the old man's daughter Julie and asks if he has a chance.
Julie's father laughed again.
However, the old man was more open-minded than the young man, and he quickly accepted the fact.
Mike was so happy that he waited at the spot where Julie left work, trying to explain to Julie.
He said that he used to like Julie as a peach identity, and now needs to change his identity to be more practical and real. But in his heart, Peach is still a part of him.
Julie accepted Mike.
Deception is not advisable, but feelings and sincerity cannot deceive people.
04
In fact, it's not just Mike who has a dual identity, we all have it.
For the sake of life, play a good partner, a good employee, a good child, even a good passerby, and so on.
Mike was also labeled with a lot of labels in the play: gay, lesbian, independent woman, etc.
We are often bound by labels of all kinds of thoughts.
But at the end of the day, we're just ourselves.
When friends in the play advise Mike, they say: Don't just think about being a great actor Mike, or a great waiter Mike, just be Mike.
Don't forget who you are because of those labels and people.