If in real life, foxes and roses, who would you choose?
Earlier, when I wrote a column on reading and writing, "Efficient Reading, The Way to Writing Monetization", I mentioned several reading methods.
It has been mentioned that classic books are worth reading again and again. For example, "Dream of the Red Chamber", "Siege of the City", "Shepherd Boy Fantasy Journey"...
So, let's talk about the book I read again and again recently: The Little Prince.
Yes, still the little prince. The Chinese translation of "The Little Prince" is only more than 20,000 words, in fact, the comments and insights I have written about this book are already more than the number of words in the book.
I have analyzed the relationship between many characters in "The Little Prince" and the Little Prince in the book review before:
The Fox teaches the Little Prince a lesson in the growth of the Little Prince: We spend our whole lives learning how to love
The love between the fox and the little prince has also been analyzed separately:
"The Little Prince" Fox: There is love in the heart, how can it be pitiful? The sound of the wind blowing wheat waves will make people happy
What I want to explore today is, fox and rose, if in real life, who would you choose?
Adults reading "The Little Prince" can always read a variety of flavors, in the final analysis, the understanding of life and emotions is different, so everyone's choice will be different.
It is often said that it is a pity to see the little prince give up such a brilliant fox for the sake of roses. So I will also wonder, why did the little prince identify the rose? Even at the cost of life, you have to return to the side of the rose, why is it so persistent?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > people who can't forget their first love, perhaps they miss their innocent but immature self when they miss their first love</h1>
What kind of feelings does the little prince have for roses?
There is no doubt that Rose is somewhat proud and conceited, and in her dealings with the little prince, she likes to dominate the little prince, she is not modest at all, but she is beautiful and moving. So the little prince is hopelessly in love with the rose, and he thinks that he has a responsibility to protect the rose, so he is obedient to the rose.
Until the moment when the little prince left, Rose realized that she also loved the little prince deeply. She doesn't know how to express her feelings to the point of missing out. She regretted it in her heart, but it was too late to regret it.
So what kind of rose are we seeing? As Eason Chan sang in "Red Rose": those who are favored have no fear.
In fact, in real life, there are many such examples.
The story of the Little Prince and the Rose was originally the story between the author Antoine de Saint-Exupéry and his wife Consouro Socin. After meeting Consour, Saint Exupéry fell madly in love with Consouro and embarked on a passionate pursuit. The two married after 7 months of acquaintance.
But the profession of a pilot in Saint-Exupéry made their lives very unstable, and the differences in lifestyle and personality made them have many contradictions, and the couple was not good at managing money, even if the family was rich, they could not afford the splurge of the two, so their lives were often very poor.
They are also unable to integrate into each other's lives, often quarrel over small things, and each other has been unfaithful to married life, so that the contradictions have intensified, and the husband and wife eventually become strangers.
Therefore, the prototype of the little prince is the author himself, and the rose is his beautiful but very wayward wife.
Some feelings always go farther and farther for various reasons. For the little prince, the rose was the white moonlight he loved. Perhaps the little prince did not understand until the end that roses need more love and security, which made the little prince give up his life to return to roses.
I think that the little prince is an idealistic person, so he can always keep a childlike heart, keep the original heart, and never forget the rose, he is a person who can never forget his first love.
In fact, people who can't forget their first love may just miss their innocent but immature self when they first love.
Therefore, the little prince insisted on leaving the fox and going back to find the rose, perhaps this was his fate, the only way for him to heal himself by going back in time.
It's just that in reality, I'm afraid there won't be roses waiting for us in the same place, after all, "some people are not there once they miss it."
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > people who have the ability to make themselves happy, and also have the ability to make their lovers happy</h1>
In fact, when I discussed with many friends, most people said that they would choose foxes.
The fox knows how to love the little prince, knows how to tolerate and understand the little prince, the fox is mature and wise, almost perfect!
What kind of feeling is there between the fox and the little prince?
More than one friend mentioned that there is no love between the fox and the little prince. The reason is that the fox in the original French and English versions uses the male "he". I have not read the French version, but I have read the English version, and indeed use the "He", and in the Chinese translation, the male "he" is also used.
However, I personally think there is nothing wrong with this, in fact, love itself is a very broad concept, and sincere love is not limited to gender.
So there is no doubt that the fox is true love for the little prince. Even if the little prince leaves, the fox can still miss the little prince in the sound of the wind blowing the wheat waves.
And the little prince? In the heart of the little prince, the fox is the unique friend of the world.
That's the relationship between them. Like the little prince and the rose, there is always one party that is loved and cannot be loved.
But the fox is different from the rose, the fox is not pretentious, he is very wise. Rose is a beautiful and wayward girl, while fox is a wise uncle with mature thoughts and emotional management.
In fact, the fox is the one who can really make the little prince happy. Under the guidance of the fox, the little prince understood what love was, and realized that his love for roses was so persistent. It can be said that under the guidance of the fox, the little prince has found his own happiness.
Therefore, the fox is very wise, knows how to love, has the ability to make himself happy, and has the ability to make others happy!
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Honestly, I personally prefer to see a story of "meeting better people after a breakup" and I hope the little prince can be with the fox.
The ending in the story is rather regrettable, the little prince knows his importance to the fox, but his heart is on the rose.
The little prince knew that "it is much farther and more difficult to go home", but he still has no remorse and does not change his original intention.
Was the little prince bitten to death by a snake? There is no clear answer. Perhaps we can also think that this symbolizes the end of the little prince's childhood. Has the little prince really returned to the roses? unknown.
Can the little prince and rose in real life come true? It should be said that it is not easy. A friend said it well, there is always a reason to miss it, and even if you start over, some problems still exist.
Therefore, I have to say that there are always many regrets in life, but a life with flaws is a complete life!
So, what kind of love can last forever?
I prefer to believe that it may be easier to have a lover like a fox for a long time.
Two people who love each other, if they can be children in front of each other, that relationship may be long-lasting.
Each other can reveal the purest, softest and most fragile side of their hearts in front of each other, and can get the other party's response, understanding and care, so that it is easy to accompany the twilight for a lifetime.
In front of the little prince, the rose can be a child, she is unscrupulous, can be spoiled, can be willful, she can get the tolerance of the little prince, and the little prince can only be an adult in front of the rose.
But in fact, the little prince is also a child in his heart, he longs for roses to understand him, and he longs to be a child in front of the people he loves, but roses cannot bear the responsibility of accommodating and understanding the little prince.
Unlike foxes, foxes know how to melt each other's hearts with love, and know how to tolerate and understand their lovers. In front of the fox, just be yourself.
Therefore, having a lover like a fox, and at the same time loving someone who loves himself like a fox, will be happy.