By chance, I used an anime character as an avatar, and therefore I got acquainted with this film, watched this "Side Ear Listening" with my lover, felt this strong love, if you have not seen it, I suggest you want to take a look at it with your dear him, if you have seen it, I also hope that my sharing will make your life more clear.
Where does liking come from, this question asks a thousand people, there will be a thousand answers, because everyone's love begins differently, but in these different loves, there are many common points, at this moment I want to enjoy it with you.
The most beautiful appearance of love, must not escape these three points, let's feel it together.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, evenly matched</h1>
The encounter between a boy and a girl, to be honest, stems from a library card, and the so-called love may be that a person always appears in your field of vision, and then one day you begin to be curious about this person and begin to have all the fantasies about this person.
People who appear by chance are like a glimpse, although you may be blushing at the time, but as the two no longer intersect with each other, this feeling is decreasing.
"I didn't see his person, but I heard his name", the name of Shengji and the person corresponding to him made Ah Wen's heart no longer calm.
Is it the same with you and his beginnings?
The frequent appearance of the book card of the saint made Ah Wen, who loved to read, realize. In this large library, there was another person named Saji, who loved to read as much as he did, and he was ahead of her.
In the code of human genetics, "competition" is precisely written on it, such a kind of appearance, so that Ah Wen is more desperate to read, and more often to see and remember this guy named Shengji.
The so-called good love, I think the first one is equal, you are good, but I am not bad.
Where you go, I have also set foot in. The books you've read, I've been crazy about.
Even if not, I have planted a seed for all this, waiting for the time to ripen and blossom naturally.
The love between Jane and Rochester in "Jane Eyre", although the material gap between the two is huge, but Jane's inner temperament is intrinsically beautiful, which is more than the countess that Rochester has seen, so that the spiritual equality makes the two finally happy.
For girls, the equality of strength is a kind of love, but also a kind of requirements for themselves, can not covet everything that others have given, gratitude, but also to make themselves able to achieve all this.
I remember a scene in the movie, Shengji rode a bicycle on the back seat with Ah Wen, on the way to see the scenery, encountered a very high uphill, Saint Si laboriously riding, Ah Wen insisted on it to reduce the pressure of Shengji, but Shengji did not allow it, he said: "He just wants to pull Ah Wen and ride up the hill." ”
Ah Wen, finally came down to help push the cart, Ah Wen said: "I don't want to be your burden, but to be your help."
Evenly matched love, really beautiful.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two, appreciate each other</h1>
Love begins with the wind and snow, and it is thought of in the twilight. But in the end, they lost to each other and then left the scene.
At first, we let ourselves fall in love because of each other's merits, and our eyes, ears, and hearts are each other's shadows, and those touches, those beautiful things are temporarily remembered and magnified.
In the film, Ah Wen is full of appreciation for Shengji, admiring that he has read many books, appreciating that he can choose his own path, and appreciating his craft of making violins.
And when did the Saint Priest in the movie notice Ah Wen? Although there is no specific explanation in the film, I think it must be earlier than Ah Wen, because in the film he said that he had sat next to Ah Wen reading a book and observing her, but Ah Wen did not know anything about it.
I think that at that time, Shengji only had some simple curiosity about Ah Wen, but this curiosity slowly turned into appreciation, and later into feelings for her.
There was once a photo that swept the whole network, that is, the milk tea sister Zhang Zetian looked at the photo of her husband Liu Qiangdong, a face of confused sister feeling, full of admiration and appreciation for Brother Qiang.
Although many unsatisfactory things happened later, I think that the appreciation of a person is like a cough that can't help but be inadvertently revealed.
Appreciating each other, it's not just about staying true to the beginning of love, it's about to be a lifelong exploration in your relationship.
Sometimes my husband would say to me, "I think you're getting more and more cute, why didn't you find out before?" "The deeper I go, the more I appreciate, and I will feel that I have married the right person, although there will be quarrels, but this appreciation is more and more intense." 」
Time, although it can dilute a lot of things, but also make a lot of things deepen, precipitate, brew wonderful.
Turn mutual appreciation into the constant theme of your love, only in this way will love last forever and be endlessly reminiscent.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, synergistic growth</h1>
Once heard a story to describe the relationship between men and women in love, men are like trees, women are like vines coiled on the tree, if the tree does not grow for a long time, limited to their own height, and the vine is constantly growing and progressing, then eventually the vine will not look at its own tree, so it will climb a higher tree.
If the vine stops growing, and the tree continues to progress and optimize, it will eventually look down on the vine of its own home, and eventually let other people's vines climb on its own, or find a vine that matches itself more.
This is like love, once heard a period of logical thinking, Luo Fat Er once said this problem, men and women can maintain love, the best way is to co-evolve.
In the movie, Seiji goes all out to work hard for his dreams, strives to improve himself, and wants to become the world's first-class violin-making technician. And Ah Wen, also tried her best, wrote her first novel, although the novel is still relatively young, but the grandfathers who have read the novel said: "Thank you, the writing is very good... Rough, blunt, like The Violin of the Holy Division... I can see clearly your ungroundd rough that you have just unearthed, and you have worked very hard. ”
At that moment, the tears that poured out of her eyes were both bitter and sweet, and the heart that was originally hanging could finally be put down, and there was also trepidation and inferiority, and everything was settled. Her own practice also made her aware of the nothingness of fantasy and the limitations of her own abilities, all of which stemmed from the eagerness to keep up with the pace of the Saint.'
Undoubtedly, she fell in love with the right person, and The Sage led him into a world that was much newer than ever.
Although I don't know what the future will look like, I am willing to meet the best of myself for you, to meet a person, whether it is love or friendship, if this feeling can let you meet the best of yourself, this feeling is worth your efforts.
I remember when I first wrote an article on the headline, I always cared about the growth of fans, I was happy about the growth of fans, I was sad when the fans fell, completely swayed by the number of fans, and forgot why I wrote, what the meaning of writing was, and I didn't remember at all.
At that time, Mr. Huang, who was still my boyfriend, gave me a lot of encouragement, at least he told me not to care, to insist on writing first, as long as I write, I will always have gains.
Although I don't have many fans, the quality of my articles is uneven, and there are many places that need to be improved, I really met a better version of myself in the process of writing, to meet the world that I did not step into.
I used to listen to a lot of lectures, but now he has left me behind for a long time, and my reading plan and study plan must also be put on the agenda, at least mentally, I want to be similar to mr.
Co-evolution, must be the only law of love preservation, so in the story, reality is also so, no matter what you are doing at the moment, I hope that this is you respect your own heart and do, love at the beginning, is you in front, I am behind, but in the future I think I will keep up with your pace.
Let our love go on and on.