Different people have different definitions of success, some people think that as long as they achieve their ultimate goal, they are successful, and they do not pay attention to how to achieve success.
As a result, there are some successful experiences that are unimaginable to ordinary people.
Qian Lulu, a professor at the World Famous California Institute of Technology, can be described as a talented woman who combines beauty and academics. Being able to achieve what she has achieved today is inseparable from her efforts, but at the same time, it has also left some flaws that are difficult for ordinary people to understand.
In the year of the college entrance examination, Qian Lulu's overall performance was relatively general, so she was only admitted to nanjing railway medical college. However, her luck was good, because after the Nanjing Railway Medical College was merged by Southeast University, it was renamed Southeast University Medical College, and in the blink of an eye, it was directly transformed from an ordinary university into a "985" university, and the gold content of the academic certificate doubled several times.
After the merger of the school, Qian Lulu met her first husband, and the two talked very well, so the feelings between the two sides quickly warmed up, and each other decided that each other was the person who accompanied her all her life. Then, after graduating from undergraduate, the two stepped into the palace of marriage.
Qian Lulu has a dream of scientific research in her heart, so since college, she has carefully prepared for the examination and research, but her first examination experience was not smooth, and she was not admitted to the university of her choice. So after graduating from undergraduate, she chose to work.
However, after a year of work, Qian Lulu still felt a little unwilling, and her husband also saw her inner thoughts, so he supported her to continue to prepare for the graduate school. This time, Qian Lulu succeeded, and was also admitted to the graduate school of Shanghai Jiao Tong University, a well-known "985" university, which is getting closer and closer to her scientific research dream.
However, what people did not expect was that Qian Lulu's husband's decision would make him regret it for the rest of his life. If there was no support for Qian Lulu's examination and research, perhaps the lives of both of them would have been rewritten.
During her graduate studies at Shanghai Jiaotong University, Qian Lulu met a brother who was also studying at Shanghai Jiaotong University, Qian Lulu was young and beautiful, and her brother was handsome and young, so the two attracted each other. It was just that at that time, Qian Lulu was a wife with a husband, and the brother also had a girlfriend who was in a relationship, and as a result, the two abandoned the other half, even if they were subject to external criticism, they had to choose to stick together.
After that, the two stepped into the palace of marriage, and with the help of her second husband, Qian Lulu not only improved her scientific research and academic ability, but also hitched a ride and published a high-level paper, which also paved the way for her to be admitted to the doctorate later.
When she was studying for her Doctorate, Qian Lulu met and met a high-achieving student who was also studying for a Doctorate, and he was Qian Lulu's third husband. We all know that the doctorate is easy to graduate, the high graduation threshold makes many doctoral students worry, but with the help of Qian Lulu's third husband, all this is not so difficult, to have articles, to have financial support and financial support, just like this, Qian Lulu's doctoral stage is very smooth, and even some people are a little surprised by the speed of her doctoral graduation.
During her doctoral studies, Qian Lulu met a strong professor at the California Institute of Technology, Winfree, the two of them had a good feeling for each other during the exchange, as the contact time became longer and longer, they knew each other more and more, and then Qian Lulu made a decision, that is, to marry Winfree, so Winfree became Qian Lulu's fourth husband.
Winfree's scientific and academic strength is very strong, which can be seen from his ability to work as a professor at the California Institute of Technology on his own. And Winfree is also very protective of Qian Lulu, and is partial to her in everything.
Qian Lulu wanted to teach at caltech, but at that time her resume was difficult to be recognized by caltech, and in order to achieve her goal, Winfree offered to resign from the school, saying that she was going to work in a school that could give them both a job at the same time. The California Institute of Technology is also worried about the loss of excellent teachers, so it agreed to Winfree's request and provided Qian Lulu with a job, and Qian Lulu also knows how to seize the opportunity, since teaching at the California Institute of Technology, she has continuously published new academic results, and now she has become a veritable professor.
Today, Qian Lulu's achievements are undoubtedly successful for her personally, but looking at her path to success, it is inevitable that people will be criticized. Her first 3 husbands were used as stepping stones by her, so much so that people wondered whether they chose to be together out of genuine liking or because they saw that there was value in each other that was worth using.
Although everyone aspires to success, they still hope to rely more on their own efforts. As the old saying goes: A gentleman loves money and has a way to get it. Only in this way can we stand up and be a person, and can we avoid the criticism and accusations of others.
What do you think of Qian Lulu's experience?