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During this time, I was watching a variety show "Goodbye Lover", to be honest, I didn't like Guo Keyu at first, I felt that this woman was a bit contrived, always giving people a feeling of being upright. Speaking coldly, emotional intelligence does not seem to be high. His husband even carries a full stomach of resentment, the interaction between the two people is very little, it can be said that they hate each other, but maintain a superficial peace.
After watching a few issues, her impression of her changed a little, and she felt that this woman had indeed been wronged in ten years of marriage, and represented the appearance of most women's marriages. At the beginning, I felt that I had reached the marriageable age, wanted to find a good boy to marry, had a good expectation for marriage, wanted a husband, and wanted a child who belonged to each other.
It is okay to think that two people have no feelings, as long as the boy has a good character, he can cultivate feelings after marriage. But she wasn't lucky enough, the boy was really good and good to her. However, in ten years, he did not cultivate into a close lover, but gradually lived a co-living man and a woman.
Just like Guo Keyu said, he can't enter my world, and I don't want to go to his world. Her husband Zhang He said that it is true that we do not appreciate each other and do not want to enter each other's world.
However, if you carefully observe The performance of each issue of Zhang He, you will feel that he is deliberately difficult to reconcile in his heart, and even has a full of grievances and heartache. I think his subtext is, you see my man is very good, these years have been very good to you, what dissatisfaction do you have, why don't you know my good, you still feel unsatisfied, you still left me.
Many men feel that as long as there are no bad habits, no things that are sorry for the family, and the money earned is handed over to the wife, even if it is a good husband. He didn't think about his wife's emotional needs or respond to her calls.
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Guo Keyu is a very literary woman, she is very delicate and gentle, is a dignified middle-aged woman. Until the appearance of Ni Ping, I understood Guo Keyu's former glory, and when she was 17 years old, she was a very good actress with the three "queen" laurels of the "Red Cherry" Shanghai Film Festival.
Ni Ping said, you acted so well, what did you do later?
Guo Keyu smiled awkwardly and did not answer. Doesn't she regret her past glory, in the past ten years, she has worked hard to manage the marriage, but still did not let each other fall in love with each other. Even in the eyes of the other party, establish the most hated look.
Zhang He said that we have no love, we can have family affection. In the future, we will take care of the children together and get along in a different role.
Shen Yifei, a professor of sociology, said that in fact, family affection is a higher level of link, which is a stage that is more difficult to establish than love. Two people have no love, and they can't return to the stage of family affection, and they can only be said to be a familiar ordinary friend.
However, in the process of getting along with Guo Keyu and Zhang He, they found that they knew each other so well, and even when describing each other's appearance, they were so accurate that the portraits were amazingly drawn. That is to say, the appearance of the other party is deeply imprinted in their own hearts, and they even say that they still care about each other.
During these eighteen days, the two people gradually opened each other's hearts, became closer and closer, and even joked with each other. Guo Keyu and Zhang He both expressed their inner appeals, letting each other know what they cared about most.
Guo Keyu said that when they were together, they would try to communicate. But what she said he didn't like to hear, even a little perfunctory, very impatient, even a little incomprehensible. Over time, I don't want to say it.
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The more you don't say it, the more you don't know what the other person is thinking, the more you don't want to talk to the other party, and your life gradually becomes a dead end.
Zhang He also began to reflect later, and he slowly understood Guo Keyu's appeal. Guo Keyu's world is only him, she only has to tell him about the trivialities of life, to compile the world she wants, this cage-like marriage, the girl who gave up her ideals, is willing to give everything for this family, only wants to get the understanding of her husband.
Guo Keyu also gradually understood that although this man behaved very coldly, as if he didn't care about anything, he also needed a woman to gently coddle him and wanted to talk sweetly to him.
Just like in a certain issue, Guo Keyu was forced by WeiWei to perform a pampering look to Zhang He, Zhang He was tickled by her voice, and the smile on his face could no longer be hidden.
The biggest game in love is that two people feel that they are important and must not lose to each other. If you say you don't love me, I'll definitely reply that I don't love you either. You expressed that you definitely don't want to miss it, and I will respond with a very annoying you.
Don't lose to the other party in momentum, even if you don't think so in your heart, even if you have been crazy missed, even if you don't want to leave the other party. But it is a competition, that is, not acknowledging the real feelings.
Guo Keyu and Zhang He slowly walked into each other, slowly no longer repelling each other, and even willing to listen to each other's hearts. I remember when Thirty-Six asked, the two people did not have a pleasant conversation. Guo Keyu even felt that the thing he regretted the most was ten years of housewife life, and he was in tears when he said it. Guo Keyu finally asked Zhang He, in the year after the divorce, have you ever thought about not getting back together every minute and every second of the day?
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Zhang He replied, no. Since I was divorced, I never thought about it.
Guo Keyu was in the car back, in tears. She said that she had thought about not remarrying in the past year, right?
Waiting for the last day, the program team asked that two people sit in different cars. As the hourglass passed, in five minutes, the two men had to make the final decision, whether to get off the bus or not to get off. If you get off the bus, the representative gives the other party a chance. Not getting out of the car means that you don't want to continue to have anything to do with it.
After ZhangHe put the hourglass away, he quickly pulled the car door and got out of the car. He said he had already thought about it and wanted to give each other a chance.
Guo Keyu did not get off the car for a long time, as the hourglass quicksand ended, the car started slowly, she did not make a final decision, but the tears broke the embankment in an instant.
Soon after, she chose to let the driver stop and walked down to hug ZhangHe. I think that this eighteen-day trip, the most surprising thing to me is this pair, and the biggest surprise is also this pair.
It takes a lot of courage to suddenly find that the other party is not bad and willing to give each other a chance. Because you may repeat the mistakes of the past, or you may be too whimsical.
But Zhang He is a man worthy of trust, just to see if he is willing to open his heart, accept Guo Keyu's delicate expression, and be willing to change his way of getting along for her.
I also hope that Guo Keyu can express his feelings, and I think Zhang He will definitely be willing to change.