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"Goodbye Lover" is definitely the ceiling of the emotional program, and I don't know when I became a member of the "urging group". Every week I look forward to wednesday and then I can watch Goodbye Lover. Every time I watch the show, my mood is so complicated, and I look forward to the next episode quickly.
Before watching the show today, I also sent a status: every Wednesday I was looking forward to the broadcast of "Goodbye Lover", and the first time I chased a variety show, it was still a divorce variety show.
When the perspective is facing those who are not so beautiful, the viciousness displayed at this time is real.
There is beauty in love, but when the good no longer exists, when we reminisce about the past, what kind of feelings do you have for him? What kind of state of mind do you have?
In the latest issue of "Goodbye Lover", when Zhang He's third aunt asked Guo Keyu about the idea of remarriage, Guo Keyu said that the two would never be able to remarry. At first, I didn't quite understand why Guo Keyu didn't remarry, but when I saw the interview with Guo Keyu on the "People" public account, I suddenly understood why the two of them could not remarry, and I fell more in love with Guo Keyu, such a beautiful woman.
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Guo Keyu is very gentle, giving people a very comfortable feeling, the communication between her and Zhang He will make people feel a little suffocated, she is so weak but very hard to say "I am sorry for that decade, I have no love with Zhang He", but no matter what she is, I still can't hate her, she is so attractive, very attractive, and intriguing.
I like to listen to Guo Keyu speak, I prefer to listen to her singing, when the last episode of the program plus was broadcast, Guo Keyu played the harmonica that was really beautiful. At that moment, unlike other netizens, I especially wanted to say to Zhang He, "How did you lose such a beautiful woman as Guo Keyu?"
After watching the interview with Guo Keyu in "People", "Guo Keyu, a woman's life trek", I like her and feel sorry for her. Really, like Guo Keyu Zhanghe this pair of CP netizens, I recommend you to read this article, when you read it, you will not have so much prejudice against Guo Keyu, you will also understand why she does not want to remarry again, you can also find out how beautiful and real Guo Keyu is a person.
Some people may not understand, since you don't want to remarry and have never loved your ex-husband, then why would you come to the show "Goodbye Lover"?
Guo Keyu was also very resistant to participating in the show at first, because in the era of her debut, the entertainment ecological environment at that time was different from now. When she debuted in the 90s, "you are an actor, not an entertainer, you have to talk about the work." But now that the entertainment ecosystem has changed, there are live broadcasts and even more ways, and she is particularly afraid of others desecrating her sincerity.
The most direct reason about participating in the show: because after the divorce, she has to earn money, to raise children, and will face a lot of practical problems, so she does not allow herself to narrowly exclude and resist.
She rode with Zhang He in the show, when Zhang He was about to turn a corner, to see if there was a car behind her, she naturally said "dear".
Guo Keyu's own explanation was: "I will lean on him and say dear, can you know that it is not just love?" Sometimes they become friends, but they will have this natural name. Much more affectionate than love. I will not be ambiguous, I hug him sincerely, I think it is not easy for each other. The two of us were destined to share this scene, and when we arrived at such a magnificent place as nature, the love between heaven and earth was too insignificant. Love is too small, or it is a little thin on its level. You warm me, and I want to warm you, and we want to be sentient and righteous. ”
When I saw this paragraph, I simply loved Guo Keyu.
She was such a wonderful, so free-spirited person.
What is the love between heaven and earth, in that magnificent and good river and mountain, it is fate and a blessing to be able to share the beauty with you. Divorced two people can also get along very well, why two people are always bitter and bitter, there is no need.
Guo Keyu had already let go of those children's love in the past, and whether it was resentment or resentment, it was all over. Something had happened to her, but she didn't resent it anymore.
Guo Keyu doesn't even know what CP is? Presumably, she was also quite confused when she saw the word "Zhanghe Guo Keyu CP".
She is such a real and simple person with a true temperament.
I understand why she said on the show that "these two days have been a little heartwarming for Zhanghe", she is saying that she feels the most authentic. I just speak up about my feelings, and you don't have to resonate with me, it's how I feel, at the moment, and I want to say it.
She said she got into marriage because she wanted to be a mother, to settle down, to have a child, to have a lifelong relationship, and I was always with him. But after entering the marriage, she found herself ignoring one very important thing: personality incompatibility.
She can put herself down for marriage, can not work, career, do not want past achievements, can live a life of chai rice oil and salt, she also likes to live a simple life with a baby to cook rice, go to the supermarket to buy vegetables, but if the two people are not compatible, such a marriage will make you very weak.
"I think it's still my own incompetence, I can't run with me."
She said she had changed a lot, but still couldn't, like two isolated islands, not together.
Zhang He said that Guo Keyu did not affirm him, but Guo Keyu said that he did not understand, and the communication between two people is not on the same level, which will really produce a lot of misunderstandings. Zhang He is impatient, and Guo Keyu is very sensible, she is not a person who likes to complain, many times you don't want to listen, she has no desire to talk.
Guo Keyu endured a lot for the sake of his children.
After ten years of marriage, she did not do the work she particularly liked, and in that decade, the circle changed, and she became a little out of place, and it was not so easy for a person who had been born for too long to re-enter the world.
Guo Keyu in 2016, there was a problem with her body, she described her sick state, said that "after being sick, the worst time can only read four words in one breath, the biggest feeling every day is the change of breath", she likes to sing a person, but even the song can not be sung, let alone comeback.
After getting sick, Guo Keyu was still fat, and when he was the fattest, he was full of thirty or forty pounds.
When I was pregnant with my second child, I suddenly gained thirty or forty pounds, I know that feeling, every day looking at your bloated figure, you will be very unconfident, you will look at your own figure with a deep sense of guilt.
Guo Keyu said that she also felt guilty, but she felt that it was something outside of her body.
She also described a detail, "When I go to the hospital, I just take a plastic bag, put my phone and car keys, and if I'm a little heavier, I will feel uncomfortable." I wondered, are those designer bags useful?"
When I saw this, I was particularly distressed about Guo Keyu.
When Guo Keyu was ill, she often got up at four or five o'clock in the morning to go to the hospital to queue up for registration, and when she talked about her understanding of life, it would make people inexplicably feel a little distressed, and admired her transparency. After the heart problem, many things made her unable to do anything, and she could no longer take care of the children, take care of her husband, and deal with the chores of the family.
She sees illness as a revelation to herself that she is going to respect herself.
It is precisely because of this illness that she is more determined to end this marriage, to end a state of unease that everyone is bound to each other, and I want to use myself better.
After a serious illness, she wants to use herself better, she wants to live well and live up to herself.
When you read Guo Keyu's interview, you will feel that she is particularly vital.
From here, it can also be judged that she and Zhang He should be hopeless to remarry, and she did not have a very happy marriage, but a big net bound herself, and it was difficult to escape, is it difficult to go back?
"I am very grateful in my heart for this disease, which is an unattainable sense of life, so that I seem to think more about the meaning of life." 」
Guo Keyu is a wonderful person, very tasteful, and her understanding of life is also very unique, she is very sensitive, but this sensitivity will make her more real.
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Guo Keyu also talked about her views on acting and singing, her world is also very rich, and marriage is only a small part. She loves music so much, she loves acting, she loves all the good things. She is a free and sensible person, when she married Zhang He, there was no dowry, no wedding, because her mother said, "Don't be embarrassed, people are so young and have no mother, and the actor has just started."
She said she wouldn't please and cater to men, but could progress together, grow together, and have things to talk about.
But it's also too hard to reach a state of equilibrium.
Guo Keyu also explained her own line of work in the show, the team hopes that she can be decent, but she really can't take care of so much, and she doesn't care so much, because it's too cold. Guo Keyu is actually really beautiful, she is not the kind of woman who looks very stunning, but she is particularly charming and very attractive.
Life must not be all glamorous, do not invent an illusion. Let it be as close to the truth as possible, so that a person's vitality can come more solidly.
This is a sentence of Guo Keyu's own understanding of life.
I admire her philosophy of life, she also said that she will watch this variety show with her children, and she feels that in the relationship between the sexes, they should be able to treat each other kindly. I can see from the interview that she and Zhang He should not be reunited, but I do not feel sorry for them, on the contrary, I admire Guo Keyu, a woman, and she knows what she wants.
Let her have herself well and live for herself.
Zhang He said that "in fact, there are many communication problems in our marriage that are not very smooth", Guo Keyu said that "Zhang He may have another reason, will not listen, or can not understand", the ability to listen in marriage is also very important, Guo Keyu so like to say details, Zhang He so thick lines, the two of them are not so suitable.
Bless Guo Keyu, she is a very beautiful person, with a pure heart and vitality.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.