When "Goodbye Lover" entered the penultimate day, the emotions of the six guests were released to the maximum, almost all of them were harmonious and beautiful, happiness was infinite, and the big ending that heralded a happy reunion made us melon-eating masses also enjoy it.
In particular, Zhang He, the pectoral muscle man of the "Octopus Group", performed at the peak of the 11th issue, beyond imagination, so that Guo Keyu exclaimed continuously: What is wrong with him? Have you drunk too much? Then there's the habitual touching of the head and patting the butt, which makes people wonder: Do these two people seem to have no love?
From the first issue, Zhang He gave people the feeling of being very manly, not smiling, and the communication with his ex-wife Guo Keyu was either the wandering in the eyes or the words with a strong smell of gunpowder, and the ineffective communication between the two people was moved to the program, which made people particularly depressed and helpless.
However, with the slow deepening of the trip and the careful arrangement of the program group, Zhang He's performance has become more and more relaxed, and the interaction with Guo Keyu has become more and more sweet, and netizens have called out directly: Go to get a certificate to remarry.
In fact, after reading the 11th issue, carefully comb through Zhang He, I didn't think he was bad, let alone bad, just like the old saying: "In fact, men are not big children." ”
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First, he needs to be affirmed by Guo Keyu too much
Age does not predominate
Zhang He is two years younger than Guo Keyu, and traditionally we would say "female eldest two, alloy palm", but they did not combine the two palms into gold, but lived into two lonely cold cellars, the kind of frustration that the younger brother was not affirmed by the sister, and slowly smoothed out Zhang He's enthusiasm.
In the program, Zhang He always looked at Guo Keyu with adoring eyes, and every time he got Guo's praise and encouragement, he was like a chicken blood, jumping and jumping; on the contrary, if he did not get praise and praise, like a hedgehog, he immediately changed his face and fought back, so that the two people instantly clashed with swords, and the atmosphere was cold.
There are many such scenes, and they are also like the temperament of a child, and if he praises a few words, he will be overjoyed; if he throws a cold face or criticizes, he will be angry.
Social status is not dominant
Guo Keyu's "queen of the film" status is difficult for Zhang He to achieve artistically, and ten years ago he was even more of a no-name pawn, in the film and television circle, no point of capital is not a point of achievement is difficult to stand on, he can marry a talented woman in the Beijing circle, it should be said that it is high climbing, so the social status of the two of them at that time is not equal, since it is not equal, it is bound to bring a loss of self-confidence to this big boy with strong self-esteem, and the male wind that should have been "standing" in the year of standing was not "standing" because of his wife's aura.
Family status is not dominant
We can't know what kind of state they are in real life, but in the show, I can often see Guo Keyu's strength, although her voice is very soft, but the strength is very strong, some netizens said that she used the softest words to prick people.
For example, if several people are sitting in a car at the same time, she will use a very soft voice to remind Zhang He to turn off the air conditioner a little, but turn her face and say to Tong Chenjie, if you are not there, I will directly say: Turn off the air conditioner. The look of contempt and the domineering tone of her voice make it impossible to know which of her sentences is true and which is false.
In the first few episodes, when Zhang He asked Guo Keyu for the answer, either Guo's no longer speak, or Zhang He's no longer asked questions, the wall between the two was too difficult to cross, always giving people a kind of boss's condescending attitude towards employees.
Under KK's repeated questioning, Zhang He finally said that he needed his wife's love, but Guo Keyu was afraid that Zhang He would dislike his boredom, so he put away the desire to share, just like this, both people longed for love but chose to be silent, and both wanted each other to pay their hearts, which is probably the reason for the demise of adult love.
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Second, rebellious children need love more, but unfortunately they will not express love
Zhanghe grew up with his grandmother, returned to his parents when he was about to go to school, and in today's parlance, he also belongs to "left-behind children".
Returning to his parents, he did not seem to receive good care, and with the strict education of his father and the early death of his mother, he came to the sequence of rebellious children prematurely.
Therefore, in his relationship with Guo, it is not difficult for us to see that in fact, Zhang He is very macho, Guo's personality is gentle, does not argue directly with him, but responds with silence, which leads to the two of them living into two castles.
Righteousness, sincerity and responsibility are Guo Keyu's evaluation of Zhang He, and whenever Guo Keyu has intimate contact with him, he can see that he smiles very happily, as if he is happy to get praise from all over the world.
That's why we saw the classic "kneeling" and heard the voice "I can't live without you in this life!" Even the teachers of the observation group could not distinguish between true and false, is this the truest portrayal of Zhang He's heart?
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Third, the education received when he grows up - men must be like men
Taking Teacher Shen's analysis as Zhang He's words, he should also belong to the old-school thinking, the script of old-style marriage, growing up with his grandmother when he was a child, and it is estimated that the ideas of the older generation are instilled in his ideological consciousness.
When chatting with Teacher Ni Ping, he said that his mother's generation was particularly tolerant, and they made great sacrifices to marriage and family without complaint or regret, which shows that Zhang He's bones accept these very traditional things.
In the past ten years, he and Guo Keyu are also the model of "male outside, female inside", perhaps their lives are not as high as the quality of big-name stars, but they are definitely more than enough compared to ordinary people, so after busy work, they have no and guo Keyuqing, who naturally likes romance, so there is no harmony with each other.
However, in the show, we have always been able to see Zhang He's care for Guo Keyu, leading the horse for her, fighting for her to have more opportunities to rest, and breaking the cantaloupe for her lonely palm, all of which can be done without love? Don't forget, people's subconscious is the truest emotion piled up in the depths of the mind.
A man should have the appearance of a man, presumably Zhang He's motto!
I always feel that there is true love between Zhang He and Guo Keyu, if they can both realize that "let each other go" or "love each other a little more", maybe their fate can continue.
In fact, when you are sure that this man is not bad, or that they have each other in their hearts, the man is particularly good at coaxing, you treat him as a child, praise more, more encouragement, more praise, let him happily circle around your home, use the language of love to achieve him, let him shield you from the wind and rain, and become your great saint.
The closest people need more expression of love, paying emotions requires a lot of courage, I hope that Zhang He in the future together, do not always think of giving back, do more to make the other party comfortable, restrain a little of their own childishness, with an understanding attitude to face, with a man's mind to tolerate.
No matter how thick the night is, the sun will always rise!
There are too many people in the world waiting for the sunrise, are they waiting for the beginning of a day? Or are you looking forward to the end of the night again? Maybe time can answer.
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