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Author: The Healing Girl
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"My Little Two Mouths" ended, all the way down, what impressed me the most was Ruo Feng and Qi Lanyin, a couple.
The two are obviously newly married, but they quarrel in almost every issue.
For a time, there was also a lot of public opinion on the Internet, some people said that if the wind slammed the door, some people said that Qi Lanyin was too zuo.
One of the big points of controversy is that ruofeng did not give Qi Lanyin a sense of security. Qi Lanyin grew up in a broken family, lacking parental care, resulting in her inner sensitivity and inferiority.
Such a personality will inevitably cause many problems in intimate relationships.
It can be seen that Qi Lanyin is a very independent and strong woman, but only in the face of Ruofeng, she is always suffering from gains and losses.
If the wind is an e-sports celebrity, famous, wealth and status, Qi Lanyin will feel inferior in his bones.
She was afraid of losing Ruofeng, and always asked: Do you love me or not?
Ruo Feng's performance was also somewhat unsatisfactory, such as not telling Qi Lanyin about her property, not writing her name on the property deed, and not reconciling in time when she was angry...
But after watching the latest issue, I changed my prejudice against Ruofeng, he is true love for Qi Lanyin, but he just doesn't know how to express it.
Wakakaze was born in 1992 and is only 27 years old this year, but he has begun to make a will. He was afraid that if something happened to him one day, everyone behind him would lose their dependence.
The guests present all expressed their surprise, I can understand Ruofeng, after all, you never know which tomorrow and accident will come first.
What surprised Ruo Feng even more was that he gave Qi Lanyin 60% of his share of the inheritance.
Many people had questioned his love for Qi Lanyin before, but this time, we saw Ruo Feng's sincerity to Qi Lanyin.
At the same time, all the doubts in Qi Lanyin's heart were also answered at this moment.
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In the relationship, we will care about money, in fact, what we really care about is the attitude of the other party.
As Qi Lanyin said, if the wind can give her a share of the property, she is not happy about the property itself, but through the share she sees her share of love in his heart.
In fact, whether a man loves you or not, you can see it from his property.
If a man buckles you on the line of money, how much love he can have for you.
If a man has no reservations about you and all the property goes to you, that's true love.
There is also a pair in "My Little Two", Du Ruoxi and Yan Yikuan, the two have walked together for ten years. When the show first aired, they also caused a lot of controversy.
The biggest controversy is that Yan Yikuan does not do housework and does not take children much, but complains to Du Ruoxi.
Du Ruoxi wants to return to work, her biggest obstacle is what to do with the child? She is not at ease with Yan Yi's children, and must find a nanny.
We are talking about widowed parenting more than their model.
These are just appearances, Yan Yikuan does look a little lazy, and the family does not worry about anything. But what you don't know is that he gave all his property to Du Ruoxi.
The first thing he bought was Du Ruoxi's name.
Du Ruoxi is in charge of financial power at home and also has a full voice. What is security? Yan Yikuan's behavior is the greatest sense of security.
Therefore, it can be seen that Du Ruoxi will never doubt Yan Yikuan's love for her, even if Yan Yikuan slammed the door on her, she would sulk but would not rise to the height of quarrel.
A man is willing to give you what he has worked hard for half a lifetime, which is the greatest sincerity in the relationship.
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This society is very impetuous, and everyone is thinking about monetary benefits. In the relationship, if you start to calculate, it means that your love is also deteriorating.
Xiaoling had a relationship with a man who was 5 years older than herself, the founder of a training institution, who had a successful career and a low income.
When he first began to pursue Xiaoling, he would be very attentive to give gifts, but most of the gifts he gave were of inferior quality.
Once, she was given a scarf, which was directly thrown away by Xiaoling, because it was like a roadside stall and a ball.
Later, the man also gave a lot of gifts, such as cosmetics, cups, but every time he gave, it was a bargain.
At first, Xiao Ling was also confused, he was obviously so rich, why did he cut the door so much in the matter of giving gifts? A friend told her that the man might just be clumsy and didn't know how to give women gifts.
Later, under the soft and hard bubble of the other party, Xiaoling agreed to his pursuit. After less than three months together, they broke up, and it turned out that the man had a family.
Xiao Ling understood that the reason why this man was reluctant to spend money on her was because in his heart, he was only worth this money. Later, Xiaoling saw that the man bought his wife brand name, which looked high-end and fashionable.
In fact, for men, the most direct way for them to express their love is to spend money on you. Because I love you, I am willing to share the fruits of my labor with you.
Again, because I don't love you, I'll wonder if it's worth it to pay for you.
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In a good relationship, men will take the initiative to talk to you about money. I once watched an emotional show where men and women got into an argument over the bride price.
The woman believes that the bride price/house/car, these are the necessities of marriage, her requirements are not excessive, they are all in accordance with the local market, and the man can afford it.
But the man firmly disagreed, repeatedly emphasizing a sentence: "Is it true that the four-year relationship between us is measured by these things?" ”
Obviously, men are not willing to give women these things.
A guest at the scene analyzed that there are two kinds of men in this world, one is that they do not like women to talk to themselves about money, and think that as long as women talk about money, it is material vanity and worship.
At the same time, he will be cautious about his own efforts, afraid that the other party will want too much.
There is also a kind of man who will take the initiative to talk to women about money, since you are my partner, then those who should give the house car bride price I will not be less than a penny, this is my responsibility and responsibility as a man.
At the same time, he will be grateful to have met each other and cherish it. Life is realistic, and all love must be implemented in chai rice oil and salt to be true.
Whether a man loves you or not, his possessions will tell you.
Just like Ruofeng, when making a will, he gave Qi Lanyin a 60% share, and for example, Yan Yikuan handed over the property power to Du Ruoxi's hands.
Where a man's money is, his heart is.
Men who buckle up on you and make excuses for not spending money on you are only seeing profits as more important than money.
Two people want to go on for a long time, money should not become the object of calculation, more importantly, you trust each other and are willing to pay for each other.
For women, if they want men to spend money on themselves, they want that sense of security.
In the words of Zhang Ailing: Spending a man's money is joyful in your heart.
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