In the process of dealing with people, sometimes we really need to talk to each other calmly, if there is a contradiction in the middle, then we must deal with it in time, give each other a step, it will be solved quickly, do not leave yourself any regrets, otherwise you will regret it for life. Zhao Benshan must be very familiar to everyone, but in his life, he left a misunderstanding that could not be solved for a lifetime, which was really painful for him.
Although Gao Xiumin has passed away, but many of the excellent works she brought to the audience will always be remembered in people's hearts, she first quit her job in the Buyeo Civic Art Troupe, took He Qingkui's sketch "Baggage" to Shenzhen to participate in the National Sketch Competition, and won the gold medal, since then she has been on fire, and she has been introduced to Zhao Benshan. In the early days, Zhao Benshan's two masterpieces, "Red Sorghum Model Team" and "Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow", were all written by He Qingkui, and Zhao Benshan himself also admired He Qingkui's talent and invited him to be his screenwriter.
And Gao Xiumin is very proud, but also very grateful, even if she herself is very famous, she will not have any star shelf, after walking out of Songyuan will not forget her father and fellow countrymen, when she hears what difficulties her hometown has, she can always stand up. On the anniversary of the founding of Songyuan, the leader in charge of culture found Gao Xiumin, hoping that she could participate in the performance, and also hoped that she could invite Zhao Benshan to star, and Gao Xiumin quickly agreed. She also said that she and Zhao Benshan are very familiar, and the appearance fee Zhao Benshan will also look at her face, but what she did not expect was that Zhao Benshan did not resign and directly accepted the appearance fee, which made Gao Xiumin very embarrassed.
He Qingkui did not intend to write a script for Zhao Benshan at the Spring Festival Gala of a certain year, but near the Spring Festival Gala, without a screenwriter, Zhao Benshan must have been very anxious, so he could only call He Qingkui hard and ask him to come back, He Qingkui wanted to refuse, but Lei Kesheng around him persuaded him, and he agreed. Later, there was also a sketch "Hourly Worker" starring Zhao Benshan and Song Dandan, and in the next three consecutive years, we can see the sketches cooperated by Zhao Benshan, Gao Xiumin, and Fan Wei, and their sketches are very popular and have become classics. But what people did not expect is that such a good number of people, but also there will be contradictions, in the Spring Festival Gala sketch "Water Delivery Worker", Song Dandan temporarily withdrew from the performance, Gao Xiumin took over Song Dandan, such a practice, Gao Xiumin will definitely have complaints. What caused them to be conflicted was that when the Spring Festival Gala rehearsal was held one year, because Gao Xiumin helped a friend of hers who was not able to attend in time, which made Zhao Benshan, who was very serious about his work, very angry, the two people quarreled very fiercely, and there was no cooperation since then. Until Gao Xiumin died of illness, the two of them did not reconcile. What a great regret for them.
Some netizens believe that the temper of the two of them is too bad, if any one of them chooses to give the other a step and take the initiative to reconcile, it will definitely solve the contradiction, and it will not be until Gao Xiumin dies. They also did not resolve the misunderstanding, which is a great pity for anyone. Some netizens also believe that in this matter, Gao Xiumin should take the initiative to admit his mistake to Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan himself is a person who is very serious about work, but she was not able to go to work in time, which violated Zhao Benshan's bottom line, if Gao Xiumin can not lose his temper after the incident, but in time to admit his mistake, the two people can definitely reconcile.
Xiaobian believes that when the two sides encounter contradictions, we must learn to treat them calmly, do not indulge their temper, give each other a step, they will certainly be able to solve the problem in time, and they will not leave any regrets in their lives, may we be happy and happy with our friends, even if there are contradictions, we must deal with them in time, and do not leave regrets in life.