Love, sometimes, is a deplorable affair, and the so-called reason and determination are nothing more than ridiculous self-consolation.
It has been said that our lives are determined by our own constant choices.
But what really makes us unique is not those choices, but the efforts we make for them.
When I went back for the New Year, my girlfriend secretly told me that a colleague introduced her to a man.
It's normal for girlfriends to be single and have a boyfriend. But her next words, but the spread made me drop my jaw.
The girlfriend said that the man had a wife, and that his wife and he were colleagues.
I asked my girlfriend, how could your colleague introduce you to such a person? She deliberately let you start an extramarital affair, didn't she deliberately make you make mistakes?
My girlfriend may also feel that this is inappropriate, avoid my problem, and introduce me to this man.
Before introducing this man, let me introduce my girlfriend first.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > falling flowers intentionally with the flowing water, and the flowing water has no intention of falling flowers</h1>
When the girlfriend was studying, she was madly obsessed with her class leader, but unfortunately the flowers fell intentionally, and the flow was merciless. The squad leader showed affection for her overt and covert.
If you are destined to be a passerby, why disturb a light?
After graduation, the girlfriend returned to teach in the countryside of her hometown. During breaks, she often went to play at the home of a classmate in elementary school. That classmate had an older brother who was a few years older than her, had never been married, heard that it was a kidney problem, talked about several girlfriends, and finally broke up.
Girlfriends often go to his house to play, come and go, everyone intends to match them, and finally the two are really together.
Not long after dating, the girlfriend felt that the two people were not suitable, but she said that the two people had already had a relationship. In our little place, it was a big, big deal. Because of this, she eventually married her classmate's brother.
Soon after the marriage, she became pregnant with a child. With the birth of the child, she became more and more dissatisfied with her husband, she felt that his culture was too low, the two people had no common topic together, that home, without a little of the warmth and happiness she wanted, she just wanted to escape.
Just as she was about to file for divorce, her husband was diagnosed with advanced nasopharyngeal cancer and was quickly admitted to the hospital. At this time, she really couldn't open her mouth to mention the divorce again.
The husband was treated in the hospital for a while, spent all the money in the family, and then gave up after another ass debt.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > half pushed and half fell in love with a married man</h1>
Just a week after her husband's death, my girlfriend received a call from Mr. A, who was the former general manager of the school, a dozen years older than her, and had been transferred to another school as principal.
Mr. A looks very popular with women, not only gentle and elegant, but also especially good at taking care of women, plus there is some power and financial resources in his hands, and his girlfriend does not even hold back, and directly throws herself into his arms.
After the two were together, he used the power and connections in his hands to quickly transfer her from the countryside to a key middle school in the county. The girlfriend borrowed some money, bought a house with a mortgage in the county, and the two officially lived together.
They all said that there was no impermeable wall in the world, and their relationship soon reached the ears of Mr. A's wife, who directly blocked her girlfriend on the street and pulled her to scold. Word spread quickly in our little place.
I once asked my girlfriend, do you really not mind? Isn't there uneasiness in your heart?
The girlfriend said that if he didn't mind it was false, but he was kind to himself, plus he was indeed his favorite type, and after years of getting along, he could not do without him.
The girlfriend said that she admired him very much, so even if she was constantly suffering from morality, she never thought of giving up.
The year before, Mr. A suddenly fainted from cerebral hemorrhage without warning, and was taken to the hospital by his family and never woke up.
After sleeping in the hospital for several months, Mr. A finally disappeared completely into his girlfriend's world.
By the time his girlfriend found out, Mr. A had been buried in the ground for more than a month.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > perfect man</h1>
After Mr. A left, his girlfriend's son also went to college. The house that was vacated all of a sudden made the girlfriend very uncomfortable.
I persuaded her to find another one, but she said that it was difficult to find the right one, the conditions were good, people did not look up to her, and if the conditions were not good, she could not look up to others.
During this empty window, her girlfriend's colleague introduced her to Mr. B.
This Mr. B, but a celebrity in the education sector of a certain city, is not only excellent, but also very inspiring.
His family conditions were not good, and he sat on his own step by step to the highest position in a municipal education bureau, and his honorary certificates were innumerable.
In the eyes of the outside, he is not only a successful man, but also a good husband and son-in-law.
His wife uremia for more than ten years, he has been inseparable, every tuesday at home to personally give her dialysis; his mother-in-law is also uremia, he often sent his mother-in-law to the hospital for dialysis, and then at home to give his wife dialysis.
The salary he earned was all for his family's medical treatment and livelihood, and he was reluctant to buy decent clothes.
The most important thing is that he is also versatile, not only can write poetry, but also plays a good flute.
Such a "perfect" man is exactly the type that girlfriends like.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > but unfortunately it's not you, accompany me to the end</h1>."
So as soon as the colleague introduced, the girlfriend agreed. In less than a week after adding WeChat to each other, the two people met.
After meeting, he asked his girlfriend to report early and late every day, and later the two met several times.
But I don't know why, and then he suddenly said that he couldn't get past the barrier in his heart, so that his girlfriend forgot about him.
For this girlfriend is sad, sad for a long time. She always said that Mr. B was a talent, and she was particularly sorry for him.
For the interaction between the girlfriend and Mr. B, I especially can't understand, others have been little three, organic coincidence can't help but fall into the love network, they are good, and even ran to the extramarital affair at the beginning.
These two people are all people with status in the education world, they are all people who are teachers, peach and plum people all over the world, they are like this themselves, how can they teach students?
Speaking of that Mr. B, he is a habitual offender at first glance, saying that he can't pass the pass in his heart, and the ghost believes it. I don't believe a word anyway.
If he really rejected extramarital affairs, how could he allow others to introduce him? How can you meet the opposite sex outside of marriage again and again?
The most infuriating thing is the girlfriend, a good life is not good, and you have to intervene in other people's families again and again.
It doesn't matter if a person takes the wrong path, but we must remember to look back; it doesn't matter if you love the wrong person, but you must know how to let go at the right time.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.