Rong Er is a distant cousin of mine in the countryside, and she went to work before graduating from high school. Because the place where she works is close to me. So she would often come to talk to me.
When she first started falling in love, it was probably when she was 18 years old. At that time, as soon as I talked about her boyfriend, I heard him say that the boyfriend was good, but handsome. It felt like her eyes were full of happiness. Look at his pure love girl silly look. I couldn't help but ask, "Do you know all aspects of his situation?" I remember her answering me: "I only want him as a person, and nothing else matters." She had a determined look on her face.
The first time I met her boyfriend was when she was pregnant and planning to marry Bongko. She was probably only 20 years old at the time, which is the season when many girls are still in school. That day, the two of them came to my house for dinner. Looking at his husband (she should be called husband now), it is not necessarily how handsome. I think it may be the lover's eyes out of the West Shi. However, they are similar in age and their personalities are still fairly innocent. It's still a good match! But after eating, I found that something was wrong. For example, when his husband was very spicy when he ate chili peppers, she immediately went to pour him a glass of water and put all the delicious dishes into his husband's bowl. When his husband wanted to watch TV, she immediately found the TV remote control and handed it to him. In some small things, Rong Er always seemed to be able to find his needs. But no matter how much you like a person, is it necessary to take care of him in this way? And she herself is a pregnant woman!
In the next year or two, Rong Er got married and had children, and she was very busy, and she didn't contact us much. But suddenly one day, she came to my house alone. She said that she had a fight with her husband (it was a fight, not a fight), did not want to go home, and she had no other place to go in the city, so she came to my house to live for a while. Looking at Rong Er's appearance, the whole person lost a lot of weight, and her eyes were dim and dull. Asked what was wrong with her, she said she suspected her husband of cheating. I think there are always contradictions between husband and wife, and cheating is just a suspicion, and maybe Rong Er loves too deeply, and it is also possible to doubt the gods and ghosts. Fortunately, his child was originally carried by his grandmother in his hometown. I think Rong Er just stayed at my house for a few days to calm down.
However, in the following days, Rong Er washed her face with tears all day, and she could not eat or sleep. As soon as she talked to her, she said that her husband said he didn't want her, and she said that he would stop going back, and she was very sad. Then there were a lot of tears. I said repeatedly, Rong'er, you will forget him for a while here with your sister, there is no man, the sky cannot come down, life in addition to love, there are many other more meaningful things. But it was useless, she just repeatedly said that she had paid so much for him, the family's economic conditions were not good, and she went to work during maternity leave, desperately for her family. The child also let him bring very little, the housework did not want him to do a little, and the clothes and socks were not washed once. How could he not love her.
However, for several days, Rong'er's husband did not even call me, and according to herself, her husband actually knew that she had come to me. Rong Er's spirit was even more haggard, she still couldn't eat the food, and the tears still flowed every day. I think she'll get sick if she goes on like this. So I lied and said, "Your husband... In fact...... I made a phone call, but I was embarrassed to talk and hung up again." "Is it?" Her eyes lit up immediately. "Yes, you eat more, he may come to pick you up in a few days."
She was finally able to eat a little. For a moment, she looked at me in a trance, looked at me and said, "Sister, I am younger and more beautiful than that woman, how can he like her?" Look at her eyes flickering and shedding tears again. I had to chim in and say, "Yes, you... He bore her child again, and he had no reason to lose his wife... Don't think about it." "Sister, you mean he'll still love me, right?" "Ah, oh... Yes, it should be..." After a few more days of this question-and-answer, her face slowly improved.
One day, ten days after living at my house, she suddenly said she was going home. "Sister, I called him, and my husband said I wanted to go back and I could go back." Looking at the excitement on his face, I didn't know what to say. Is this love a little too cheap? I said, "Won't you wait for him to pick you up and go back?" She said, don't wait, she will leave immediately. I know I can't stop her..., sometimes, reasoning is so pale and powerless. I just waved my hand and said, Well, I wish you all happiness and happiness!