Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
In the past few years, because of their lack of social experience and lack of understanding of human contact, they have led to the failure of entrepreneurship and let their lives fall to the bottom.
Later, while walking, I met an old man who had profound wisdom in his dealings with the world. With the deepening of communication, I learned a lot of interpersonal wisdom in him.
The old man said that it was really important to be close to Zhu and black to be with what kind of person he was with. Only by being with good people and being influenced by them will you become more excellent.
With whom you are, you will become what kind of person you become; what circle you enter, what kind of life you will have. How many people come and go in a lifetime. Everyone you meet actually subtly affects your destiny.
In this vast world, the most worthy of deep friendship is only a few. The old man said that if one day, these three people appear around you, it means that you will reach the peak of your life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > people with large patterns. </h1>
"If the chest is wide, it can tolerate, if it can accommodate, it will return to the crowd, and if it can be returned, it will be gathered, and it will be prosperous."
Being calculating and aggressive will only deter people, and those who are generous and tolerant often get more rewards in their connections.
Only when a person has a big pattern will there be great development. Your circle of friends greatly affects your quality of life and also determines your life pattern. When people are at a low point, if these three people appear around, it means that good luck is coming.
People with large patterns can consider the problem thoroughly, no matter what kind of problem, they can solve it, and they will have long-term plans for doing things.
There is a person with a lofty pattern around, he will accompany you to the bigger world, to see the wider world, and you will definitely become more hard because of such friends.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > self-disciplined person. </h1>
A person without self-discipline will let go of himself and relax his requirements for himself, which is irresponsible for life.
People with good self-discipline, like a weather vane, can pull you forward. They know how to learn in their time alone and add value to their lives.
Self-discipline can give us freedom and allow us to live the life we want. Only if a person is disciplined enough can he really get close to his goal.
Self-discipline can help you get through the trough, overcome negative emotions and negative emotions, and let you learn to persevere and fight. In the face of bittersweet honor and humiliation, self-discipline can make you stand firm, not discouraged, not complacent.
Time will never fail to live up to the hard work of people, want to have a good life, first of all, you must start from self-discipline, how self-disciplined you are, how wonderful your life will be.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="20" > people who can control their emotions. </h1>
Napoleon once said: "A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city." ”
How much pressure you can carry, how much great things you can accomplish. The weak are slaves to emotions, and the strong have long since quit their emotions.
The old man said that having emotions is instinctive, and being able to control emotions is the greatest skill. Only by managing emotions well and being the master of emotions can we gain the initiative in life.
Really smart people know how to control their emotions. Because they know that one should not subject one's actions to one's own emotions.
Only by maintaining inner peace and tranquility can we have a happy life. If one day, there are people around you who can control your emotions, it means that you will reach the peak of your life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="26" > Wheat message: The rest of your life is precious, and you deserve to travel with better people all the way. </h1>
"Xunzi": "In the midst of the pungent and numb, it is not straight; the white sand is in nirvana, and it is black." ”
The environment is crucial to the growth of a person and even determines the direction of a person's life. The old man said: If these three people appear around when people are in a low valley, it means that good luck is coming.
The old man said that if you fly with the phoenix, you will be an extraordinary bird; if you walk with a horse, you must be a qi ji. Walk with the wise and you will be full of economy; with the high people, you will be extraordinary.
The way the people around us are, we are the same. High-level people and high-quality circles, like the warm sun, will drive away the shadows on you, making you born into the sun and becoming more and more powerful.
Han Han said: "How far a person can go depends on who he has traveled; how good a person is, depends on who he has guidance; how successful a person is, depending on who he is with." ”
Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped. For the rest of your life, may you know how to streamline your social circle and leave friends worth making.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.