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"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

【The main author of this article: Shuang'er】

Yu Shuzhen, the memory of a generation, is a famous Chinese soprano singer and an opera singer who impressed the audience.

It can be said that in Tianjin, Yu Shuzhen is a well-known figure, the audience is good, and she is also highly respected in the industry, and the songs she sings "Phoenix Tail Bamboo in the Moonlight", "Spring Water Ding-Dong", "Our Life Is Full of Sunshine" are highly sung.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

But Yu Shuzhen has not accepted apprentices, everyone can't help but feel pity, many people are curious about what Yu Shuzhen has been doing all these years.

In fact, Ms. Yu Shuzhen's later life was rich and colorful, and after she retired, she enrolled in Tianjin University for the Aged, studied calligraphy and chinese painting of flowers and birds, and completed the dream of going to school well when she was young.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

She also lived in an elderly apartment in Tianjin, and when she saw the news that Yu Shuzhen lived in an elderly apartment, many fans were surprised, and this matter also caused heated discussion among netizens.

Some people think that Yu Shuzhen has a son and a daughter, and obviously she can enjoy her old age peacefully by her children's side, and she does not understand why she wants to live in a nursing home.

There are also netizens Chen can understand Yu Shuzhen's approach, now there are many elderly people choose to live in nursing homes, even if there are children are not willing to bother children, perhaps Yu Shuzhen is the same.

So, why does Yu Shuzhen live in a nursing home, and what is her relationship with her children?

We may wish to reveal the original intention of Ms. Yu Shuzhen's nursing home and her life in the nursing home.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

Yu Shuzhen is a native of Hebei, born in an ordinary family, originally she was as ordinary as her peers, when she was a child, her family conditions were limited, Yu Shuzhen did not read too many books to participate in the work.

She worked as an apprentice in a factory in Tianjin, and by chance, Yu Shuzhen was selected by the leaders of the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe, transformed from an apprentice to an actress, and began to receive professional singing training.

At that time, Yu Shuzhen was only 19 years old.

In the face of the sudden opportunity, Yu Shuzhen was worried in her heart and did not know if she could sing well.

When she first joined the troupe, Yu Shuzhen just caught up with the song and dance troupe to perform in Shandong. So the first time she went on the professional stage of the Eight Classics was to participate in the chorus in Shandong.

After that, Yu Shuzhen became famous from a chorus member of the song and dance troupe step by step, and eventually became a soloist and opera singer.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

Yu Shuzhen sang all her life, but she did not take an apprentice.

Generally speaking, well-known singing artists will bring new people after retirement, but Yu Shuzhen has refused to visit the teacher one by one, she feels that she is only suitable for singing, but not suitable for being a teacher, so she is not willing to accept apprentices.

Her old partner Guo Lanying was full of peach and plum, while Yu Shuzhen never took an apprentice.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

Although Yu Shuzhen is a northerner, she has the tenderness of a southern girl in her bones, and embarking on the road of singing and acting as a singer is also an arrangement of fate, and she has always had a dream of going to college in her heart.

After retiring from the Tianjin Song and Dance Theater, Yu Shuzhen got her wish and enrolled in Tianjin University for the Elderly, learning the calligraphy and painting she wanted to learn when she was young.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

Yu Shuzhen is still very painful for her children, and she chose to live in a nursing home after she was older.

Some media once visited Yu Shuzhen in the nursing home where she lived.

When Yu Shuzhen was interviewed, she solved the doubts in the hearts of fans and friends.

She revealed that her living in a nursing home is "fashionable", think that the elderly spontaneously live in nursing homes is a trend, now the conditions of the elderly are generally better than before, giving birth to children is not to raise children to prevent the elderly, the elderly can live in nursing homes and live with peers, do not need children to worry too much.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

Yu Shuzhen feels that living in a nursing home is very good, on the one hand, it can reduce the burden on the children, let them start a good business and work well, on the other hand, they can also make new friends.

She also mentioned that when she first came to the nursing home, an interesting incident occurred, and someone asked her: "Are you Yu Shuzhen?" How did you come, you don't have children? ”

Yu Shuzhen laughed at that time, she said that I have a son and a daughter, and half-jokingly teased the other party: it is not that the children do not want me, it is that I do not want them.

Because Yu Shuzhen is a celebrity in Tianjin, the elderly in the nursing home also invited her to run an art troupe, but Yu Shuzhen declined, she said that the purpose of her coming to the nursing home was to be quiet, but she still promised that every year the nursing home activities could sing a happy song to everyone.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

Yu Shuzhen also laughed that if she came to power again, she would have to take seasickness medicine to relieve stress like when she was young. In her early years, she often had to take planes and boats, but she was seasick and seasick, took medicine for many years, and now occasionally shakes her hands because of sequelae.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

【Conclusion】

Looking back at most of Yu Shuzhen's life, she has changed from an apprentice who was "hit" by good luck to a well-known professional singer, thinking of doing one thing, whether famous or not, she has always been smiling and very easy-going.

After retirement, Yu Shuzhen did not accept apprentices, did not "earn extra money", but went to the old university to complete the wish of her youth.

"It's not that the children don't want me, it's that I don't want them," said 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen, who lives in a nursing home

In order not to worry about her children, she chose to live in a nursing home to reduce the burden on her children, and set an example for her elderly friends.

Now the nursing home facilities are perfect, the elderly can get good service, Yu Shuzhen also said that there are many "neighbors" of the nursing home have lived here for more than ten years, made new friends, and had a good time.

After understanding Yu Shuzhen's original intention of living in a nursing home, the mystery in the hearts of netizens was also solved.

"It's not the kids who don't want me, it's me who don't want them"

Yu Shuzhen's joke seems funny but is actually sad.

There are no parents in the world who do not love their children, and Yu Shuzhen's practice just happens to be the most typical representative of the new generation of elderly friends "hurting their children".

Yu Shuzhen, who is "old and pretty", deserves our praise for her!

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