What is the most precious thing in this life? What is the most important thing in this life? In this life, what is the purpose of raising children?
From the well-known singer Yu Shuzhen, you can know the answer.
Mention the singer Yu Shuzhen, I will think of the "Our Life Is Full of Sunshine" she left for us.
It was an episode she sang for the movie Sweet Cause.
The song was selected for UNESCO's music textbooks in the Asia-Pacific region and is still widely sung today:
Stills from the movie "Sweet Cause"
"Happy flowers, hearts open
The song of love flutters with the wind
Our hearts fly away
Envision that beautiful revolutionary ideal
yes...... Dear ones
Hand in hand, hand in hand
Our life is full of sunshine, full of sunshine."
This song is so meaningful that people feel relieved and happy as soon as they sing it.
However, the singer Yu Shuzhen's resolute decision, why did the children and relatives and friends wonder? Outsiders were full of praise.
His mother died of illness when he was 8 years old, and his father soon remarried.
Her father and stepmother had limited abilities, and she only attended school for 1 year, and at the age of 16, she had to go out to work as a casual worker.
After that, he went to Tianjin Zhongda Chemical Instrument Factory as an apprentice.
Enjoying singing, she entered the amateur singing class of Tianjin Cultural Center, and her fate changed.
At the age of 19, she participated in the Tianjin Workers' Literary and Art Competition and won the first prize.
When she was 20 years old, God gave her a good relationship, and she was suddenly shocked when she was at work, and a handsome young man surnamed Yan smiled and handed her a note with an official seal on a white paper.
She was overjoyed: she was accepted into the Tianjin Song and Dance Theatre.
Since then, Yu Shuzhen has gone from apprentice to singer.
At that time, she loved to talk and laugh, and her popularity was good, and she naturally ushered in the care of the boys.
And she did not appreciate it, because there were 8 younger siblings with heavy burdens, she could not fall in love at will, and she politely refused the introduction of several aunts.
However, the handsome man who had shocked her was chasing her more than once, and she hesitated.
But in the end, Yu Shuzhen made a decision: marry a handsome man.
The reason for this is that the good fortune of god is that the handsome man who conveyed the theater order to her changed her fate, and the key is that he is too affectionate and righteous.
Soon the two married.
In 1979, she sang "Our Life Is Full of Sunshine", which became popular all over the country and became the most popular singer.
She regarded her singing career as her life, so she became the pillar of the troupe and performed everywhere with the troupe.
Soon they married and gave birth to a son and a daughter.
The day yu Shuzhen gave birth to her daughter, she sang deeply on stage!
How strong and touching!
It is said that the husband sings with the woman, but for them it is the woman who sings the husband, and she is deeply happy: she has chosen the right partner!
After that, the husband retired from the singing actor to the background, strongly supported the wife of the top pillar of the troupe, and went to the office as an officer.
He has to go to work and take care of his children, a rare good husband and a good father!
And she is also a good wife and mother, but also a good daughter and a good sister.
She used the money she had earned to support her own family, and she really gave her heart to her parents and to her younger siblings who needed help.
Her song "Phoenix Tail Bamboo in the Moonlight" became a classic song, written by Shi Guangnan to promote the Marriage Law.
The last sentence, "Let's go to the marriage registration office together", made the handsome men and women yearn for everyone at that time.
In 1984, she went on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and sang 4 songs such as "Spring Water Ding-Dong" and "Our Life Is Full of Sunshine", which received bursts of applause and caused a sensation.
She spread the magical and beautiful singing voice throughout the country, giving us a sweet enjoyment.
What is particularly touching is that she has a national tour with the group, and has performed more than 100 times in 3 months.
At the last stop in Xi'an, her vocal cords were bleeding from overwork, and her colleagues were very distressed and the leaders were anxious because she was the lead singer. But this time she couldn't sing anymore, or it would ruin her voice.
At that time, the ticket has been sold, if the ticket is refunded, the loss is particularly large, the key is that the audience will be disgusted, which will lead to great disadvantages.
Yu Shuzhen said to the leader: "I am not afraid, even if it is a noise, I will sing, and I must be responsible for the audience." ”
She sang 5 songs in a row after taking her medicine, and colleagues and the audience who knew about it cried.
After returning home, she lost her voice for a while, and her children cried, and she was very sad for her mother!
Her husband also cried, taking care of her every day to take Chinese medicine, and it took a long time to recover.
Her husband told her not to sing, but the singing career was her life, and she could not lose it.
Since then, her husband has followed her everywhere, and she is also the lead singer.
She was very touched: "I can sing with him to this day." ”
It is said that raising children to prevent the elderly, why do the old two people live in pension apartments?
In 1998, Yu Shuzhen retired.
The son works in Beijing and the daughter in Tianjin, and they first lived with their son.
But when you get older, you will inevitably be disease-free, especially your husband's diabetes and high blood pressure. As soon as there is a recurrence, the children have to come to take care of them, which is tired and delays work.
Mainly the children of the children are not cared for at home, and the old two are very unhappy.
Six years later, Yu Shuzhen made a decision that surprised her children.
She called her children to her side: "I live with your father in the old age apartment, the formalities have been completed, I will go in 2 days." ”
The son was shocked: "Mom, what are you talking about, am I sorry for you?" You are also a person with a reputation, what do outsiders think of me? Who wants to be the son of filial piety? ”
The daughter also objected: "Mom, you have given us life, how can you let you go to that place to suffer?" Live in my house, or we'll have no face. ”
But despite the persuasion of their children, they still went to live in the old man's apartment.
She said, "You are very filial, thank you very much!" But we are two generations, and it is not good for you to come and take care of us so often. Because you have also established a family, in the face of your children, you have a long way to go, and each of you should have your own space. ”
The children cried, but the old two laughed, but there were tears of emotion on their faces!
However, the children always feel incredible in the face of their mother's resolute decision, and they do not want to bear the name of the son of filial piety.
Relatives and friends also do not understand, obviously she is a famous singer, has filial piety children, why do you want to live in the old age apartment, how faceless?
After outsiders know about it, there is no end to the discussion, and the singer goes to live in the apartment for the elderly, which must be caused by the filial piety of the children.
In the face of people's incomprehension and inquiries, Yu Shuzhen replied one by one: "This is the decision of the two of us, we 'don't' have children, just to reduce their burden and make each of them well." ”
After that, they lived well in the apartment, first in good condition, and second, to make new friends and teach them to sing and play the piano.
She also attended the University of the Elderly, where she studied calligraphy and painting, and her works on flowers and birds were popular.
After outsiders knew her inside story and saw that her children often went to the pension apartment to visit her husband and wife's happy appearance, they gave her a thumbs up and praised her: Great and different mother! A model couple that is hard to see!
Today, the 84-year-old Yu Shuzhen is still singing, and the husband and wife love as before, living the life they want.
The reason why she is very happy is because she has the mentality of wanting to get and seeing.
From the singer Yu Shuzhen, we see the answer: in this life, only the body is the most precious, and only the mood is the most important.
Raising children is not necessarily just to prevent aging, when they can still act, for the sake of their children and grandchildren, they should rely on themselves, so that everyone is good!
Yu Shuzhen and his wife, in order to reduce the burden on their children, resolutely decided to live in the old age apartment, and later received everyone's praise: the most loving great mother! What an amazing singer!
Author: It's nice to be emotional
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