yes! ~ Dear people, hand in hand, hand in hand, our life is full of sunshine, full of sunshine.
A song "Our life is full of sunshine" sang throughout China and became the deepest memory of a generation, and now young people may not have heard her singing, but if you talk about her parents' generation, they will feel a lot about her.
She is the singer Yu Shuzhen, her singing voice is not as complex as these music now, the whole tone is simple and simple, can gently enter everyone's heart.
At that time, many people used her songs as background music for dancing, and it was such a figure who led an era, but at the age of 84, he lived in a nursing home with his wife.
Famous national first-class actors, singers, and able people on the scene of the Spring Festival Gala many times, but in their old age, they lived in a nursing home, which can't help but make people feel painful, but the real reason is thought-provoking.
Last Spring Festival Gala, Yu Shuzhen appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala with a song "My Motherland and Me", and she had not seen her for many years, and when people saw her again, she was full of white hair and her face was covered with old age.
But she did not accept defeat, still singing on the stage, not only that, when singing improvisation, she would also dance with the stage to a few movements, not at all like the 83-year-old lady.
After the Spring Festival Gala, she elaborated on her life in her later years, she and her wife have moved to the nursing home, every day with the friends of the nursing home, playing chess, singing, and occasionally participating in a public welfare performance, life is still quite fulfilling.
Speaking of this, some media asked: "Why did you and your husband move into a nursing home?" Do the kids care about you? “
Yu Shuzhen didn't even think about answering a word, but this sentence spoke the voice of countless elderly people.
She said: "It's not the kids who ignore me, it's me who 'don't' them. “
This sentence can't help but make people wonder, is there any barrier between her relationship with the children? But then her words opened up people's reverie.
She said that she and her wife have worried about the children for a lifetime, and do not want to cause trouble to the children, and the two people are more comfortable and comfortable in the nursing home.
Yes, her life is enough to toss, and everyone on the big screen sees her heroic singing, while her children see her sick and pitiful appearance.
She was frail and sickly, she had little strength when she was young, the housework at home was done by children who had just come of age, she had been taking Chinese medicine for conditioning, it was difficult to adjust well, and her husband had an accident again.
Her husband was ill 3 times in half a year, and each time he was hospitalized, the children took turns on duty and accompanied her, and she just couldn't come back in Beijing.
Therefore, she and her wife feel very guilty about the children, in fact, when they were in their 50s, the second elder moved to the nursing home hand in hand, both of them had pensions, and their bodies were almost adjusted, it was time to give the children the space to struggle, and they could not always guard the two old.
It is said that her son once had the opportunity to study in a foreign country, but because he had to take care of her wife, it was understandable that the second elder did so.
This is precisely the thought-provoking thing, a lot of older people, they don't want to burden their children, but it doesn't mean that they don't love their children, on the contrary, they long to be visited, cared for, pampered.