Yu Shuzhen: In the old age, people can drag their children less, live quietly, and get sick less, which is the best result.
In 2019, Yu Shuzhen participated in the CCTV Mid-Autumn Festival Gala and the Spring Festival Gala, singing a song "My Motherland and Me" respectively. She had silver hair and a cheerful spirit, and no one could believe that such a sweet and beautiful voice came from an 83-year-old elderly man.
In her later years, Yu Shuzhen did not live with her children, but lived in a nursing home with her husband. Why is this for Chinese who raise children and prevent aging? If you understand the teacher's life experience, you will understand one or two.
Yu Shuzhen
Yu Shuzhen, born in 1936, is 84 years old this year. She is a national first-class actress, a famous soprano singer and opera singer. In the 1980s, her songs were popular all over the country, accompanying the growth of a generation. Songs such as "Our Life Is Full of Sunshine", "Spring Water Ding-Dong", "Anchovy Bamboo in the Moonlight" are familiar to the ear, carrying the best memories of a generation of people's youth, and her sweet voice like a clear spring also flows into the hearts of every audience.
Yu Shuzhen in singing
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Yu Shuzhen, 16, worked in an instrument factory in Tianjin for three years.
One day, a job post was played on the radio in the factory, and the cultural center called for singing actors. Although she had never learned to sing, Yu Shuzhen liked to sing since she was a child, and quickly asked four little sisters to go to the exam together, and she was recruited smoothly with great talent.
Later, she represented the Cultural Center to participate in the Tianjin Vocational And Vocational Performance, and won the first place in singing, and the leader of the Tianjin Song and Dance Theater saw the pearl and transferred her to the Tianjin Song and Dance Theater, when she was 19 years old.
Yu Shuzhen starred in the opera "Honghu Red Guards"
Yu Shuzhen shook hands with Premier Zhou
Although I entered the Song and Dance Theater, the problem was also in front of me. She doesn't know staves, not even the simplest ones. It was hard to do the lead singer, but some people said that this little girl's voice was quite sweet, that is, like a cat barking.
Yu Shuzhen, who did not accept defeat, could not hear this, "Isn't this looking down on people? While trying to learn from the teacher, she did not forget to practice all the time, like a demon, the group sang home and continued to sing, the song did not leave the mouth.
Even if you later get married and have a daughter, this habit still does not change. One day, my daughter couldn't help but complain to Yu Shuzhen: Mom, can you stop singing when you get home and accompany me more.
Slowly, she sang her own unique taste and created a career peak.
In 1979, Yu Shuzhen sang the interlude "Our Life Is Full of Sunshine" for the movie "Sweet Career", and with the broadcast of the movie, this song became popular all over the country.
In 1984, she was even on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, one person sang four songs in a row, she "voice from the emotion, euphemistic and sweet, fresh and beautiful style", sweet and beautiful voice resounded throughout the streets, completely on fire.
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Yu Shuzhen's husband, her colleague, was also a tenor.
With the prosperity of Yu Shuzhen's career, she needs to perform all over the country, and the family already has a pair of children, how to balance family and career has become a problem they have to face.
Yu Shuzhen's husband resolutely turned to the background, started a dance, and became Yu Shuzhen's strong backing.
The first on the right is Yu Shuzhen's husband
In order to make his wife present the best voice every time, he took care of the chores and let Yu Shuzhen never cook or cook in her life.
He carefully cared for his wife, and once Yu Shuzhen got up at more than seven o'clock in the morning, but found that her husband had only entered the house and asked why he had returned so late. My husband said: The stage will be set up at four or five o'clock to leave work, but I am afraid that I will come back and disturb you to sleep, and I will walk on the street outside for more than two hours before returning.
When she was young, her husband gave Yu Shuzhen the best support so that she could devote herself to her career.
When she was old and her husband was in pain, she decided to stop and take good care of her wife.
"Young is husband and wife, old age is companionship, if I can take care of him, he is also happy, I will be satisfied." 」
After retirement, her husband's health has not been good, yu Shuzhen no longer performs everywhere, but silently accompanies her husband, in exchange for her to take care of him.
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One year, the husband was sick three times in half a year, and once he was sick, a pair of children had to run back and forth. The children were in their fifties, not young, and when their husbands were hospitalized, they were on a night shift and a day shift in the hospital, which was very toss-up.
The old couple thought that this would not drag the children down for a long time, and the children still had their own jobs and their own families. The two combined and decided to live in an apartment for the elderly.
Famous singers want to live in nursing homes? Such news was somewhat inconceivable more than a decade ago.
Just after entering the nursing home, an interesting thing happened, an old man asked: "You are Yu Shuzhen, why did you come here?" Your child doesn't care about you anymore and doesn't want you anymore? ”
Yu Shuzhen smiled and replied, "No, I don't want them anymore." ”
This is of course a joke, but behind the words is the selfless love of parents for their children.
In the interview of "Art Life", when Zhu Jun asked how he thought of going to a nursing home, Yu Shuzhen frankly said: In the old age, people can drag less of their children, live quietly, and get sick less, which is the best result.
Poor parents in the world, parents have always worried about their children all their lives, and when they are old, they also want to give their children less burden, don't rely too much on their children, and let them live their own lives.
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The reason why Yu Shuzhen lives in a nursing home is not only because she loves her children and does not want to drag them down, but also for several other important reasons:
She has a retirement salary, and she can support herself when she is old, and she does not need her children to worry about her.
She can't cook, goes to the nursing home to have a canteen, and doesn't have to worry about cooking.
The activities of the nursing home are rich and colorful, and there is a group of old men and women of about the same age, and life is not lonely.
Children have the lives of children, and each must have their own living space.
I have to say that Teacher Yu still lives through when he is old. When others could not adapt to the leisure time when they retired, she first went to realize her dream of youth, went to the university of old age, and studied calligraphy and Chinese painting.
She does not seek fame and fortune, nor does she want to be a calligrapher and painter, and all her actions and pursuits stem from her liking, which is very pure.
It's the same with going to a nursing home, she said: "Some people will find it pitiful to go to a nursing home, but in fact, the nursing home is a very warm place." Raising children and preventing the elderly is already a thing of the past, and in the future, going to a nursing home is a trend in social development.
Now Ms. Yu has been living in a nursing home for 14 years, and the nursing home has become her second home. Usually, she would chat with the elderly in the nursing home, singing and playing games. When the stage needs her, she will also participate in society, singing on stage and recording shows.
On the screen, the 84-year-old still has a cheerful smile and a sweet singing voice.
Is it bad to live in a nursing home? I think that the choice of teacher Yu Shuzhen shows a truth:
No matter what kind of pension method, as long as you live comfortably, it is good to have fun in it.