"Chief Wang, I won't lie to you, Wang Qingli is really back, come back to see you."
"Twenty-something?"
"Twenty? She was thirty-six. ”
"Thirty-six?" Celebratory"
"Do you want Wang Qingli?"
"No, what do you want her to do?" Celebrate farts. Boy, celebrate the fart"
"Do you like boys?" Same as girls."
This dialogue is a dialogue between the third uncle Wang Jixiang and the second uncle's mother in Dapeng's movie "Auspicious Ruyi".
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"Auspicious Ruyi" is a family film shot by Dapeng based on the real events of his hometown and filmed in an imitation documentary style. Compared with "Pancake Man" with a box office of 1.16 billion, "The Sewing Machine Band" with a box office of 459 million, and "Auspicious Ruyi" with a box office of only more than 13 million.
The box office performance can not fully represent the quality of the film, and the Douban score of 7.9 of "Auspicious Ruyi" is the most eye-catching of the films directed by Dapeng at present.
This film was originally called "Grandma", the original plan was to go back to his hometown to shoot the daily life of Dapeng Grandma during the New Year, there was no script, everything was filmed to see Providence, and actress Liu Lu was the role of Dapeng instead.
However, when the shooting day came, my grandmother fell ill and died quickly.
Feeling inspired, Dapeng adjusted the original plan and finally became the current "Auspicious Ruyi".
The film is divided into two parts: "Auspicious" and "Ruyi".
"Auspicious" tells the story of Dapeng's third uncle Wang Jixiang. Wang Jixiang fell ill in middle age, resulting in mental retardation. Subsequently, the wife insisted on divorce and took her daughter Wang Qingli away. On the eve of the Spring Festival, her grandmother (Dapeng's grandmother) died suddenly, and Wang Qingli returned to her hometown in the northeast, facing the separation of life and death, and also facing the contradictions and conflicts of the family.
"Ruyi" tells the story of the filming process of the film "Auspicious". In addition to Wang Qingli, the characters of the relatives are all telling the truth themselves, and they have a strong sense of reality and substitution.
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As the old saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to break off household chores, and it is easy to get involved in other people's family disputes in a rash manner.
After the death of his grandmother, how to take care of Wang Jixiang became a difficult problem. Several children took advantage of the reunion dinner to discuss solutions together.
(Elder Wang Jiwen, Second Elder Wang Jiwu, Old Fourth Wang Jixiang, Old Fifth Wang Jigui, Wang Jixiang's husband Dong Zhiyang)
Art comes from life, a dialogue during the meal, but there are many reversals, which makes Da Hastily very ashamed.
At present, except for Wang Jiwu's family, who still live in the village, the remaining brothers and sisters live in the city.
Old Fifth: (Put Wang Jixiang) Put this aside, the second sister-in-law and the second brother must be affected. But we can't all stand idly by, can we? If you have time or if your body allows, we will come back to take care of it, because this is a concern for our old lady.
Second Aunt: It is really difficult to serve this person, you say that you can eat as much as you want on the kang. [But he] is so annoying, oh my goodness. This noisy ah, you said that you want to sleep at noon you can't sleep well. He shouted in that room.
Old Five: Needless to say second sister-in-law, how are you, who does not have a number in mind
Elder Two: We were both in that room, and we kicked our door and broke it. One day it made us confused, home is not home, place is not place.
Boss: Let me suggest a few options. The first thing I wanted to do was to let Li Li see that she had the conditions and the ability to take his father away
Elder Two: It is best to ask Li Li to take it away,
Boss: His father still has tens of thousands of dollars left, and a salary. If Li lili has the conditions, she can take your father away. If Li Li still has children, she still has to work outside the home, and she still has to earn money to support her family, and she does not have this ability. The second plan is for the big guys to look at our brothers and sisters, a milk brother, can not throw or manage.
Elder Two: They (the eldest and the fourth) must have meant that, back
Old Four: Let the eldest brother say first
Old man two: He can't say anything
Elder Four: He will talk about the plan and we will discuss it
Elder Two: What plan does he have, who sets the plan. He did as the old lady did. The old lady is gone now, so we have to talk to a few of us
Boss: I'm not done with this plan
Elder two: I said that the plan is to find a place for us to send him, how much money should we take, how much money I recognize, I also want to be quiet.
Dong Zhiyang: I will say two words. My aunt should not say that this is your old Wang family's business
Elder Two: I have a number in my heart about whoever says anything
Dong Zhiyang: That's what I think. No matter whether the old man stays in such a trouble or whatever, you are a milk compatriot after all
Elder Two: Isn't that what you said about foreign language?
Dong Zhiyang: I think it's quite difficult for one person to help four people, and I think it's okay for four people to take care of one person, right? The four of you sisters are good. Although he was sick when he was older, we followed this last word left by the old lady
Elder Two: When you say this, I will say it from your point of view
According to the above dialogue, it can be understood that Wang Jixiang's mother and son lived with the second eldest Wang Jiwu's family and were taken care of by Wang Jiwu's family. Now that the old lady is gone, the other siblings still plan to put Wang Jixiang on the side of the second elder, but the second brother does not agree. The phrase "back" is dialect, which means each time, which means that it has been discussed before, and it is this intention every time.
At this time, Da Hurriedly thought that the other brothers and sisters were some bullying, and they were afraid of trouble and were unwilling to take care of it, but they wanted to leave the trouble to others. No matter how good the words are, the actual actions reveal the heart.
Punches in the face always come so quickly.
Old Five: This matter is placed here, the second brother, you say? Why was it born of a mother? Here we go, let's solve the problem. Like my brother-in-law just said, I am particularly in favor of that, one tube four can not manage, how can the four pipes not be managed? We have to make people laugh? Let me do something, squeak. Second brother, you say, what should I do?
Elder Two: I'll let you go outside
Second Aunt: What are you doing?
Elder Two: I am the host, I am the host of this house
Boss: The house was left by the old man, what kind of host do you have?
Elder Two: Who left the house?
Boss: Tushu Village, you ask to go, who left this house?
Boss: This is not right, that is not true
Second aunt: Divorce, I am a foreigner, do I still have obligations?
Old man two: They all came to rob the house
Second aunt: Grab the house for the house
This dialogue also shows that it is not Grandma who lives in Wang Jiwu's house, but Wang Jiwu who lives in Grandma's house. The old man's last words have been mentioned before, although it is not explicitly stated in the movie, it is speculated that the old man hopes that Wang Jixiang will continue to be taken care of by Wang Jiwu's family, and the corresponding house will be left to Wang Jiwu's family, and the other brothers and sisters are not worse.
But now Wang Jiwu's family feels that they have been taking care of them for more than twenty years, almost. Since the old lady was gone, was it possible to send Wang Jixiang away, after all, it was too difficult to take care of the patient.
If it was agreed upon at the beginning, it was equivalent to making a deal, and the Wang Jiwu family wanted to take benefits and did not want to fulfill their obligations, which was not rude. The other siblings accused him of being completely reasonable, which explained why at first several people tacitly wanted to leave Wang Jixiang in Wang Jiwu's care, while the others just helped.
But the matter is not over, and the subsequent dialogue reveals more information.
Old Four: What can you say about what you say? I said the truth, I was happy for everyone, I took everything over. The money spent by our mother in the future, even our mother's hospitalization, is all responsible for me, do you know?
Old Five: You don't spend a penny
Elder Two: Why do I not spend a penny?
Boss: What did you spend? Sending the elderly you spent money on?
Dude: Did you spend it?
Boss: I didn't spend it, you served it?
At this point, things are clearer:
1. The original plan was that after the old lady passed away, Wang Jixiang would continue to be taken care of by Wang Jiwu, and the house they were living in now would also belong to Wang Jiwu (but it was only a verbal agreement, there should be no paper contract).
2. Now Wang Jiwu hopes to minimize his own responsibilities under the premise of preserving vested interests.
3. During the old man's illness and death, all expenses are responsible for Wang Jixiang and Wang Jiwen is responsible for taking care of them.
4. After Wang Jixiang fell ill, for twenty years, most of the things were taken care of by the old lady and Wang Jiwu's family.
5. How much Wang Jigui has done is unknown
According to the information obtained above, it is impossible to say who is right and who is wrong.
Wang Jiwu said that I did not pay for it but I took care of it, and this could not be defined. "I went to visit" and "I kept watching without sleep" are completely different, and there is a lot of room for extension.
Wang Jixiang finally contributed money, and although Wang Jiwu complained, he still took care of it for more than twenty years.
Most importantly, there is no need to ask for credit for taking care of one's own mother.
This kind of housework really can't be commented on randomly, and it is wrong to open it.
Fortunately, the final ending was good.
Several siblings take turns to take care of each family, each for three months.
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In the whole movie, the more controversial is the character of Wang Qingli.
When I was young, I helped my mother get my father out of the house
I haven't seen my father in ten years.
After the death of my grandmother, I did not take on the responsibility of caring for my father
Not a person in the bureau, not a judgement.
Even from the perspective of Liu Lu, the actor of Wang Qingli in "Auspicious", it is also difficult to understand Wang Qingli's thoughts and words and deeds.
But Liu Lu's evaluation of Wang Jixiang from the perspective of a bystander is that "the third uncle is really cute."
Wang Jiwu's wife said: "Wang Jixiang's staple food is buns, and for more than twenty years, we have been eating buns, that is, three hundred and sixty-five days a year, almost every day is inseparable from buns." ”
If Liu Lu is not a passerby, I don't know if I can make this evaluation by swapping his identity with Wang Jiwu.
When Dapeng, Wang Qingli, and Liu Lu exchanged ideas, Liu Lu said: I still don't understand why I haven't come back in ten years. Wang Qingli was embarrassed to face this problem.
Dapeng explained it from his own point of view: Sometimes, we all work in the city. You are like me, I basically work in Beijing, and I am isolated from this village. But that's all there is to it when you come back. You feel like two people, and I feel that I am two people now and I am in Beijing. When you don't focus on this, it doesn't work this. When you pay attention to this thing, it becomes all you have. And many of us are outside and forget about our homes.
But the real reason may be another hidden reason. At least in these two things, it is possible to make some conjectures:
1, I remember when my father was sick when he was a child, I didn't dare to go back to see him, I remember that he would have a particularly bad temper and be very grumpy. I hid behind my grandmother and went into his room to see him. Sometimes when I was wearing slippers he would chase me, and then I didn't even dare to take off my shoes.
Although this passage was spoken through Liu Luzhi's mouth, it was Wang Qingli's personal experience. What if hitting her is the real thing, but the time point is earlier?
Outsiders saw that Wang Qingli drank from snacks without worry and did not suffer. The real thing is not necessarily the case. That's the second thing
2, although Wang Jixiang has dementia, but there are a few words to remember but very familiar with "Wen Wu Xiang Gui, one two four five", "look for the mother tomorrow morning", "boys and girls, qing fart". The first two sentences represent the five brothers and sisters and the mother, and the "Qing fart" represents the daughter Wang Qingli.
Whether in terms of spoken language or dialect, it is difficult to imagine that "Qingshi" is a love name for her daughter, combined with the vocabulary of "boy and girl", I am afraid that Wang Qingli is a victim of the idea of preferring sons to daughters.
This justifies a lot of problems.
Because he did not give birth to a son, Wang Jixiang was very bad for Wang Qingli's mother, so he divorced after Wang Jixiang fell ill.
When Wang Qingli chatted with Wang Jixiang, she said, "Regardless of boys and girls, I am not your girlfriend."
At the time of the divorce, Wang Qingli's confession led to Wang Jixiang's clean discharge to a certain extent.
Other relatives expressed not anger but great understanding of Wang Qingli's failure to return for ten years
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Under the constraints of traditional moral concepts, is it to choose "family affection first" that conforms to popular values, or to choose "self-priority" after being tortured by life? Without the experience of the parties, you can't talk nonsense.
A good movie can not only resonate with the audience, but also attract people's thoughts. From this point of view, "Auspicious Ruyi" succeeded.