Guan Ning was a descendant of guan zhong, a famous minister in the Spring and Autumn period, and there are many stories of Guan Ning circulating in later generations, so what kind of person is Guan Ning?
Guan Ning picture
To explore what kind of person Guan Ning is, we must look at several aspects. The first is the aspect of his career. Guan Ning was full of poetry and talent, but he never stepped into the career path, and the rulers of several generations of Cao Wei had heard that his sages had recruited him, but Guan Ning refused, preferring to live a carefree life with a pure heart and no worries, rather than stepping into the world, polluting his life's code of life. From this point, it can be seen that Guan Ning is a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune.
The second is to see what kind of person Guan Ning is from Guan Ning's friends. Whether it is "hoeing the garden to collect gold" or "cutting off the seat and cutting off the righteousness", it shows that Guan Ning is very principled and will not change because of the closeness of the relationship.
Throughout his life, Guan Ning has adhered to the principle of handling things for others, kept his own heart, let the glitz of the world drift away, and did not change the determination in his heart. When he was sixteen years old, his father died, and his family situation was very difficult, and the relatives and friends around him understood his situation and reached out to help, but without exception, Guan Ning refused, and he only used his only ability to do a simple funeral for his father. It is said that some people may think that Guan Ning is really too stupid, but Guan Ning can do as much as he can, moreover, the funeral for his father is based on his own heart, Guan Ning has done it, so what is the more important significance of the others? Although he is not a big person, he has a different dazzling shining point on his body. His purity and simplicity make people unveil his mysterious side.
Then later to Liaodong to escape the war, which was a very political vision and sensitivity behavior at that time, Guan Ning in Liaodong for some people to teach poetry and etiquette, talk about sacrifice, Chen Ming courtesy, but when the ruler of the country recruited him to become an official, he did not hesitate to refuse, it can be seen that he is a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune, pure in heart, regards money and fame as dung, he only wants to do his own learning, and spread his life attitude and lofty ambitions as a life mentor.
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Guan Ning courtesy
Guan Ning Li Rang mainly tells about an incident in the small village where Guan Ning lives. At that time, people were fetching water at the well, and there were often conflicts and fights over this matter, and Guan Ning was very worried about this situation when he saw it, so he used his few savings to buy a lot of water pumping tools for people to use for water, and at the same time, he did not know that he did it.
Portrait of Guan Ning
When people saw the instrument and learned that guan Ning had done it, they were very remorseful and sighed, and they never fought again. Another story about Guan Ning's courtesy is that the neighbor's cattle destroyed Guan Ning's field, and Guan Ning not only did not get angry and scolded, but personally pulled the cow to the side of the road to feed, and when the neighbor's family took over the cow, his heart was also extremely guilty, as if he had done something wrong. Since then, the place where Guan Ning lived has never fought again, and the story of Guan Ning's courtesy has also spread to all places.
Guan Ning is a descendant of Guan Zhong, although the family is not rich, he insists on living a hard life with his own savings, and has given up many calls from the emperors of the country and lived a plain and simple life of ordinary people. He can break off relations with his friends because of "different ways and no conspiracies", and he can also refuse the support of relatives and friends for his own ambition, he gives up fame and profit, and is only willing to live for himself.
But it is a little unfair to say this, in the story of Guan Ning Li Rang, the villagers fighting water is actually not directly related to Guan Ning, but he can think about others, which shows that he is not a really high and indifferent person, although indifferent to fame and fortune, but has his own principle of doing things for people. And when the neighbor cattle wreaked havoc on his field, he made the neighbor realize his mistake and regret it, saying that he was also a wise and open-minded person.
Two criteria for Guan Ning's dating
The two criteria for Guan Ning's dating can actually be seen through some of Guan Ning's stories.
Picture of Guan Ning cutting mats
Guan Ning and Hua Xin were good friends, but through their two stories, we can see the two criteria for Guan Ning's friendship. One of the stories is this: Once, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were hoeing the land in the garden together and found a piece of gold, Guan Ning thought that he could not ask for it, but Hua Xin was reluctant to do so, and he still said that he did not care about money. At this time, Guan Ning was already very dissatisfied with Hua Xin. Another story is that Guan Ning and Hua Xin were reading together, but Hua Xin's eyes were attracted by the luxurious carriage outside, and he was very envious, and Guan Ning immediately broke off his friendship with Hua Xin.
Therefore, from these two stories, it can be seen that one of the two criteria for Guan Ning to make friends is like-mindedness. Hua Xin's personality of admiring vain money and Guan Ning's indifferent fame and fortune are completely different, or he should respond to that sentence - the Tao is different, not conspiring with each other. The other of guanning's two criteria for making friends is sincerity between friends. Making friends is valuable in sincerity, and sincerity can also be said to be sincere. If there is no sincerity between friends, then it cannot be counted as friends, at most it can only be regarded as a loss of friends, Hua Xinming obviously has a heart for gold, but he does not say so on his lips, this is simply not taking Guan Ning's words to heart. It can be seen that Hua Xin and Guan Ning's values and outlook on life are completely different, and it is impossible for two people like this to become friends.
Through the two criteria of Guan Ning's dating, it can be seen that Guan Ning is not only indifferent to fame and fortune, he pays more attention to sincerity, if there is no sincerity between two people, then no matter what the relationship is, there is no way to continue.
Guan Ninghuaxin
Guan Ninghuaxin was a person of the late Han Dynasty. Guan Ninghuaxin and the two people used to be very good friends, but later because of some things, Guan Ning and Huaxin broke off their friendship, what is the reason?
Guan Ninghuaxin picture
Guan Ning in the late Han Dynasty when the world was in turmoil and chaos, Guan Ning to the Liaodong region to take refuge in the chaos, he was very famous in the local area, for the same people who escaped from the war to explain the "Book of Poetry", etc., people are very happy to get his teaching guidance, after returning to the Central Plains, Cao Wei several generations of emperors have repeatedly recruited Guan Ning, but he refused.
Hua Xin was a native of the Plains Gao Tang Dynasty, a famous scholar of the late Han and early Wei dynasties, and an important minister during the Cao Wei period. In the early years, his master was The Taiwei Chen Qiu, who was the same as Guan Ning, and during the han ling emperor's time, he held the position of langzhong. Later, he became Cao Cao's military master and was given the title of Marquis of Anle Township when Cao Pi ascended the throne. He died on January 30, 232 AD.
The two most famous stories about Guan Ninghuaxin are "cutting off the mat and breaking off diplomatic relations" and "hoeing in the garden".
The hoe in the garden said that Guan Ninghuaxin and the two people once hoeed the ground together in the garden, there was a piece of gold on the ground, Guan Ning saw it and threw it out, but Hua Xin picked it up but was very happy, Guan Ning persuaded the ill-gotten wealth to be unobtainable, Hua Xin was still reluctant to look left and right, Guan Ning could only shake his head and sigh when he saw it.
The story of the severance of the mat is that when two people were studying, there were nobles at the door passing by in a gorgeous carriage, Guan Ning concentrated on reading and ignored the carriage, while Hua Xin stared at the car with relish, and from time to time he sighed with envy, so Guan Ning cut off the mat to show the intention of breaking off the relationship, and said to Hua Xin: "In the future, you will not be my friend." ”
Through these two stories, it can be explained that Guan Ninghuaxin and Ning Huaxin have different world views, and they cannot judge who is right and who is wrong.