Today I want to talk to you about Lu Xiucai in "The Tale of Wulin", some people say that he is a simple nerd, and some people say that he is the deepest person in the city government in the play.
At first glance, I think he is a well-read poet, gentle and obedient, never in conflict with people, and his temper is too good to be good.
When he was with his girlfriend Guo Furong, he was a typical "strong man and weak woman", he listened to his girlfriend for everything, only his girlfriend was from it.
However, now that he looked back again and found that it was not the case, Lu Xiucai superficially obeyed Guo Furong, but in the process of getting along, the two had always occupied a dominant position but not Guo Furong, but him.
And he seems to treat feelings from the beginning to the end, in fact, there are many flowers and intestines, in today's words, it is a scumbag who is not compromised.
It is not difficult to see from the following details:
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, the liking for Xiao Guo only stems from a sentence by a fortune teller. </h1>
Lü Xiucai's life can be regarded as high and low, he knows a thousand words at the age of three, memorizes Tang poems at the age of five, reads four books and five classics at the age of seven, and is proficient in poetry and song at the age of eight, which is a completely appropriate genius.
But his highlight moment also came to an abrupt end at the age of 8, and after that, no matter how hard he tried, he only hit a show talent.
You can imagine how much of a blow these were to him. Coupled with the fact that his family was in the middle of the road, he had to mortgage his ancestral house to Tong Xiangyu to survive.
At this time, he no longer believed in talent and hard work, and he began to believe in fate.
So when the fortune teller appeared, he did not hesitate to take out the silver he had accumulated for many years and asked him to help him calculate who his true destiny goddess was.
When the fortune teller said that it was Guo Furong, his look at Xiao Guo changed, and his attitude before and after changed, and he began to please and pursue her in every way.
There is no unprovoked hatred in this world, and there is no unprovoked love. It is precisely because he believes that Xiao Guo is the true destiny of this life and will bring him good luck, so he will go to great lengths to chase Xiao Guo.
After the two were together, Xiao Guo once asked him: "What do you like about me?" ”
Xiucai replied, "Because the fortune teller said that you are my true destiny, otherwise you are tough and hungry, you don't like to read, and you are not gentle, who will like you?" ”
It can be seen from this that his love is not simple, it is utilitarian, and it is beneficial to me to be with you, so I will be with you.
Such a man is both selfish and self-serving, and everything he does is for his own sake and will not think of the other party.
You are willing to pay for each other, but in exchange for the use, such feelings will not last long, such a man is not a scumbag What is it?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, every time there is a quarrel, he will never take the initiative to admit mistakes </h1>
To tell the truth, the number of quarrels between Lu Xiucai and Guo Furong is really uncountable, much more than Lao Bai and Tong Xiangyu.
They often quarrel over a trivial matter.
Once, in order to help Tong Xiangyu, Guo Furong and Bai Zhantang pretended to be related. Originally, this matter, the whole inn's clear inside story, knew that Tong Xiangyu did this in order to avoid her father.
And Guo Furong is a very moralistic person, so she will fake marriage with Bai Zhantang.
Afterwards, she also explained to Xiucai and told Xiucai that it was all fake.
However, Xiucai did not understand her, but always held on to this matter.
No matter how Xiao Guo apologized and explained, he could not listen. On the contrary, xiao Guo's sincerity was trampled on the soles of his feet again and again.
In addition to this time, they also quarreled many times, and each time Xiao Guo took the initiative to apologize to him and whispered to coax him.
Let me ask you, Xiao Guo is a proud person, and he has not suffered any grievances since he was a child. But for the sake of her beloved, she is willing to take the initiative to admit her mistakes, indicating that she really loves Xiucai.
On the other hand, Xiucai, under the banner of deep love for Xiao Guo, is doing things that hurt her.
I have seen such a sentence: "People who really like you will not be willing to let you suffer a little grievance." ”
Deeply believed!
A person who truly loves you will hold you in the palm of his hand, he will be happy when you are happy, and he will be more sad to see you sad than you.
When two people quarrel, he will also take the initiative to confess and apologize to you, rather than arguing endlessly for the so-called face problem.
People who love you will not only like your strengths, but also tolerate your shortcomings, tolerate your willfulness and unreasonable teasing.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, he and Peerless play ambiguously, but do not hinder with Xiao Guo </h1>
The most scummy place of Xiucai is not the above two points, but after Xiao Guo left, the ambiguity between him and Zhu Wushuang is completely the performance of a scumbag.
One of the basic routines of scumbags is: don't pick out, don't refuse, play ambiguous, and Lu Xiucai has done it.
In fact, at the beginning, Zhu Wushuang did not like Lu Xiucai, and when she saw that Xiucai did not think about Xiao Guo's tea and dinner, she was very moved.
Therefore, she will be good to Xiucai, because she is a very kind girl and is very good to everyone in the inn. For Xiucai, she did not mix with any impure feelings at first.
Xiucai, on the other hand, will be mistaken, thinking that Peerless likes him. Xiu is a vain person, and when someone likes him, he is extremely happy inside.
Therefore, adhering to the state of wanting to refuse to return the favor, he began to engage in ambiguity with Peerless, his behavior was very intimate, and he was kissing and telling love words, like a couple in love.
Finally, Under his step-by-step attack, Peerless completely fell.
But who knows, when Xiao Guo returned, he immediately drew a clear line with Peerless, saying that the only person who loved wholeheartedly was Xiao Guo.
Had he forgotten when he was playing with Peerless, forgetting what he said and did?
This is typical of scumbags: he is ambiguous with others, but it does not hinder being with you.
Being with men who don't have a sense of boundaries is often very insecure.
You know, how many feelings, are ruined without a sense of boundaries. Especially between adult men and women, the sense of boundaries is particularly important.
A man without a sense of boundaries, no matter what he does, he will only come according to his own wishes, and he will not know how to avoid suspicion at all.
And a man with a sense of boundaries, he will keep a proper distance from the opposite sex, will not do things that make the opposite sex misunderstand, and will not ask the opposite sex out alone.
Because he understands that avoiding suspicion is the responsibility that a man should have, and it is also a way to reassure the other half.
Every relationship needs to be carefully managed and carefully maintained by both parties.
Since you have chosen to be with each other, you should be single-minded and think more about each other, so that such feelings can go on for a long time.
Today's topic: Do you think Lu Xiu is a scumbag or a affectionate man, welcome to leave a message to discuss!
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