New consciousness of getting rich: it is better to become a grandpa than to become a laughing city
Want to get rich? Please stop pointing fingers at your dream lover first.
Middle-aged and elderly idols, dirt and oil, but won numbness
Before there was a fan girl who went out to cheer for the 10th anniversary concert of TFBOYS, and then there were tens of millions of fans of Xiucai and a smile on Douyin to play PK, the whole gift was brushed, and the pension of a province was silently destroyed.
Young people think that they are the sun at eight or nine o'clock in the Internet era, firmly grasping the trend and new trends, but they are aware of the krypton gold carnival that the grandpa and aunt next door are happy about.
First of all, I was curious about how it was so lively, how could I brush so much money, and after watching the comment area for a while, I came back to my senses: Wait, there won't be a father and a mother in their live broadcast room, right?
Let's look at the data analysis: in cities below the third tier, people over 50 years old... Isn't that what it is?!
Sure enough, star chasing is not limited to age, the difference is only in the shape and color of the stars.
Young people have their own love beans, and middle-aged and elderly people also have their own white moonlight; Young people will roar and cry at the idols concert, don't be surprised that grandpa and aunt will say all the commotion in the live broadcast room of Bai Yueguang.
You deliberately ran to look at Xiucai and the honor of smiling, and couldn't help frowning, feeling a greasy, rustic, complaining that the taste of grandpa and aunt is too difficult to say.
But as everyone knows, your mother looks at Cai Xukun, Wang Hedi, Di Li, Gerba, Yi Mengling... It's no better, not to mention those muscular men, those black silk loli, I'm afraid that every minute they will remind them of the rebels who always work against themselves at home.
The world is uneven, and the cocoon effect reinforces the differences between people, and you and I stay in the "self-righteous world", enclosure self-hi, and isolate others. As a result, relatives and friends are always complaining about not understanding enough and caring too little, and the businesses who understand us the most have become businesses that focus on market segmentation and user portraits.
Xiucai and the self-media team with a smile are two of these businesses.
They touched the spiritual realm of grandpa and aunt in a not flashy way, and also stirred the money bag that uncle and aunt would not easily open.
Yes, elderly people are indeed marginal figures in the public opinion field of consumerism and mutual understanding network, they are not like young people who can be flattered by advertisements every day as soon as they open their eyes, and are seduced by hot spots, but once they find a small exit, it is the only one, that is, the stormy waves, a thousand miles, can be turned into real money in the live broadcast room and the 72-year-old grandmother stepped into a thousand miles to find a lover.
It's a little greasy, and the soil is quite earthy, but it's effective! Uncle and aunt eat this set!
Precise blocking, pleasing to others and self-interest, it can really be described as "others laugh at me for not being advanced, I laugh at others too narrow-minded".
The first rule of the treasure book of wealth - "no face"
Recently, due to the collapse of Xiucai's house at the speed of light, young people who planned to "arrest their parents" by the way have flowed to the city with a smile, and many people have seen through the dimensional wall when they look at it, and unconsciously are captured by the charm of the laughing sister, and enter the fate track of "questioning the uncle, understanding the uncle, and becoming the uncle".
Ah this... I couldn't help but shout to them to stop - "Young people, chasing stars should be moderate, and money is king!" Besides, just our three melons and two dates, is it enough to make a fraction of the big master? Can Sister Xiaoxiao see it? ”
People smiled and kindly dissuaded them to leave, saying that college students should not brush gifts, let uncle brush, uncle has money.
Young people, the correct revelation for the explosion of middle-aged and elderly idols is not to ridicule or enter the pit, but should be: first, pay more attention to the elderly at home, so as not to be taken advantage of by people with bad intentions; Second, learn the Book of Wealth from the idols of grandpa and aunt, and at least break some of your own cognitive barriers on the road to money.
For example, what barrier?
The above mentioned "accurate" and "effective", the truth is understood, but many people, especially the "intellectual cultural people" with a few drops of ink in their stomachs and a little education, always can't go straight to the goal and take the effective path, because they can't put down one thing - "face".
In the matter of making money, of course, there must be a bottom line, but often you can't take "me" too seriously, otherwise you can only be bound by worries like the following - "What if you scratch your head and get ridiculed?" "What should I do if I am underestimated?" "What should I do if I encounter an old color billet that is entangled?"
In fact, where are there so many "what to do"? What is the perfect solution that works without "hurting the body"? What's the good thing to achieve without taking risks and costs?
The fact is:
Scratching your head may indeed be ridiculed, but it can also hit the curiosity and lecherous heart inherent in human instincts, and quickly attract a lot of attention. Since your appeal is to be seen, and pretending to be crazy and foolish and scratching your head within the appropriate range can effectively reach the goal, then rolling up your sleeves is much cleaner than looking ahead and wandering left and right mental internal consumption.
When you decide the result of the chase, don't always think about keeping your posture good all the time, just like it doesn't matter if the knife is sloppy, it's most important not to be hungry when the rice is cooked. Regarding this point, the well-known actress Ms. Ye Xuan, I am afraid that she has already figured it out, right?
On the other hand, catering to and serving others will indeed encounter all kinds of criticism and debasement, but this is the inevitable price of "altruism", and everything based on the needs of others will inevitably be accompanied by the deterioration of their own desires, such as, "In order to make others happy, you must put away your unhappiness and keep smiling like a flower at all times", "In order to satisfy the superiority of others, you must not only hide your narcissism, but also expose your shortcomings when necessary"... But fortunately, you can earn money.
It is not to express that it is necessary to make money and hold back, but to say that to survive in society, people must have a mind that accommodates grievances and a solid core that does not pity and self-harm because they are in a low position on the surface. It seems that being a small low but can maintain the pride of personality is not considered to be a small low low, blindly pursuing glamorous beauty and high people, and taking other people's words and inner sorrows and joys as greater than the sky, may be able to save face for a while, but may not be able to get real benefits.
Many young people are looking for jobs at the beginning of their careers, or they like to pursue CBD floor-to-ceiling windows luxury offices, handsome guys and beautiful returnee colleagues and bullish high-end customers, as if in this way, they can get a piece of light and become shining;
Either firmly believe in "the set of rectifying the workplace after 00", and slap the table and leave the person after a little unhappy, as if the back of the hero in the eyes of former colleagues can be written into the job resume to make HR's eyes shine.
But what is the result?
When you pay too much attention to the halo, you will ignore the essence (such as what the company makes money, what are the development prospects, who the target customers are, and what functions I can play in it), and go into the path of great disappointment or unclear self-awareness;
When you are obsessed with narcissism and your self-esteem is so fragile that you can't bear a little grievance, you will get used to blaming all setbacks and unhappiness on the external environment, and then keep jumping jobs until you have nowhere to go and curl up in a narrow comfort zone.
Seeing the opportunities behind it through the rough appearance, willing to "wronged yourself" to serve the target customers well, is the beginning of the true maturity of a social person, and it is also a sign that he is gradually approaching financial luck.
Good student? Bad student?
Why is it said that "intellectuals and cultural people" are particularly unable to let go?
On the one hand, he has been in the ivory tower for a long time, entered society relatively late, and has been influenced by idealism in books, lacks concepts of the real world and has lofty ambitions, and needs to slowly understand the sinister of the world, the laws of social operation and the importance of money in stumbling.
Xu Zhiyuan, who recently became a black and red leader, said in an interview with Lei Jun that he once thought that money was the least important thing, and did not change his opinion until much later. Not treating money as dung, it is probably a baptism of growth that people who read a lot and love to read must go through.
And many head Internet celebrities have a low level of education, even below junior high school, because they are trying to survive on the ground, and they can't do it without tossing. After hunger, no way back, no illusions, the goal will naturally become single and clear.
On the other hand, children who do not study well are often not the ones who are placed in high hopes by their parents, and children who study well are the tools to earn face for their parents. Parents need to satisfy their vanity through children who are expected to become dragons, and children carrying this instruction will habitually seek and maintain a surface brilliance, even if the brilliance is not supported by a solid foundation, so filling the heart with face has become a family heirloom-like existence, and has also become a barrier to touch the essence and seize opportunities.
It is hereby emphasized that it is not that everything is for the purpose of making money, let alone that everyone must be on par with Internet celebrities, but that the threesome must have my master, and the advantages of others can sometimes clearly reflect their own shortcomings. People, do not necessarily save more fame and profit, but must constantly hone the ability to adapt to reality and broaden the boundaries of life, the real comfort zone is not the ethereal cloud, but the transformed non-comfort zone.
Of course, the top stream of the same track is also different.
Some netizens who lurked in the PK competition said that Xiucai is very unplayable, PK is a little angry and corrupt when it loses, and feels that it can hit people in the next second, and the video has been popular for so long without the meaning of self-improvement, or just twist.
The smile next door is different, not only learned dance, long talent, but also shows the professionalism that Uncle Bai Yueguang should have, always gentle and elegant smile, not black face and not impatient, but really has a bit of the style of the ancient sweet sister Yang Yuying, no wonder some college students can't help but want to give her gifts.
In such a comparison, the goal of a smile is clearer and the core is more stable, and Xiucai must be able to see the advantages of his peers early, and he will not break the sand so quickly. "Female love beans are strict with themselves, male love beans are often collapsed", this law is really regardless of the audience.
Then add another item to the "Book of Getting Rich": don't float, don't take yourself too seriously, a little success doesn't mean you can be above the rules of the game.