China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and love and marriage must pay attention to the door to the door, and such love is also the easiest to get the blessing and recognition of others. Since the development of our country, people's minds have become more open than in ancient times, and it is not uncommon for all kinds of twilight love today, but this is the only person who drives his children out of the house for his love.
This person is Qiao Guanhua, a famous diplomat of our country, and I believe that most people's impression of him is that photo of him laughing wildly in the United Nations building. In fact, Chen Guanhua is a very good diplomat, known as "a rare horn in the political storm, a mountain eagle among mountain eagles", he has had two loves in his life, and in each love he has paid his heart, and even made a shocking move of driving his children out of the house for his second marriage.
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Qiao Guanhua was born on March 8, 1913, at an inopportune time, when the Great Qing Qi would change dynasties, so the society was very unstable. Qiao Guanhua's father was a local landlord, and the family also had a hundred acres of good land, so Qiao Guanhua was spoiled as a little young master.
Qiao Guanhua has loved to read since he was a child, and when he was young, he was not as lively as other children, but he was still very quiet, and he liked to read alone. When he was a little older, he did not wait for his father to mention it to him, he took the initiative to ask to go to school, which also surprised his father at that time, so Qiao Guanhua was arranged to study in his uncle's private school.
Qiao Guanhua learned to work hard, and he was talented, so he learned things quickly, and when he was in elementary school, he jumped in shifts one after another, and was called "genius" by everyone around him. Qiao Guanhua also did not deserve the name of his genius, and he was admitted to the Tsinghua Academy at the age of 16. He was the youngest of their class. Qiao Guanhua, who entered tsinghua school, seems to have gained a new life, he still loves to read books and often runs to the library, in which he sees the larger world, and therefore yearns for the outside world.
He decided he was going to go outside, so in the year he graduated he applied for the opportunity to study abroad. Because he had been doing well in college, his application was quickly approved, and he was arranged to study at Tokyo Imperial University in Japan.
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After Qiao Guanhua arrived in Japan, he especially cherished the opportunity to study abroad, so he has always been very honest, afraid that he will make some mistakes and be ordered to return to China. However, at that time, there were already signs of war in Japan, and it often made a big speech to demagogue people's minds.
Qiao Guanhua, because of his patriotism, could not care less about himself, and at that time, many Chinese students in Japan launched an opposition march, and he also joined this wave. Because of this incident, Qiao Guanhua was expelled from Japan, so under the arrangement of the state, he came to Germany for further study, and got his doctorate as he wished.
When he was in Germany, Qiao Guanhua was very concerned about the international situation, because he knew that our motherland could be in danger at any time, so he began to study military and various political things, hoping to contribute to the motherland.
Unsurprisingly, when the all-out war began in 1937, the country was in danger for a while, and although Qiao Guanhua was abroad, he was very anxious, and he immediately put down everything at hand and chose to return to the motherland.
At that time, many of his classmates were very puzzled by his behavior: China is constantly at war at the moment, there are people dying at any time in China, it is very unsafe, and it should not be the wisest choice to stay abroad at this time? What they can't understand is Qiao Guanhua's patriotic blood. Qiao Guanhua immediately joined China's revolutionary cause when he returned to his homeland, founded the "China News Agency" and served as its president, publishing news for the anti-war forces at that time.
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Qiao Guanhua's first relationship came after he had just returned to China. Because of his work, he met the prime minister's secretary, Gong Peng, a woman who was very good in all aspects, she was independent, intellectual and beautiful. In the prime minister's office, Qiao Guanhua met Gong Peng for the first time and was attracted by her unique charm. It was as if heaven was deliberately matching them, and due to Qiao Guanhua's job transfer, the two people who should not have intersected became colleagues and needed to meet every day to discuss politicians.
The personalities of the two are very close, and on weekdays they not only talk about work occasionally but also talk about their own lives, and the two have become very good friends. Qiao Guanhua still had a lot of admiration for Gong Peng in his heart, but he didn't dare to show it. Qiao Guanhua's thoughts were soon known to Gong Peng, who, although he did not pick out, did not stay away from him.
Qiao Guanhua thought that he might have a chance, and after careful consideration, he confessed to Gong Peng, who actually had a good feeling for Qiao Guanhua, and the two came together.
The combination of the two can be described as a door-to-door pair, Lang Cai's female appearance, which has been blessed by everyone, and the chairman also specially gave two poems on their wedding day: "Born beautiful double flying swallow, thousands of miles of marriage revolution pull."
After marriage, the life of the two is very happy, Gong Peng is a strong woman at work, but when she arrives at home, she is a virtuous wife. The two of them had a good relationship, calling each other darling at home, and Gong Peng even gave up his opportunity to be promoted to her husband. Qiao Guanhua always felt that being able to marry Gong Peng in this life was the favor of heaven for him. However, such a happy life did not last long, and during the special period, Qiao Guanhua and his wife Gong Peng undoubtedly suffered inhuman criticism, and Gong Peng finally failed to survive that time and died of illness in 1970.
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Gong Peng's departure was the biggest blow That Qiao Guanhua had ever endured in his life, he could not get out of it, he could only spend all his time working, and only when he was working would he not think of his deceased wife. Every time he came to the house, he would burst into tears, unwilling to face this sad fact. But no matter how sad he is, he is still a Chinese diplomat, and it is impossible for his emotions to affect inter-state negotiations. Therefore, Qiao Guanhua began to slowly hide this grief in his heart and began to cheer up again.
In 1971, Qiao Guanhua was sent to New York for a United Nations conference, during which time he met his second lover. At work, he met Zhang Hanzhi, a woman who was just as good as Gong Peng. Perhaps because Zhang Hanzhi and Gong Peng have many similarities, Qiao Guanhua noticed her from the beginning. Gradually, Qiao Guanhua changed from attention at the beginning to care, and then became a strong desire to care, and Qiao Guanhua fell in love with this woman who resembled Gong Peng.
Zhang Hanzhi's family is also not happy, her husband cheated, and she only endured humiliation for the sake of fame. And Qiao Guanhua's show of love allowed Zhang Hanzhi to find the hope of her life, and she immediately divorced her husband and began a marriage with Qiao Guanhua. Unexpectedly, Qiao Guanhua did not tell his children about this matter, and when the children learned of this matter, they all expressed their resolute opposition, believing that Qiao Guanhua's move was sorry for his mother who had passed away.
Who knew that Qiao Guanhua had his own ideas, he knew that Gong Peng loved him deeply, would never want to see him die alone, and he believed that his deceased wife would definitely support him. In the face of the children's strong opposition, he even threw all his children out of the house in one fell swoop. He thinks that his children have grown up and can be self-reliant, and he should not waste time with his wife.
His children were thrown out of the house and went to their respective places, but they could no longer pull down their faces to see their father. Since then, Qiao Guanhua has never taken the initiative to contact the children, and the former family seems to have really broken off contact. It was not until Qiao Guanhua's deathbed that his children finally visited him, and they were forgiven by their own children before he died.
Qiao Guanhua's act of driving his children out of the house for his love is really surprising, and some people will think that he is too selfish to disregard flesh and blood affection. In fact, feelings are sometimes just a person's thing and no one has nothing to do with it, love and no love can only be broken on their own, Qiao Guanhua's approach is indeed a bit extreme, but fundamentally speaking, he is not wrong, what do you think?
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