Good September, I'm LEO.
Recently, we have seen a familiar scene: older students go to school in groups of three or two, while children obediently carry school bags and wear school uniforms, accompanied by their parents, return to school.
Seeing this scene, I feel like I am instantly back to my childhood. When the school starts, it is really both expected and afraid; both to greet the new semester, and some small reluctance and resentment of "how is the summer vacation over".
However, once you return to the classroom to chat with your classmates and teachers, and receive a new textbook with the fragrance of ink and ink, you will immediately put away your grievances and be a student who studies well and improves every day.
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Please listen well
Try Your Best
On the first day of school, as an "old" senior, I would like to say a few words to the students and parents here:
When school starts, then take a good look at it and come up with a state of study, reading, and hard work! Learning can't be fun, and most of the time it's even a little bitter. You are bitter, others are suffering, everyone is suffering. But try to convince yourself to be happy in your suffering.
How to have fun? Start by setting small learning goals that are very small and have a high probability of achieving, such as "understand a geometry problem today" and "memorize 10 words in these two days". Next, complete the goal and reap the rewards. People are very interesting, the process of doing it may be very annoying, almost unbearable, but after completing the goal as desired, they begin to be happy and have the joy of returning to happiness.
Find 1-3 classmates or sisters/seniors who are better than you as role models, refer to their strengths, and ask them for advice and learn together. Silently take them as the target of pursuit, approaching and even eventually catching up with them. With benchmarking, there is the motivation to move forward and climb up. After that, it is difficult to stand still.
In addition to being with excellent students, you must remember to consult the teacher more. The various questions you encounter in the classroom and in the exams can almost only be a true subset of what the teacher teaches. When you encounter something you don't understand, sort it out in time, ask the teacher decisively, and hug the teacher's thigh. The teacher will not be annoyed with you, although you humbly ask for advice and ask the root of the matter, until you understand it thoroughly. Even if the teacher annoys you, what can you do? In order to raise the grades, it is only right to ask the teacher.
Confusion on the road to school is normal. Everyone will be confused: microscopic confusion, macroscopic confusion, has always surrounded us. Why get lost? One of the reasons isn't bad is that you have more than one choice, a way to plan for the future. For example, do you want to go to the north to study in Guangzhou or stay in the local area? Going to a public school or an international school? Is it graduate school or work first? ......
Faced with these choices, you don't know how to make decisions, hesitate, tangle, and then get confused. But I would like to say that as long as there are different "ways out", choices, there is still hope, of course, not game over. No matter which choice you make, there will be opportunity costs and regrets that come with it, but don't think too much about it at this time, just do it well!
A great way to eliminate the sense of confusion is to focus on the present and straighten out and complete the pieces that can be done well in advance. I dare say that even with uncertainty about the future, there is still a lot you can do at this moment. Don't wait, don't drag, take action NOW. Forget about those "long-term worries" first, and solve the "near-term worries" well. Even better, it will be that while getting the current academic tasks done, you also feel the stones and cross the river, gradually clarify the direction of the next stage, and say goodbye to the confusion that once lingered.
Although it is necessary to have high standards and strict requirements when studying, don't be too "chicken" yourself, the "chicken" of the chicken baby.
That is to say, while constantly motivating yourself to make progress, you must also have a tolerance for yourself, and you must not be more aggressive and too strong. There is a process of improving academic performance, and it is impossible to complete the counterattack in an instant. When setting goals, it is necessary to be "steady and fierce", and it must be feasible while having a certain degree of challenge difficulty. Otherwise, if it is not completed, it will really dampen morale.
The beginning of the school is just the beginning, the road to progress is heavy and long, to take it step by step, to fight a protracted war, do not exhaust yourself with too much force at the beginning, but later you can't move. At the end of the laugh, it is the best laugh.
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The beginning of the love sinus? Too normal
No Need to be Shameful
Say something to the older children who have just opened their hearts: It is very normal to have a good feeling for so-and-so classmates. Boys and girls flower season rainy season, as long as it is normal people will begin to like others in adolescence.
But I tell you, this is not the time to fall in love. As soon as you fall in love, the heart is scattered, the whole is scattered. You have to make yourself better and more attractive first. You can hide your crush in your heart and turn it into motivation, but you don't seek results. In the future, when you are strong and go to a broader world and a platform for more talents, you may meet people who move you more.
Did I have a crush at the time? Of course. How could there not be? He is not a monk who does not eat human fireworks. But I didn't let anything happen, I just quietly took this liking to heart and continued to read well.
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Parents and friends don't worry
Every Kid is Adorable
I also have something to say to my parents and friends - of course, I have not yet started a family and have children, I do not have much say, and I am allowed to share some ideas from the perspective of putting myself into the "child".
First of all, I would like to say: parents have worked hard, and it is not easy to worry about their children's learning after work! Please pay attention to your body and try to maintain a good mood. Children are emotionally dependent on their parents, and if you are out of the situation, your child's learning status is bound to be affected.
I know that it is really not easy to keep your body and mind in good shape, after all, there are always such and such anxiety factors in life. But let's be more optimistic about the side, be more grateful for what we already have, and don't stick to what others have but we don't have (for the time being).
For example, it is necessary to learn from the experience of "other people's children", but you can't always compare, it's really too tired! And to be honest, not every child has to live to be "someone else's child"; other people's children may not always be able to excel.
Your child must have a lot of cuteness and superiority. While expecting your child to change stronger, remember to give them a little more patience and affirmation. The interaction between parents and children is more relaxed and peaceful, and everyone's state will be better and better.
The above is for every student/parent friend who comes here. Back to school, let's cheer together Wow! Here I would like to silently bless everyone and believe that you can do it. You can definitely make it!
September began, and all the working party workers cheered together. Performance rushed, work 666. Don't be afraid of what you can do, try to do what you can, and you will have no shame.
Share two photos of Beijing taken on the way to and from work recently, and also make an ending for this push. Good luck to us
Wishing us full of energy
LEO