A man's sadness, how many women know? It's a man's thumbs up!

"How many women know the sadness of men?" Friend Lao Wang sighed at a late-night party.

I was silent for a moment and nodded. Indeed, as men, we often suffer in silence under pressure and responsibility, and these feelings are rarely known to outsiders, and sometimes even difficult to talk about ourselves.

The first is the stress of life. Men are often seen as the breadwinners of the family, which means they have more responsibilities at work and in life. Lao Wang mentioned that he sometimes feels exhausted, but for the sake of his family, he must move on. I feel the same way, the pressure of work and the trivial things in life often make me breathless, but for the sake of my family's happiness and future, I can only bear these pains in silence.

The second is emotional repression. There is a general belief in society that men should be strong and should not show a weak or vulnerable side. This leads to many men not daring to express their inner feelings easily, even in the face of difficult situations. Lao Wang said that he had fallen into an emotional trough for a period of time, but he couldn't find a suitable way to vent, so he could only digest it alone. I think this kind of scene is not new to many men, we are used to hiding our hearts and minds, thinking that it is a sign of maturity and strength.

Then there is the burden of family responsibilities. Men are often expected to be pillars and protectors in the family, and this role brings with it a great sense of responsibility. Whether it is financial pressure or responsibility for their children's education, men are carrying a heavy burden. Lao Wang mentioned that every time he saw the smiling faces of children, he felt both relieved and stressed. He knew that he had to keep working hard to provide a better life for his family.

Finally, there is loneliness. Although a man may seem strong on the outside, the loneliness on the inside is rarely understood. Lao Wang said that he sometimes feels very lonely, because the people around him see him as a strong supporter, but few people care about his inner feelings. I've learned the same way, many times, we get used to playing a strong role and neglect our own emotional needs.

Behind these sadness are the expectations and responsibilities that men assume in society and in the family. We are called to be strong, decisive, and courageous, but few pay attention to our inner world. Societal stereotypes allow men to learn to hide their emotions and act fearless, but in reality, we also have moments of weakness and need support.

Lao Wang said with deep feelings: "Men are also human beings, and we also have emotions and vulnerabilities, and we also need understanding and support. ”

I nodded in agreement, "Yes, men's heartache is often overlooked, but we also need a space to release and be understood." ”

This conversation made me realize that men's inner world also needs attention and care. As men, we should not suppress our emotions because of society's expectations, but should learn to express and ask for help at the right time. At the same time, we should also support each other and be dependent on each other.

In the days ahead, I hope to better balance responsibilities and emotions, not only to be the pillar of the family, but also to learn to take care of my inner world. I hope that every man can find a balance so that he can feel understood and supported while taking responsibility. May we all find solace in our hearts and strength to grow in the process.