With the exposure of Xiao S's second daughter Xu Shaoen's endorsement turmoil, netizens once again turned their attention to the growth and education of the "second generation of stars" in the entertainment industry.
Following this topic, someone set their eyes on the same 16-year-old Tian Liang's daughter Sendie, and found that the images of the two girls of the same age were like Yunjing. Behind this, it reflects the worlds of difference between the two families' educational concepts for their children.
If you want to talk about the well-known "rich second generation" and "star second generation" in the entertainment industry, I am afraid you have to start with Xiao S's family.
As a famous Hong Kong actor, she has put her two daughters in the spotlight since she was pregnant. The eldest daughter Xu Huayun appeared on the big screen as early as 8 years old, and the 17-year-old youngest daughter Xu Shaoen has become commonplace in major endorsements and variety shows.
Seeing that Grandma Xiao S is so generously supportive, the two sisters have long gotten rid of the hazy childishness of a girl, and their dressing and makeup show the taste of adults.
However, recently, netizens have mixed opinions about Xu Shaoen's image.
Many people praise her for her intelligence and unfathomable intelligence, while others criticize her for being too mature and even suspect that she deliberately attracts the attention of men. It is precisely because he is too "old-fashioned" that Xu Shaoen has been canceled by many endorsers.
In contrast, it is the only daughter of former swimmer Tian Liang's family. The influence of parenthood is far less than that of Xiao S, but looking at the 16-year-old Sendie, you can see what valuable educational resources she has obtained.
Recently, some media met a family of three at the Paris Olympics. The handsome father, the gentle and virtuous mother, and the bright and innocent daughter in a white dress, this is Tian Liang's family of three.
Seeing her daughter Sendie's neat dress, netizens were surprised: "At the same age as Xu Shaoen, how can you judge the two of you?"
Xu Shaoen grew up in an acting family, and naturally became infected with the glamorous appearance and flashy atmosphere of the entertainment industry.
Her childhood was filled with various commercial events and public attendance, and she was accustomed to life in front of the camera and performances under the lights from an early age.
Xu Shaoen is often involved in TV shows and film and television shooting, and she learned how to deal with the media and fans at a young age, and her words and deeds have already shown maturity and confidence beyond her years.
In contrast, Sendie's childhood seemed very ordinary and ordinary, almost as "extraordinary".
Her parents, especially her father Tian Liang, paid great attention to her all-round development and healthy growth. Sendie's daily life revolves around studying and various sports activities.
She learned to swim and golf, which not only exercised her physical fitness, but also improved her concentration and self-discipline.
In addition to sports, Sendie also participates in various social activities at school, such as parent-teacher conferences, which have taught her how to build friendships and socialize among her peers.
On weekends and holidays, Sen Die can often be found playing hide-and-seek, playing soccer or biking in the community's parks.
These simple happy moments were carefully arranged by Tian Liang's family to ensure that Sendie could enjoy a carefree and healthy childhood.
Through this lifestyle, Sendie learned the basic skills of teamwork and problem-solving, while also cultivating her love of life and curiosity about new things.
Attentive netizens also found that in the Paris Olympics, his father Tian Liang held Sendie's little hand tightly throughout the whole process, for fear that she would get lost in the crowd.
And the mother was beside her, and from time to time she looked at the father and daughter lovingly. The small details of the warmth are all interpreting the deep love of this ordinary family for their children.
"Seeing Sendie so simple and lovely, I suddenly have a feeling of happiness." A netizen sighed. That's right, the most valuable asset of an ordinary family is to educate their children to be innocent and kind, away from the glitz and glamour of the world.
From this point of view, Xiao S's approach to the "advanced" education of his daughters seems to be a little regretful.
At the age of 15, he began to accept endorsements and participate in reality show variety shows, which is obviously too rapid for a child who has not yet fully matured. It's no wonder that their current outfits have lost their original childishness.
However, some netizens excused Xiao S's "crazy Mom": "After all, their family's environment has decided, and if you want to gain a foothold in the entertainment industry, you must exercise early."
The consequence of this "exercise" is that many netizens proposed to "refuse their endorsement". Because in the eyes of many people, it is really contrary to common sense for a minor to show an overly mature temperament.
In the face of accusations from public opinion, Xiao S has also played a round for his educational philosophy many times.
She once explained on the show: "I don't force children to participate in entertainment activities, everything is based on their voluntariness. I want them to be exposed to different things and enrich their experience. "
It sounds reasonable, but netizens obviously don't buy it. "It's understandable for a single mother to provide for her family, but how can you joke with her child's future?"
A comment hit the heart of the problem: "Xiao S's education method is to let children get in touch with Vanity Fair too early, ignoring their precious childhood time." In the long run, it is likely to distort the importance that children place on money. "
If you look back at Sendie's house, you can probably understand what a "normal child's growth environment" is. Learn in the host development class, follow your parents around for sightseeing, and play with your peers...... These are the most precious childhood memories.
Tian Liang and his wife should understand that the time of cherishing the innocence of their children is far more precious than the glitz of Vanity Fair.
If you insist on saying that there is any difference between the educational philosophy of Xiao S and Tian Liang's family, it is probably "life pursuit". One set the goal of quickly entering the entertainment industry to make money, while the other chose to slow down and grow healthily.
It has been said that educating children is like carving marble and requires great care. A stick can't be even, and it can only smash the marble; But if it is logical, it can create a majestic statue.
On this issue, Xiao S and Tian Liang's family chose two different paths. But we have reason to believe that Sendie's simple and innocent temperament will definitely enable her to walk more steadily and effectively and harvest a happy life on the road of growth in the future.
In general, the reason why two girls of the same age are like each other is rooted in their families' different understandings of the word "education".
One is to hope that his son will become a dragon and be in a hurry; One is to do it step by step and within your means. Which one is more conducive to the healthy development of children? I'm afraid that from all the details between the two families, we have found the answer.