Kafka's Bear
Editor|Uncle Yu
Full of silver threads, wrinkles and ravines, he began to purr when he picked up a bowl of noodles.
There is no so-called image management, idol baggage, and no heavy makeup, and it looks no different from ordinary elderly people.
If you don't mention it, who can easily tell that this is a female star?
And she is the national actress Li Qinqin.
After the year of the sixtieth year, it stands to reason that there should be a full house of children and grandchildren and enjoy the joy of family.
But Li Qinqin is accompanied by a dog and remains single so far.
Married to Japan, United States, and France, she is obsessed with foreign men.
Looking at her choice after many years, I finally have a different view.
1. Three marriages and three divorces, destined to be alone?
Rebellious, arrogant, and fearless, Li Qinqin not only has such a personality, but also treats feelings.
When I met Japan journalist Yamane, she was only in her early twenties, just when she was young and beautiful.
Those big eyes are watery, with long curly hair, and at first glance it looks a bit of an exotic beauty.
As early as in college, it was a high-profile existence, and after going abroad, it was not much sought-after, at least in Yamane, where it was difficult to be replaced.
Otherwise, how could they have met a few times and then launched a passionate pursuit of the offensive?
He liked her beauty and generosity, she valued his sense of responsibility and responsibility, and the two hit it off, quickly fell in love, and then went abroad.
It's okay to be in love, but it's another thing to get married.
When the father learned that his daughter was going to marry a Japan, he was directly furious, and even said that if he dared to marry, he would break her legs.
These words did not stop her from chasing love, not only married, but also born, and her son Lei Lei is the crystallization of love.
It's a pity that the vigorous start failed to exchange for the perfect ending in the novel, and after the freshness, only the boredom of firewood, rice, oil and salt remained.
After that big quarrel, the two decided to divorce in anger, and there was no turning back, and Li Qinqin later called this "righteous marriage".
Heaven did not fulfill people's wishes, a car accident ruthlessly took the life of Yamane, and his son lost a close relative.
The belated regret was to no avail, and all she could do was to take her son to Japan to pay respects, but she had a wish.
Only she knows how twists and turns this trip has, finding acquaintances, trusting relationships, and spending a lot of money to successfully contact the cemetery.
When I saw that small piece of land with my own eyes, everything was relieved.
The first marriage was hastily divorced, while the second marriage was hastily concluded.
United States Pete is obsessed with her charm, a set of chasing love combination punch down, Li Qinqin is almost powerless.
The result? Repeat.
Because a little thing can turn the world upside down, the three views are not the same, the concept is different, and the gap between the two is no longer something that can be run in through time.
What's more, Pete has been unfaithful to his marriage many times, brought different women to the dinner party, and betrayed again and again like scissors to stab his heart.
After the divorce, she finally reacted: "He doesn't love me at all." ”
Say goodbye to an United States, followed by a France.
All kinds of romantic means, extreme tenderness and true feelings, as well as all kinds of promises made, made her tempted again.
However, the same marital tragedy was staged again, and then they broke up in two, each rejoicing.
Three transnational relationships, three failed marriages, it's time to take a good look at yourself.
2. Resolutely not marry a Chinese man?
After the end of her three marriages, Li Qinqin lived the life of a single mother, running back and forth across the country to film, while taking care of her son's daily life.
She knows how difficult it is to be both a father and a mother.
Maybe it's because I learned the lesson from before, this time I don't hope for others anymore, and I choose to raise my son alone, and if I can't meet the right person, it doesn't hurt to be alone.
When it comes to the reason for not marrying a Chinese man, she does not hide it.
Dafang said that he didn't like machismo, he liked the kind of simple and direct, and it was best not to have a twist and turn.
Everything is laid out in the open, mutual respect is given, ample space and freedom are given, and foreigners are relatively open-minded to their appetites.
She said: "Love has no borders", and she also said: "Women don't rely on." ”
Whether single or married, the words of self-reliance and self-improvement are always engraved in my heart, and there is a rare arrogance on my body.
Unexpectedly, the show complained about the Beijing boy's personality and was spread by the media on the Internet.
Many people's impression of her has changed, and they have even labeled her as "admiring foreign countries".
In fact, it is more about the gap in the concept of mate selection, coupled with the straightforward personality, the speech is not brainy, and it is easy for the outside world to have some misunderstandings.
Many people don't know that the first criterion for her mate selection is good character, which is also inseparable from the environment in which she grew up.
3. "Girl" to "Evil Mother-in-law"
As a native of Beijing, Li Qinqin can be regarded as a red seedling, and his father taught him to have self-respect and self-love since he was a child, and to walk properly.
Wearing skinny jeans can be educated by my father for a long time, and under the influence of this, it doesn't seem to be bad.
He was selected for the volleyball team at the age of 13 and also played volleyball with Lang Ping, and was supposed to take the road of sports.
As a result, she was selected as the heroine of "Beijing Story" by mistake, kicking the door to the performance, or it was an opportunity.
Facts have proved that people are indeed a piece of jade, and her vivid performance style has won her one script after another.
"Carla is a Dog", "Yang Li", "Smiling Proud Jianghu", "Dingyi Shitai", "Imperial City Roots", "Li Li", as well as "Family with Children", "Lin Ning's Mother", "Jinghua Yanyun", "Mrs. Niu" and so on.
Open a TV channel casually, and Li Qinqin may be there.
In the early stage, most of them were girls and young people, and in the later stage, they gradually found the comfort zone of the "evil mother-in-law", and they successfully gained countless fans.
Actresses of the same generation have reached the stage of playing mothers, such as Wang Liyun, He Saifei, etc., either gentle or kind, and there seems to be no such a spicy, hot and snarky screen image as her.
From costume dramas to family dramas, from suspense dramas to period dramas, she doesn't care about the size of the role, as long as she has the opportunity to act, she can always appear at the first time.
At the beginning of the year, the role of "Liu Guiying" in "South to North" made the audience creepy.
The mole on the face is the finishing touch, plus the movements and demeanor, and the similarity with the prototype character "Aunt Mei" is as high as 90%.
In the online drama "Dear Child", the "evil mother-in-law" was played again, and there was no "overturn".
Smoking, perming his hair, playing mahjong, and speaking aggressively, he can firmly gain the upper hand no matter who he confronts.
What can be done about such a "mother-in-law"?
The performance was so down-to-earth that the audience was so angry that they wanted to give a punch through the screen.
After the 60th mark, there is still no intention of stopping.
is dancing on the short video platform here to catch up with the trend, and a new drama is being filmed over there, and work and entertainment are not wrong.
And Li Qinqin in life seems to have another side that no one knows.
4. The other side of the play
I don't like to dress up, refuse to be hypocritical, just roll up my sleeves and do it, this is Li Qinqin in life.
What she pursues is a kind of natural beauty, strength beauty, and it doesn't have to be very exquisite, recognition is the most important thing
When talking about the popular "snake face" style in those years, he will also express his appreciation and even wonder: "Is this good-looking?" ”
Indeed, when the aesthetic uniformity is achieved, everyone's personal characteristics are lost, so where does the recognition come from?
is not so much a star of Li Qinqin as an actor and artist.
Unlike those celebrities who earn millions a year, she will ask a nanny to serve her at home, she does everything herself, and she can do it herself and resolutely do not trouble others.
I am not picky when eating, I especially like pasta, and picking up a big bowl of noodles is "working hard", sometimes when the crew is busy, boiling water to soak steamed buns is a meal.
can eat such delicious meals at home, it seems that there is no second person in the circle except her.
Different times, different environments, and different influences, as an actress of the older generation, Li Qinqin's spirit of diligence and thrift has always been engraved in her bones.
Scraps of paper are reluctant to throw away, often living in old houses with messy backgrounds, I don't know why, and there is a sadness of lonely old people.
But thinking about it the other way, it is not an ideal life, there are no irreconcilable family conflicts, a person comes and goes freely, and lives a strong life.
Now that my son has grown up and has a career of his own, he doesn't have to worry about the quality of life in his later years.
If you meet the right person, it is fate, it doesn't matter if you don't meet it, don't compromise, don't compromise, and take every step of the way.
At her age, having filming, making money, and having someone by her side is already the greatest happiness.
Li Qinqin usually likes to play with some flowers and plants, likes to adopt stray dogs, and enjoys spending time with animals.
The dog "Zhou Dundun" left behind after Zhou Haimei's death has been fostered by her, and sometimes the "mother and son" will appear in short videos together, with a harmonious atmosphere.
Epilogue:
Married life is full of ups and downs, but people get out of the circle with their roles in their later years, and such a treasure actor should not be forgotten.
Some references:
Li Qinqin's personal social platform, Li Qinqin's Baidu Encyclopedia
Li Qinqin's "I Love My Home" program interview, 2016.09-19
Chongqing Evening News [Li Qinqin looks back on two foreign marriages and says that extramarital love can't afford to toss]
NetEase Video [Film and television Fengyun Li Qinqin responded to the plastic surgery incident for the first time, supporting microplastic surgery, nothing bad]