Many netizens said that after seeing Chen Ting in the Name of Family, they forgot how annoying Lin Youyou of "Thirty Only" was.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Who is Chen Ting? </h1>
Chen Ting is a character in the hit drama "In the Name of Family", played by actor Yang Tongshu. In the play, her identity is Ling Heping's ex-wife and Ling Xiao's biological mother.
Because her daughter had an accident, she could not accept it psychologically, and she had always been very guilty and could not let go. Ling Heping himself is a policeman, the work is relatively busy, early out and late home, there is no time to comfort Chen Ting. So, her repressed emotions became more pronounced, so much so that she eventually had to end the marriage.
After she divorced Ling Heping, she remarried and married to Singapore, where her second husband was rich. After remarrying, she had a daughter named Little Orange.
The good times were that because her mother had a heart attack, she came from Singapore to see her for the last time. On the way to catch the plane, there was a car accident. This car accident caused Chen Ting to be paralyzed, and her second husband also died, so Chen Ting became a "widow" again. However, the in-laws left all their millions of family properties to Chen Ting.
In this accident, Ling Xiao gave up the opportunity to study at a university in China, accompanied Chen Ting to take care of her, and accompanied her to do rehabilitation training. After nine years, Chen Ting finally has the ability to stand on her own, and can go grocery shopping, cook, and get together with friends.
So, who is Chen Ting? Chen Ting is a mother, a wife, a daughter, and a sister. In addition, Chen Ting is also a person who has a car, a house, and money, although her body is a little inconvenient, she is also a person who lives a worry-free life.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Why is Chen Ting annoying? </h1>
Chen Ting is a nasty character in the play, whether it is her identity or herself, it is very annoying. Moreover, Birin has to have it even more annoying.
As Ling Xiao's mother, she attributed her sister's "accident" to Ling Xiao. She did not allow Ling Xiao to miss her sister in her own way.
When he divorced Ling Peacefully, in front of Ling Xiao, he said that he had given Ling Xiao to Li Jianjian. After the divorce, he also ignored Ling Xiao.
My daughter had an accident, and she felt guilty and remorseful, and we understood. But as a mother, as an adult, it is obviously selfish to put the blame on the child, to say such excessive words, and to only care about the catharsis of her own inner emotions.
Ling Xiao grew up with her neighbors, and in her opinion, she did not appreciate it, believing that the neighbors took money to do things. Even if you don't pay attention to your children, you can still pick Ling Heping as "throwing your hands to the treasurer" and Picking Li Haichao as "taking money to do things".
Ling Xiao took care of her, and she became dependent on Ling Xiao. However, he never felt that there was anything distressing about Ling Xiao taking care of himself. On the contrary, she became more dependent, not allowing Ling Xiao to leave her, and her possessiveness was particularly strong.
Ling Xiao's birthday is also a variety of things; Ling Xiao and Li Jianjian are in love, and they are also all kinds of face dumping. Therefore, Ling Xiao asked her: Why don't you feel sorry for yourself?
Not only for Ling Xiao, but even her daughter Xiao Orange was afraid of facing Chen Ting alone. The little orange is about to take the college entrance examination, as a mother, you should take your daughter first. However, Chen Ting wanted to be able to let Ling Xiao accompany her. It is better to let the little oranges fly around than to rent a house in the Lingxiao community.
It was hard to go back to Singapore, throw away Ling Xiao's shoes, and tear up all the photos. According to the words of the little orange, it is "selling miserably". Yes, it sold miserably.
Chen Ting never felt that what she had done was wrong, even if her mother said that she did not look at anything she did. However, she still felt that her mother did not understand herself.
Ling Heping divorced herself and beat her, and she didn't think it was her fault. On the contrary, she believes that Ling Heping does not take care of, comfort, and understand herself.
Later, a little orange was born, and under the influence of her second husband, she began to agree that the child should revolve around the parents. Even so, she didn't think there was anything inappropriate about her approach.
She knew that Ling Xiao blamed her, but she thought that Ling Xiao didn't understand things. Little Orange was blunt, and she thought Little Orange was rebellious. Chen Ting believes that her son does not want her and her daughter rebels, which is the child's fault.
As a mother, Chen Ting was not qualified, and she did not take on any role responsibility. On the contrary, she uses her motherhood to express all the selfishness, indifference, unreserved and unscrupulous expression of being a woman herself. Her unwillingness and grievances must be responded to by Ling Xiao, and she will have a sense of security.
The reason why Chen Ting is annoying is because she, as a mother, is unqualified. If it's a single mom, we'll start with compassion. However, Chen Ting never felt that she was a mother, she was willful, withdrawn, and sought a sense of security. So, her irresponsibility is nasty.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > Chen Ting needs to understand: more is not good</h1>
Chen Ting has actually made changes, for example, she knows that her daughter Xiao Orange is particularly happy that she has an older brother. Therefore, even if Ling Xiao is cold to himself and his daughter, he will find ways to get the two children together.
Her daughter Little Orange has an identical birthmark, so she no longer has nightmares and no longer feels regrets in life. She also thought that the little orange was God's attachment to her, and once again gave her a chance.
She slowly improved, and she also began to plan to accompany Ling Xiao. Therefore, she rented a house in Lingxiao's community, hoping that she could accompany her son.
She also does this for the good of her children. She feels that the child needs her mother and needs her to be with her.
Unexpectedly, it attracted the unanimous opposition of the daughter and son. Neither the daughter nor the son understood her and thought she was "unreasonable".
The reason why Chen Ting has become annoying is because she does not know how to "break away". Breaking away does not mean that she should cut off her interaction with Ling Xiao, abandon this family relationship, and leave her son's life, but should understand that more is not good.
Chen Ting did not give too little to Ling Xiao, but too much. The way she gives her mother love is not to hurt him from the bottom of her heart, but through material compensation. For Ling Xiao, these were obviously not needed at all.
Ling Xiao never felt that Chen Ting as a mother was a burden, and when the little orange was "not inferior", he would also maintain it. Therefore, from the bottom of Ling Xiao's heart, there are expectations for his mother. Even though Chen Ting didn't know how to express her mother's love, Ling Xiao still felt that she was happy to have a mother.
Chen Ting did not know how to be a mother, she did not understand, in fact, as long as she is well, physically and mentally healthy, as long as she is happy, Ling Xiao is happy and happy. In her opinion, she is indebted to Ling Xiao, and this debt is material. In fact, what she owes is the companionship and love of her mother.
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Chen Ting does not understand "breaking away", does not understand "more is not good", so she let herself become annoying, I hope she can understand as soon as possible, as soon as possible to achieve "break away", find herself as a mother, really need and really should give.