The global divorce rate, someone has sorted it out, collect it and take a look!
"You know what? It is said that the divorce rate is getting higher and higher around the world, which is really unbelievable. My friend Xiaoli said to me in surprise while looking through her phone in the café.
I was stunned for a moment, put down the coffee cup in my hand, and sighed in my heart. How is it that marriage, which is supposed to be a haven of happiness, has now become an unsustainable burden for many people? "Really? Where are the divorce rates particularly high? I asked curiously.
Xiaoli handed me her mobile phone, and it was a map of the world's divorce rate. I took a closer look and saw that the divorce rate in some developed countries was frighteningly high. For example, the divorce rate in the United States and Russia is more than 50%, and even more than 60% in some Nordic countries.
"That's an exaggeration, isn't it?" I shook my head, mixed emotions welling up in my heart. As a newly married wife, such data makes me worry a little more about my future married life.
Xiaoli sighed and said: "Now that society is under pressure and the pace of life is fast, many couples choose to separate because of various problems. There was a hint of helplessness and worry in her eyes.
"What do you think is the main reason for the high divorce rate?" I asked her, hoping to find some answers from her insights.
"I think there are a couple of main reasons." Xiaoli nodded and began to analyze, "First of all, modern people's expectations for marriage are too high, and many people think that marriage should be smooth and happy, but in real life, how can there be such a perfect thing?" ”
Her words made me ponder. I remember that when my husband and I first got married, we had quarrels over trivial matters. But in the end, we solved the problem through communication and cherished each other more.
"Another point," Xiaoli continued, "modern society advocates personal freedom and independence, and many people are no longer willing to sacrifice their careers and dreams for marriage, so once they feel unhappy in their marriage, they choose to divorce." ”
I nodded, it's a very real question. In today's society, especially women, pay more attention to the realization of self-worth, which undoubtedly increases the challenges of marriage.
"However," Xiaoli suddenly smiled, "not all countries have a high divorce rate. For example, in some countries with strong traditional cultures, their divorce rates are relatively low. She pointed to the data on her phone and showed me that the divorce rate in China and India is relatively low, probably below 20%.
Seeing these data, I felt a little comforted. Perhaps, the traditional concept of family and culture do have a certain protective effect on the stability of marriage.
When I got home, I kept this compilation of divorce rates around the world, thinking that I would pay more attention to my marital status in the future. I shared this with my husband, and he also said with feeling: "We must cherish each other and not let this cold statistics become our reality." ”
Yes, marriage needs to be managed, and it needs to be understood and tolerated. Although the divorce rate in the world is alarmingly high, as long as two people truly love each other and work together, they will definitely overcome various challenges in life and make it to the end.
"No matter what, we have to face the ups and downs of the future together." I said to myself silently in my heart. The road to marriage may not be easy, but as long as we move forward hand in hand, we will definitely find our own happiness.