In the distant Song Dynasty, there lived a woman named Chen Xiaomei in Kaifeng Mansion, she was beautiful and moving, intelligent and witty, and good at dealing with all kinds of people's speech and behavior. Chen Xiaomei likes to debate with people and challenge various topics, and her fame spreads throughout Kaifeng Mansion.
One day, Chen Xiaomei had nothing to do at home, so she came to the market to hang out. She walked to a teahouse and saw that it was full of people, discussing the difference between men and women. Chen Xiaomei thought to herself that this was a topic she was good at, so she walked into the teahouse and prepared to join the discussion.
After Chen Xiaomei sat down, a middle-aged man saw that she was as beautiful as a flower, so he took the initiative to talk to her: "Miss, I see that you have a beautiful face, you should be a person raised in the boudoir, how can you be interested in discussing the difference between men and women?" ”
Chen Xiaomei smiled slightly and replied: "The world says that men and women are different, but I think it's just that the roles given to us by society are different. In fact, there is no difference between men and women in essence. ”
The man listened to Chen Xiaomei's words, and immediately smiled: "Miss, you don't have a backache when you stand and talk." How can there be no difference between men and women? You see, men have strength, and women have children; Men earn money outside the home, while women stay at home with husbands and children. Isn't that the difference? ”
Chen Xiaomei shook her head and said: "Strength and making money are only differences in physiology and occupation, and they do not explain the essential difference between men and women. In my opinion, the biggest difference between men and women is the nature of the heart. Men are more rational and pay attention to logic and facts; Women are more emotional and intuitive, focusing on emotions and relationships. ”
The man listened to Chen Xiaomei's words and felt that there was some truth, but he was still a little unwilling, and asked: "So, Miss, what do you think is the difference between men and women in love?" ”
Chen Xiaomei smiled and replied: "In love, men tend to be more active and direct, and their way of pursuing love is often bold and passionate; Women, on the other hand, are more reserved and tactful, and their way of pursuing love is often delicate and gentle. ”
The man listened to Chen Xiaomei's words and thought thoughtfully. At this time, another young man in the teahouse stood up and said with a smile, "Miss, you have a point. Do you know why men and women have these differences? ”
Chen Xiaomei looked at the young man and replied with a smile: "This is mainly because of the physical and psychological differences between men and women. Men are physiologically stronger than women, so they are more likely to pursue direct and adventurous things; Whereas, women are more physiologically delicate, so they are more likely to focus on emotions and relationships. ”
The young man listened to Chen Xiaomei's words and nodded in agreement. At this time, other people in the teahouse also gathered around, wanting to hear Chen Xiaomei's views on the relationship between men and women. Chen Xiaomei is also informal, and shares her views with everyone to the fullest.
In this way, Chen Xiaomei talked freely with everyone in the teahouse about the difference between men and women, and her insights were unique and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Everyone was impressed and admired her talent and wisdom. And Chen Xiaomei also became famous because of this debate, and became a talented woman known and unknown to everyone in Kaifeng Mansion.
Since then, Chen Xiaomei's topic has become a hot topic in Kaifeng Mansion, and people have collected her classic dialogues for future savoring. And Chen Xiaomei has also gained many friends and fans because of this debate, and they all admire her bravery and wisdom.
After the story spread, people said that Chen Xiaomei was a woman who dared to challenge conventional notions, and her insights made the world re-examine the differences between men and women. And Chen Xiaomei also became one of the most respected women of that era because of this debate.