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Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

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1. Wang Wenhua, who is now in his twilight years, looks back on his past experience

Imagine a sunny afternoon, Wang Wenhua, a veteran who has been retired for many years, is sitting on the balcony of his spacious and bright home, closing his eyes and enjoying the comfort brought by the gentle spring breeze falling on his face.

She took a deep breath, a satisfied smile on the corner of her mouth, and a trace of happiness in her eyes.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

The bits and pieces of the past are projected in my mind like a movie, as if they happened yesterday.

Let's go back to her youth, when she resolutely devoted herself to the work of CCTV, and with her enthusiasm and persistent pursuit, she created a world of her own step by step.

As the core creative team member and host of the program "Quyuan Miscellaneous", Wang Wenhua has pushed this program to the peak of CCTV with his outstanding talent and hard work, and has become a high-profile gold medal masterpiece.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Since its broadcast, this show has gone through 20 years of ups and downs, and has always been warmly sought after by the audience. However, in 2011, due to the adjustment of CCTV's columns, "Quyuan Miscellaneous" had to announce the suspension of broadcasting in desperation.

Wang Wenhua recalled that moment, her heart was filled with endless loss, and she sat alone in the office until late at night before leaving with reluctance.

The audience expressed their expectations for the resumption of "Quyuan Miscellaneous" through letters, hoping to enjoy this wonderful program again. However, Wang Wenhua knows that all glory will eventually come to an end.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

She could only reply to every letter with tears in her eyes, sincerely thanking the audience for their support and love over the years.

That glorious period of time quietly dissipated with the passage of time.

However, what Wang Wenhua can never forget is the determination he made to buy a Dalian sea-view house for his elderly and frail parents-in-law. Although friends and relatives persuaded her to think twice, she thought that the move was too risky and that her parents-in-law were not old enough to live by the sea.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

However, Wang Wenhua firmly said that she just wanted her parents-in-law to live a comfortable and comfortable life in their later years and enjoy the joy of family.

As a result, Wang Wenhua and her husband Wang Jianning jointly funded the purchase of a Dalian sea-view house, creating a warm and comfortable environment for her parents-in-law in their old age. Every time you open the window, you can overlook the magnificent sea, feel the fresh sea breeze blowing on your face, and the mental outlook of your parents-in-law is full of vitality.

Looking at the joy on the faces of his parents-in-law, Wang Wenhua's heart was full of great relief.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

2. The innocent years of childhood

When Wang Wenhua recalled the past of her childhood, her eyes revealed a faint melancholy. She was born in an ordinary and simple family in Baoding, Hebei Province, and her mother died of illness at an early age, leaving only Wang Wenhua and her four sisters to rely on each other.

Since then, the responsibility of the family has fallen on my father alone, and he has silently endured the hardships of life to hold up a blue sky for the children.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Wang Wenhua's father is like a heavy camel, he not only has to take care of his mother who is paralyzed in bed and has difficulty moving, but also has to take a meager salary, struggle to survive with tenacity and perseverance, and raise his five lovely daughters one by one.

The burden of life bent his backbone, but he never bowed his head to fate and complained, but worked silently and worked hard.

The difficulties of the family and the noble character of his father are deeply engraved in Wang Wenhua's heart. Since childhood, she has shown the excellent qualities of diligence and thrift, love of learning, and strong will, extraordinary perseverance.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

In 1974, after graduating from high school, Wang Wenhua honorably joined the Chinese People's Liberation Army and became an outstanding member of the former Wuhan Military Region Art Troupe. In the art troupe, she is like a hungry wolf, eager to learn various forms of opera.

During the day, she performs wonderful sketches on stage; At night, she holds a tape recorder in her hand, follows the tape to learn a variety of music forms such as storytelling, Beijing rhyme drums, Tianjin Allegro, etc., and keeps reciting lines in her mouth When queuing up in the cafeteria, her hands are always waving in the air, as if she is about to put on a wonderful performance there.

Fortunately, Wang Wenhua had the opportunity to learn from the famous storytelling performance artist Yuan Kuo, and under his guidance, he studied excerpts from "Xiao Fei Buys Medicine" in "Fire King Kong". Her enthusiastic pursuit of quyi has won high praise from Mr. Yuan.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Since then, Wang Wenhua has become more obsessed with the road of quyi, and her eyes flashed with a pure desire for art.

3. The beginning of a difficult life of separation

In October 1985, Wang Wenhua and his handsome and dashing boyfriend Wang Jianning tied the knot in the capital Beijing. At that time, Wang Jianning was tall and upright, with a good demeanor, and as a civil servant of the State Education Commission, he had a bright future.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

However, all this vision changed in 1990. With dreams and pursuits, Wang Jianning decided to go to Japan to study for a doctorate in law. In the face of her husband's departure, although Wang Wenhua was heartbroken, she still chose to understand and support.

She knows very well that men need to have their own career pursuits, and she cannot be an obstacle to her husband's progress.

As a result, since the day Wang Jianning left home in December 1990, Wang Wenhua has taken on the responsibility of taking care of his elderly and sick in-laws and young daughter alone. Every day, she has to go back and forth between CCTV and her family, rushing home at noon to cook lunch for her in-laws and daughter, and working overtime until late at night to return home.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Sometimes, she had to stick to her post on the cold nights, lying exhausted on the cold couch, and the warmth of her dream home became the only solace.

And the most distressing thing is the young Wang Ke. One day, when he accidentally sprained his ankle during physical education class, Wang Ke apologized to his dear mother with tears in his eyes: "I'm sorry, Mom, you are so busy, but I still have to trouble you."

Wang Wenhua hugged her daughter tightly, tears poured out like a broken embankment, she said with deep guilt, "I should say I'm sorry for not taking care of you with all my heart" Although she was tormented in her heart, every time she received a call from her husband, she would pretend to respond easily, trying her best to hide the pain and helplessness in her heart.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

However, Wang Wenhua has also made remarkable achievements in his career. The program "Quyuan Miscellaneous", which she founded and hosted by herself, has gradually developed into a gold medal column of CCTV with its unique aesthetic perspective and exquisite production skills, and is warmly sought after by the audience.

However, who would have expected that at the most glorious moment of this show, it would have to face the fate of being off the air. In 2011, CCTV carried out internal reforms, and "Quyuan Miscellaneous" was forced to stop broadcasting, and Wang Wenhua felt extremely sad about it.

After finishing the recording of the last episode, she sat alone in her empty office, tears streaming down her face.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Fourth, the focus of life has shifted, and CCTV has been left for the time being

The suspension of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar" undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Wang Wenhua. This child who has accompanied her through nearly 20 years of spring and autumn will bid farewell to the stage, how can she not be moved? After finishing the recording of the last episode, Wang Wenhua sat alone in an empty office, tears uncontrollably sliding.

"Quyuan Miscellaneous" has been broadcast on CCTV for many years and has won many loyal fans. After the show was suspended, Wang Wenhua received letters from viewers from all over the country, who expressed their deep nostalgia for "Quyuan Miscellaneous" and looked forward to its return to the screen.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

In the face of these sincere letters, Wang Wenhua was full of emotion in his heart. She can only reply in a fiefdom, sincerely expressing her gratitude to everyone, thanking everyone for their support to the show over the years, and wishing everyone a happy life.

Although "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar" unfortunately came to an end, life still needs to move on. In this trough period, a glimmer of vitality once again injected new vitality into Wang Wenhua.

Since 2007, her husband Wang Jianning, who has been working in Japan for a long time, has finally returned to Wang Wenhua's side.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

The 17-year separation has come to an end! The couple was finally able to spend time together and bear the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life together.

And their daughter Wang Ke is also gradually maturing, after graduating from Beijing Union University, she was successfully admitted to the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television and started a new life journey. Witnessing her daughter's stable life, healthy and happy growth, Wang Wenhua knows that the heavy responsibility on his shoulders is about to come to an end.

In 2015, Wang Wenhua, a senior CCTV host who has gone through vicissitudes, fulfilled the official retirement procedures on time. It was undoubtedly the beginning of a new chapter in her life, but she was not intimidated or uneasy.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

In place of these emotional factors, there is an anticipation and longing for a new life – to finally be able to enjoy the joy of family life with peace of mind and live a leisurely and comfortable life.

5. A happy life in old age

After retiring, Wang Wenhua lived a relaxed and happy life. Every morning, she and her husband Wang Jianning take care of each other at home, taking care of housework, talking freely, and killing time. The long years of separation have made Wang Wenhua cherish every moment with her husband even more.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Sometimes, she would affectionately say to her husband: "You have been working hard outside for many years, now please relax and let me take care of the chores at home." ”

On the occasion of the festive season, the daughter Wang Ke and her grandchildren will go home to gather with them. Now that her daughter has formed a happy family, seeing all this, Wang Wenhua's heart is full of endless joy and satisfaction.

As a mother, she is convinced that her greatest mission in life has been accomplished.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

Despite his advanced age, Wang Wenhua's pace of life has never stood still. She actively participates in various public welfare and charity activities, raising bursaries for children in poor areas, helping them realize their dreams and change their destiny.

Sometimes, she leads her team to go deep into the impoverished mountainous areas to donate daily necessities to local villagers. Despite the harsh environment, when he saw the innocent smiles on the children's faces, Wang Wenhua felt a deep sense of satisfaction and happiness in his heart.

In addition to this, Wang Wenhua is also keen to meet new people. She always gets along well with her neighbors who live in the same neighborhood and always greets her warmly when she meets. Sometimes the neighbors have barbecue parties, and she and her husband join in with great interest and have a happy hour.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

She has long considered this community as her other home.

Whenever night falls, Wang Wenhua will always sit quietly on his spacious balcony with full joy and expectation, enjoying a rare leisure time. At this moment, she respectfully picked up a cup of fresh tea with both hands, gently closed her eyes that had witnessed countless ups and downs in life, and slowly savored this shy and vast tranquility.

At this time, her husband would always appear behind her quietly, and then gently hugged her tightly, and the two looked at each other silently, the corners of their mouths rose slightly, and their hearts were full of endless love and warmth.

Wang Wenhua, host of "Quyuan Miscellaneous Altar": The love and pain of buying a house for my elderly in-laws and separating from my husband

The bright moonlight pouring in through the window fell gently on their faces, adding a few wrinkles to them, but it accentuated their kind and peaceful temperament.

In this way, the two silver-haired old men leaned on each other under the soft moonlight, and they couldn't help but feel the ruthlessness of the years and the greatness of love.

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