I want to say something, there are all kinds of them, I don't know how to summarize it, it's called "growing up with aging".
Because of the epidemic, I haven't seen my mother for three years. When she saw her this time, she was stunned for a moment. Later, she told me that she did not expect that her son's eyebrows were black and white, and the skin on his neck had become noticeably loose.
It's no wonder that after all, my son is nearly seventy years old, and he is about to be counted as middle-aged and elderly among the elderly.
In this life, everything is the first time. I once sighed: Being a father is such a sacred, mysterious, and knowledge-intensive profession! But how many newcomers have rushed to work without minimum training. Now, I have spent 8 years of old age with a serious lack of knowledge, skills, experience, etc.
After the death of his 93-year-old father, Mi Shou's mother became more and more urgent to transfer the house. However, she did not want to move out of this familiar old house, nor did she want to face the embarrassment that she might face after the transfer of ownership. She asked me what to do? After consultation, I told her that according to the civil law, her idea can be realized by completing the registration of the right of residence at the time of the transfer of ownership.
But our brothers and sisters are also a little puzzled, the old man's house has always been lived in like this, why bother so much. Mother is just saying: I don't want to leave you in trouble.
These days, my mother told me a lot of stories about the elderly, and the more I listened to them, the more my mind opened. Eight years is enough to complete a grand war; However, this is just the beginning of the knowledge reserve for old age!
Happy old man, what did he do right? (On the contrary, what did the unhappy old man do wrong?) ）
What are the factors that determine the happiness of an older person?
I visited old friends all over the place. Friends have different opinions, some say that they are financial; Some say it's status; Some say it's healthy; Some say it is family and friendship; Some say it's talent and fun; There are even different figures and appearances.
I think my friends are right, but none of them are on my wish list compared to raising awareness.
I thought that when people were young, they were taught by teachers and parents. When a person is an adult, there are regulations of leaders and experts, but when a person is old, he is free without prohibition by law, and his own cognition is more important!
I'm secretly glad that I've finally found this theme: growing up with aging!