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Mengziyi is 26 years old, Wang Houjie is 29 years old, and Liu Te is 24 years old.
Why would Mengziyi reject Wang Houjie, who his mother particularly liked, but was impressed by the difficult Liu Te?
1. Eye margin
When Mengziyi saw Wang Houjie, he acted generously, like going on a date with an ordinary friend;
But Mengziyi saw Liu Te's first glance, her eyes were different, and she suddenly became quiet and slightly restrained.
Obviously, compared to Wang Houjie, Mengziyi prefers Liu Te's appearance, which is her dish.
2. Maturity
Mengziyi and Liu Te are single-celled animals, straight forward, talking without turning, having emotions all on their faces, and knowing what the other party is thinking without guessing;
And Wang Houjie, Mengziyi always couldn't understand him, or had doubts about Wang Houjie.
Mengziyi's biggest doubt was: How can you be so perfect? None of the drawbacks? So inclusive? Mengziyi asked her if she would mind filming a kissing scene, and Wang Houjie only said that he did not mind.
This, in fact, Mengziyi is skeptical, she has always wanted to know the real Wang Houjie, not a perfect person.
All along, she didn't know if the Wang Houjie she saw was just acting like a social etiquette, or if she really didn't care. Mengziyi and Wang Houjie are not in the same position.
And Liu Te, who did not have the consciousness to leave a good impression at all, just sat down to chat with Mengziyi, and he died talking about the sky.
As soon as Liu Te came up, he asked Mengziyi: "So you really want to fall in love?" This is a question that makes people not know how to answer.
Saying yes, it seems as if you are eager to marry yourself off; saying no is not true.
So Mengziyi said, "Divide people, I can't see a man, I want to fall in love with him." ”
Then Mengziyi asked him, "You don't want to fall in love?" ””
Liu Te hesitated and said, "I... want to and don't want to." ”
Mengziyi frowned and said he did not understand.
Liu Te explained: "I just want to, but I have to work. Because I have to work, I'm afraid I can't take care of it. “
Mengziyi's enthusiasm at this time has cooled down, and she feels: "If you don't want to fall in love, then why do you want to go on a love show?" ”
Liu Te can't speak at all, let alone round the field, but this has an advantage, that is, Mengziyi feels that Liu Te's performance should be the most real self, because no one will create such a poor first impression of himself.
Obviously, both of them are people in the same position. Although there are disputes in getting along. But this kind of complete spread out of things on the table also makes Mengziyi feel real.
3. How you get along
For Mengziyi, she has always been self-centered, rarely caring about others, or considering the emotions of others.
Most of the boys who pursue Mengziyi will be like Wang Houjie, behaving well, considerate, gentle, and everything is based on Mengziyi.
Take Mengziyi out to play, everything will be prepared in advance, busy for her. And Mencius has become accustomed to these things.
Therefore, Wang Houjie's performance, in Mengziyi's place, is not prominent, but it is reasonable, and it does not increase Mengziyi's good feelings for Wang Houjie.
And Liu Te is a different kind, if it is said that Mengziyi is a naïve little princess, then Liu Te is an arrogant petite prince.
The two went out to play together, and on the way back, Mengziyi said that he would take a car home separately from Liu Te and make another appointment the next day.
At this time, Liu Te's face obviously collapsed, and Mengziyi, with a big grin, was completely unaware.
When the two met the next day, Mengziyi still did not find out that There was something wrong with Liu Te, and Liu Te couldn't help but say this.
Mengziyi felt very funny, did not expect that Liu Te would care so much about a small matter, he should care about himself will be like this, right?
Then she explained that she was too tired and wanted to sleep on the way back, but if Liu Te was there, sleeping seemed inappropriate, and when she fell asleep, she was afraid that her image would be damaged, so she chose to go separately.
Ordinary people may have passed this matter like this, but here in Liu Te, this matter really can't go through.
After playing for a day and finally sitting down with two people, Liu Te's face was still not good, Mengziyi had the experience of the last time, and this time she reacted immediately.
She said helplessly: "You are not happy, but you came in a car with you today?" ”
Like a child, Jyuter said, "I don't want this." ”
So what do you want? Mengziyi was puzzled, but he was not angry.
The little prince of Lowt continued to complain: "If you don't take care of my emotions, I will feel bad, I will feel uncomfortable. ”
Mengziyi didn't know what to do: "I think you're making a big deal out of it." ”
Liu Te replied directly: "Maybe I am sick." ”
Such an awkward atmosphere, I think Mengziyi should not choose to continue dating Liu Te. Unexpectedly, Mengziyi chose to continue.
Why?
4. Mencius: I have never met such a person
The unique personality of Liu Te has attracted the attention of Mengziyi.
One of the things Mengziyi often said when he met Liu Te was that I had never met such a person and could not understand what he was thinking.
In the past, the boys who chased her, Mengziyi basically knew what they would say and what they would do, but when it came to Liu Te, Mengziyi was overwhelmed for the first time.
On the one hand, Mengziyi has a headache, and she has basically no way to take Liu Te;
But on the other hand, this also aroused Mengziyi's curiosity and challenge.
Just like opening a blind box, Liu Te buried a hook in Mengziyi's heart, although he may be disappointed, he still can't help but want to open it, want to know what is inside, want to know what will happen to Liu Te if he continues to get along?
Unlike Wang Houjie's generosity and tolerance, Liu Te's awkward character Mengziyi has never met, and he is not sure whether Liu Te will choose himself, which is also a challenge for her.
This unknown and challenge increases the setbacks in the two people getting along, making Mengziyi feel novel and excited.
4. Mengziyi: I think my brother is quite interesting
Mengziyi: "You broke the view that I lived for 25 years, and I had no way to accept sister-brother love before. However, in getting along with you, I will feel that my brother seems to be quite interesting. This surprised me myself. ”
Why did Mencius change his views?
She said: "I felt like I was an immature person and then I wished the other side could be more mature than I was. In this way, I think the feelings can be long-lasting. However, in fact, when you come into contact with a boy who is a few years younger than you, you will actually find yourself more and more that you are not doing well. Then reflect on your own problems. It was also a wonderful experience for me. ”
In other words, the person who has always been supposed to be taken care of by others suddenly meets a person who does not take care of her but wants her to take care of, she feels new, she feels that she has suddenly grown.
This is something that Wang Houjie, who is considerate and thoughtful for her, can't give it.
However, a person who has been cared for for for a long time may find it interesting to learn to take care of and consider others for a while. If Mengziyi had to take care of a brother like Liu Te all the time, would she still find it interesting? Can you still stick with it?