In the latest issue of "Deyun Dou Laughing Society", Guo Degang and Guo Qilin finally sat together, and you said a word to me, turning homely routines into crosstalk.
Guo Qilin is in the limelight this year, and he has the material and high emotional intelligence and good character, and naturally has become the leader in the second generation of stars.
Coupled with the fact that he has participated in too many variety shows recently, there are frequent rumors that he has single-handedly supported the entire Deyun Society.
In this episode, Guo Degang also ridiculed everyone that his son could earn money and support the Deyun Society, but unfortunately he did not get a penny.
Guo Qilin next to him replied with a smile: "To feed the Deyun Society, you alone are enough." ”
Sharp-eyed netizens all found that Da Lin Zi was sitting next to her father, much like an obedient primary school student.
And Guo Degang treats Guo Qilin like a strict teacher, always suppressing.
What kind of affection and self-esteem, it does not matter, as long as the child is afraid of you, the first step of this rule is completed.
Since Guo Degang's divorce, Guo Qilin has been thrown to his grandparents, directly from a single parent to a left-behind child, and his heart is sad and afraid.
Not long after the divorce, Guo Degang married Wang Hui, and the two worked together to work hard, and there was no time to take care of Guo Qilin's lost sense of security.
It wasn't until he was 6 years old that Guo Qilin saw his father once and understood that his father was not just a name, but a relative who was related to him by blood.
This side did not ease the relationship between their father and son.
Because of years of getting along with his grandparents, Guo Qilin has become inferior and introverted, not good at communication and does not like to communicate.
But Guo Degang did not understand the child's mood, he felt that as long as the child obeyed, filial piety was a successful education.
Guo Qilin had been crying when he ate, and Guo Degang felt that he did not like to eat vegetables too squeamishly, so he added a bowl of dishes to him and forced him to cry and eat them all.
But I didn't know that Guo Qilin was actually sad because he saw that others had seats, only himself was like an outsider, sitting on the side of the stairs with a rice bowl to eat.
How hurtful this feeling of being excluded was, Guo Degang did not understand, he triumphantly thought that his son's compromise was success.
Playing badminton together, Guo Qilin wrestled, Guo Degang not only did not come to support him to comfort him, but also did not see it, and others were excited to continue playing.
How wronged is the neglected Guo Qilin.
This matter can only be told quietly to the camera after he is an adult, and he does not need to say that he already wants to cry.
In this regard, Guo Degang explained that it is necessary to let his son experience this feeling of being bullied in advance, and if he is bullied enough at home, he will not be afraid of being bullied outside.
The more people there are, the more they will humiliate you and make your heart as hard as iron.
This kind of parenting method is really impossible for ordinary people to do, under the education of Guo Degang's "filial piety under the stick", Guo Qilin learned to observe the color from a young age, just to exchange a few smiles from his father.
When he was in middle school, Guo Degang's career had just started, and he hoped that Guo Qilin would quit school and talk to him.
But Guo Qilin in the rebellious period refused, you want me to inherit your mantle, I don't want it.
After all, his arm could not reach his thigh, and in junior high school, Guo Qilin once again compromised with his father and terminated his studies.
Coming to the Deyun Society, Guo Qilin became the "Young Class Master".
But this young class master only has a name, which sounds more ironic.
After all, the shares of Deyun Society are in the hands of Wang Hui, and Wang Hui also has his own son Guo Fenyang, every time he sees the picture of Guo Fenyang and his father and stepmother together, Guo Qilin feels that he is superfluous, he is like a guest visiting the door.
One year, when the Deyun Society sealed the box performance, Meng Hetang sang a song arranged by himself: "Guo Qilin is the only heir, I didn't expect to come to Guo Fenyang again." ”
Although it was a joke, it said all the heartache of Guo Qilin.
Every time he heard such ridicule, Guo Degang also said without any concern: "Guo Qilin's heart is as wide as the sea, with no desire and no demand."
While praising Guo Qilin for having no desires and no needs, he took his young son and wife to play abroad.
Treating Guo Fenyang, Guo Degang is a completely different attitude, even if the younger son lets his uncle "eat rice dumplings", he also speaks out with a kind face.
Co-authoring your strict education of Guo Qilin is to let him have a broad mind like the sea, don't come to fight for family property, right?
I remember once Luan Yunping went to Guo Degang's house as a guest, picked up the biscuits on the table to eat, and Guo Qilin next to him carefully asked: "Brother, can I eat?" ”
Luan Yunping was very surprised: "There is no problem in eating a box, this is your home." ”
Seeing this, I really want to hug this cautious Guo Qilin, have you forgotten that this is your home?
Or did you not consider it your own home at all, or did the family not accept you in its entirety?
Fortunately, Guo Qilin became famous.
Everyone praised Guo Qilin for being sensible, has high emotional intelligence, can bear hardships, and can take care of people.
Behind every piece of praise, Guo Qilin was forced to grow.
If so, who wouldn't want to be pampered in the palm of their hand?
If so, who doesn't want to be willful, even if they don't want these praises.
Guo Qilin said that he understood his father's difficulties and difficulties at that time, but his father's education was only because he met him, and replaced by someone else, he might not be able to succeed.
His father could not bring warmth, and hoped that Guo Qilin could meet a good girl who could accompany him, understand him, take care of him, and warm his heart in the future.
Guo Qilin also announced his own mate selection criteria, "Qilin Girl" cheers.