There are many gender experts in this world, and there are many writers who write emotional advice, but when they say and write, no one dares to "pat their chests and guarantee" that they can handle it perfectly. Nong Editor is the same, although he often writes all kinds of articles, but only when he writes about the relationship between the sexes, he does not dare to give a categorical answer. At most, it is based on common sense, logic and empirical reasoning, and gives the best possible suggestions and directions. Having said that, when it comes to the advice of "maintaining the heat of the relationship", there is a very definite way, that is, no matter how busy you are, remember to leave each other some "quality time" every day.
The "5 key points" to maintain the heat of the relationship:
什么是 Quality Time？
The so-called "quality time" literally translates to "quality time", but how can time have a texture? It must be a quality and precious time. Therefore, Quality Time defines it as a "precious time" spent with someone wholeheartedly.
如何执行 Quality Time？
During this time of Quality Time, each other should focus their thoughts and attention on each other and the situation in which they are present. Especially in today's era of advanced technology, there are many distractions around us - smartphones, tablets, TVs, etc., but we must put an end to these external "temptations", let go of whatever is going on at hand, and focus on chatting with each other, even if it is a simple daily life, no matter how subtle and trivial, it is extremely important to show "desire to share" in "precious time".
忙碌也能拥有 Quality Time 吗？
Some people may say that the life of an adult is not only about love, but also about working to earn money, taking care of the family, and spending time and energy to socialize with peers and friends. I agree that life is not all about love, but this is not an excuse to be cold to the other person, in fact, as long as you have "heart", you can have Quality Time.
Quality Time「重质不重量」
The key to Quality Time is: the length of time is not important, and the quality is not important. Therefore, the longer the time you spend together, the better, but whether you are focused on each other in the process of getting along. It is good to spend 5 minutes or 10 minutes, even if it is not long, but during this time, both parties should focus on each other, listen well, talk carefully, express their feelings, thoughts and what they have seen and heard honestly, and sincerely listen to each other's bits and pieces today, this is a "precious time" with texture.
Changes in love
Don't underestimate this short period of time, it will play a big role. Whether it is the factors that lead to the breakdown of the relationship, or the key to maintaining the heat of the relationship, it is carried out from the most subtle aspects. The changes in love are accumulated day by day, like a new branch unconsciously, and it is too late to grow into a root that is difficult to remove, so please be sure to take precautions, don't wait until the relationship comes to an end to regret it. Whether a relationship can go on in a long-term and healthy way can be discerned from the small places where we usually get along.