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In the past decade, the number of blind date programs has declined, and the number of single people in the mainland has surged, in 2010, the number of single people in the mainland was only 190 million, and in 2020, this number has almost doubled, reaching 350 million, which also means that one-third of the country's people are single, and at the same time, there are more than 50 million women of childbearing age in the country who are single, which is nearly half.
However, for most people, relationships are an integral part of life, so what does it mean to be single?
What is the importance of gender relations?
And for the elderly, is the relationship between the sexes equally important?
According to a study by Duke University in the United States, being single may lead to accelerated aging, an increased risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, and an increased risk of Alzheimer's disease.
It seems that the relationship between the sexes is full of all kinds of harms, but in reality, the relationship between the sexes is full of all kinds of violence and betrayal, which will also make people physically and psychologically age, what are the problems of violence in the relationship between the sexes?
1. Does being single lead to accelerated aging?
In fact, most of the single people are young people, who have a beautiful yearning for love and marriage, but in real life, they can't find a suitable other half, so they choose to be single, but there are also a small number of people who are free and easy to be single, because they don't want to get married, so they choose to be single.
But there are more people who choose to be single, because they are dragged down by the price of life and cannot buy a house and get married, so they choose to be single, but this does not mean that being single is useless.
Because being single is good about being single, it's just that among the single people, most people don't want it, but have a helpless choice, which makes it easier to be psychologically stressed and overly anxious, and at the same time, being single will also have a bad impact on the body.
Because young people make up the majority of the single population, but there are also some elderly people who are single because they have passed away or lost their significant other, researchers at Duke University in the United States have focused their research on the elderly.
The researchers analyzed the basic condition of more than 6,000 elderly people, and extracted DNA from their blood, and through sequencing, the researchers found that as they get older, the chromosome length of single elderly people gradually decreases, and the chromosome length is directly proportional to the age of the person, so the chromosome length is shortened, which means that aging accelerates.
The risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases in single elderly people will be three to five times higher than that of ordinary elderly people.
Moreover, the risk of Alzheimer's disease is 76% higher in older adults than in the general population.
However, the researchers did not have a very clear understanding of this finding, so they analyzed the relationship between the sexes and aging, and found that not only the elderly, but also the young people's single state will also lead to the acceleration of aging, so the researchers believe that the relationship between the sexes can make people happy, can make people physically and mentally relaxed, and at the same time, can also help people maintain a normal psychology.
Therefore, the single state of the elderly will lead to physical aging due to long-term psychological depression, and at the same time, it will also increase the risk of cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases and Alzheimer's diseases because of long-term depression.
But in reality, there are all kinds of violence and betrayal in gender relations, so the researchers conducted another study, and the researchers found that the problem of violence is on par with the aging phenomenon caused by single people, and there is a tendency to exceed it, so what is the violence in gender relations?
Violence in gender relations.
Everyone wants their relationship to be beautiful and harmonious, but in reality, there are a large number of people, and the relationship between the sexes is mixed with violence, and to a large extent, this violence is male violence against women, and at the same time, the victims are mainly women.
In family life, the problem of violence is also very serious, and to a large extent, the perpetrators of violence are still men, and the victims are still women.
Violence will inflict heavy damage on the victim, not only causing serious psychological damage to the victim, but also causing the victim to suffer varying degrees of physical harm, but in violence, the perpetrator of the violence will also be harmed, but the victim is far less serious than the perpetrator's injury.
In violent acts, the perpetrator of the violent act will also suffer from mental illness because of psychological problems, and at the same time, he will also be severely punished by the society and even sentenced because of his own violent behavior, and will lose the trust of relatives and friends because of his own violent behavior, so it can be said that the victim will be physically and psychologically harmed, and the perpetrator will only be physically injured.
Therefore, if there has been violence in the relationship, it is better to break up early, not only will you not give up on yourself, but you will also protect yourself, and at the same time, you will also help the perpetrator get out of the psychological predicament.
In the relationship between the sexes, there is another hidden violence, that is, betrayal, the victim of betrayal is still a woman, and the perpetrator of betrayal is still a man, at the same time, betrayal will also cause great psychological damage to the victim, but few people pay attention to the physical and mental damage caused by betrayal to the victim, and at the same time, few people will punish betrayal severely, because betrayal is much lower than violence.
However, betrayal will also cause great psychological damage to the victim, and even lead to suicide of the victim, at the same time, the victim's body will also cause different degrees of damage due to psychological damage, and at the same time, it will also cause aging to the body, therefore, in the relationship between the sexes, not only violence will cause psychological and physical harm to the victim, but betrayal will also cause different degrees of psychological and physical damage to the victim.
III. Conclusion
In fact, choosing to be single or choosing a relationship between the sexes, there is no one who is good and who is bad, they all have their own advantages and disadvantages, and ultimately they still need to choose according to their own circumstances and needs, and it is not appropriate to choose blindly, at the same time, do not only see the advantages of the research, ignore the shortcomings of the research, and maintain a happy and happy attitude is the most important.
Violence and betrayal in the relationship between the sexes will also cause physical aging, and at the same time, it will also expose the problems in the relationship between the sexes, violence and betrayal, both will cause physical and psychological damage, so the problems in the relationship between the sexes need to be paid attention to and dealt with.
Of course, not only physical health is important, mental health is equally important, whether single or a relationship between the sexes, you need to pay attention to maintaining psychological balance, at the same time, do not feel pressure because of social expectations, social expectations for marriage and singleness, will also bring trouble to individuals, should be more respectful of personal choices and lifestyles.