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A wedding in Shangqiu, Henan Province, was canceled because the bride's best friend asked for a 28,800 off-the-bus gift, which caused heated discussions.
The girlfriend interfered excessively, the bride acted impulsively, and the groom had no choice but to cancel the wedding.
The bride regretted it and came to her parents to apologize, but the man's family refused to get back together.
The husband demanded a return of the bride price and three golds.
The girlfriend apologizes but is not forgiven.
This incident teaches people that we should think independently in the face of decision-making.
Now that the girlfriend and the bride have apologized, the groom reacted ruthlessly, and the relationship for many years seems to be unable to stand the test.
What do you think?
Variations of the wedding: A storm caused by the disembarkation ceremony
In the journey of life, wedding is undoubtedly one of the most anticipated and cherished ceremonies for every lover.
It symbolizes the intersection of two hearts, the integration of two families, and a prayer for a better life in the future.
Sometimes fate turns what should have been a feast of laughter and blessings into a farce or even a tragedy in an unexpected way.
Not long ago, a wedding that was canceled because the bride's best friend asked for a drop-off ceremony caused an uproar in society.
This turmoil not only brought the wedding of the two newlyweds to naught, but also plunged their families and relatives into deep pain.
On the day of the wedding, the sun was shining, the flowers were blooming, and everything seemed so beautiful.
Just when the bride arrived in front of the groom's house in the wedding car, the bride's best friend suddenly stood up and asked the groom to give a drop-off gift.
This sudden request made the originally festive atmosphere instantly tense.
The bride, under the influence of her best friend, also began to hesitate, hoping that the groom could give this so-called "disembarkation gift".
The bridegroom was shocked and puzzled.
In his opinion, everything for the wedding has been arranged according to the wishes and customs of both parties, including the bride price and dowry.
At this time, making such a request again is undoubtedly disrespectful to the families of both parties, and it is also a desecration of the wedding.
He firmly rejected the request, saying it was unacceptable.
The bride, bewitched by her best friend, begins to question the groom's attitude and sincerity.
She sees the groom's rejection as a sign of disrespect and lack of love for her.
As a result, the two had a fierce dispute, and the originally harmonious atmosphere was completely broken.
In the course of the dispute, the bride even made a request to cancel the wedding.
This decision shocked and deplored everyone present.
The groom tries to salvage the situation, but the bride is already swayed by her best friend's words and can't help herself.
In the end, under the persuasion of everyone, the bride still insisted on her opinion, and the wedding had to be canceled.
The news quickly spread throughout the community, causing widespread attention and discussion.
People condemned the bride's best friend, believing that she was the culprit for the cancellation of the wedding.
There are also those who do not understand the bride's decision, believing that she is too impulsive and willful and does not take into account the long-term and future of the marriage.
Under the pressure of public opinion, the bride began to reflect on her actions.
She realizes that she has made the wrong decision under the influence of her best friend.
Deeply guilty and remorseful, she decides to apologize to the groom and seek forgiveness.
She said that she was confused by her best friend's words at the time and did not think and judge independently, which led to such a result.
She hopes that the groom will forgive her and give her a chance to mend her ways.
The bridegroom found it difficult to accept this.
He believes that the bride's actions have seriously hurt his feelings and dignity, and also made him lose confidence in the future of this marriage.
He demanded that the bride return the bride price and three golds, and said that the marriage between the two was irretrievable.
The bride's best friend also apologized to the groom and bride after learning about all this.
She said that she was just playing for fun and mischievous at the time, and did not expect such consequences.
Her apology was not forgiven and accepted by the groom.
This turmoil has made everyone see the negative impact of girlfriends on the bride, and it has also made people start to reflect on how to maintain independent thinking and judgment in relationships.
Although this wedding cancellation incident caused by the disembarkation ceremony is an extreme case, it also brings us profound enlightenment.
In the journey of life, we will encounter all kinds of people and things, some of which will make us feel confused and lost.
But in any case, we should maintain the ability to think and judge independently, not be swayed by the words of others, and not make wrong decisions because of impulse.
We should also recognize the importance and preciousness of marriage.
Marriage is one of the most intimate and important relationships between two people, which needs to be managed and maintained with our hearts.
In marriage, we should respect, understand and tolerate each other and face the challenges and difficulties in life together.
Only in this way can we make the tree of marriage evergreen and let the flower of love bloom forever.
We also have some questions about the groom's reaction.
In marriage, should we give a certain amount of tolerance and understanding when faced with each other's mistakes and mistakes? After all, everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and true love requires tolerance and forgiveness.
Of course, this does not mean that we should tolerate each other's mistakes without a bottom line, but that we should seek ways and means to solve problems on the basis of mutual respect and understanding.
The incident also gave us a glimpse of the impact of social media on public opinion.
In the era of information explosion, social media has become an important channel for people to obtain information and express their opinions.
The rapid and extensive dissemination of such information can also easily lead to the extremeization and emotion of public opinion.
In this wedding, some netizens who did not know the truth blamed and abused the bride and groom, which undoubtedly exacerbated their pain and distress.
This reminds us that when speaking on social media, we should remain rational and objective, not blindly follow trends and not abuse at will, and jointly create a harmonious and rational online environment.
This incident also shows us the importance of independent thinking.
In the face of complex and volatile situations, we should remain calm and objective, and not be disturbed and swayed by the outside world.
We should also learn to listen to the opinions and suggestions of others, but the ultimate decision-making power should be in our own hands.
Only then will we be able to make the right choices and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.
Although this wedding incident, which was canceled due to the disembarkation ceremony, is regrettable, it has also brought us profound revelation and reflection.
We should cherish and inherit traditional culture, maintain the ability to think and judge independently, and respect the feelings and choices of others.
We should also pay attention to the impact of social media on public opinion and jointly create a harmonious and rational online environment.
Only in this way can we make the relationship between people more harmonious and harmonious, and make society better.
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