In history, there are a lot of ancient books, which will also mention some ways to do things and be a man, I believe many people have heard the saying "poor will change, change will be successful", so what does this mean? How do you learn to be flexible in life? Let's take a look and see what we can learn from it.
This old saying, from the "Zhou Yi Department of Resignation", the whole sentence is "poor change, change is through, general is long", literally means, when things develop to the extreme, they change, change is accessible, can be accessible, can be eternal. It is also to warn us that when things develop to the extreme, they must change, so that the development of things can not be blocked, and things can continue to develop. When the road doesn't work, choose to change, and after the change, it will suddenly become clear, and if it works, it can last for a long time.
If you don't think it's easy to understand, we just need to remember two words, which can be said to be an essence of the whole sentence, one is "change", one is "through", together is "flexible", that is, when we encounter difficulties in ordinary times, we should not drill the horns, but should know how to be accommodating, bending and stretching.
How do you learn to be flexible in life?
Flexibility is not opportunistic, but to find a new way, there is an old saying that "there are always more ways than difficulties", when we do things, don't always go to the black, especially in life, when you feel that it doesn't work, you have to change your own strategy, so as to start in a new track, this is also a way to workaround.
1. Always maintain a good attitude
The more danger and difficulties, the more we must calm down, if the mentality is not good, then it is easy to shaft where, an impetuous person, can not see the essence of things, to recognize these words, you need to calm down, have a good attitude.
2. Academic Leadership Thinking
When falling into the predicament of life, many people only think about their own position, and will not look for answers from the outside world, this is also wrong, if you want to be flexible, external factors are also very important, then this tells us that we must learn to think, in order to be more flexible, to find the answer you want.
3. Face change with courage
The reason why many people are reluctant to be flexible is more because they stay in the existing environment for too long, so that when the difficulties come, they still hope that a miracle can happen, but as everyone knows, at this time, we should make a decision, look for new opportunities, and find a new path that suits us. We must always have the courage to face everything we encounter.
Whether you admit it or not, things are always evolving and changing, whether you are aware of it or not, whether you want to or not, everyone is always looking for flexibility. The difference. People who are flexible get better and better, while people who are not flexible get worse and worse.
Therefore, in our lives, we must always think about how to make ourselves better, instead of staying in our comfort zone all the time, and not changing, it will only make you worse after all.