There are a lot of sayings in the folk, which are not lacking in some words that teach people to act, read carefully, it is quite reasonable, such as "etiquette has three do not follow, people have three no", China is the state of etiquette, generally speaking, many people are not strange, but gifts are not given randomly, otherwise it will bring trouble to yourself, so the gains outweigh the losses.
Place, talking about getting along, is to warn us that in ordinary life, we should pay attention to what kind of people we associate with, as the so-called close to Zhu is red and close to ink is black, there are old rural sayings, learn from good people. That is, to remind us that we should learn to distinguish in our daily interactions, and not let others lead you astray, so that it may be more difficult to turn back.
1. There are three types of etiquette
1. No courtesy beyond the scope of ability
This is easier to understand, if your own life is relatively poor, at this time you should pay attention, if it is a gift, you must do what you can, do not exceed a range of your ability, like some people have a salary of 3000 a month, give others gifts, just send thousands, this is obviously not right, and even others will think that you have another purpose.
2. Do not follow the uninvited gift
When you are treated, when others do not invite you, do not go with the gift at this time, this is also easier to understand, the host does not invite you, naturally for what purpose, or to consider other things, if you run over to give gifts, it will look very embarrassing, and people do not receive it, do not accept it, when you go to give gifts, others still think that you have a way.
3. The gift of impure purpose
Some gifts can not be given, such as the purpose of the impure gift, you always hope to get benefits from it, once the thing is messed up, or the east window incident, then not only the person who gives the gift, the person who receives the gift, will be implicated, which will affect a life of the self, and even bring a very big trouble to the people around you.
2. There are three things that people do not have
1. People with low emotional intelligence are not placed
Don't always deal with people with low emotional intelligence, this kind of person is the kind of natural backbone, his mantra is generally: no, you are wrong, you don't understand, whatever happens, you have to deny you as soon as possible, belittle you, in order to show your superiority, bring you negative energy, so a person wants to get better, so if a person wants to be better, you must stay away from this kind of person.
2. People who always bring negative emotions
Some people always like to bring some negative emotions to others, such as some bad things, or tell you some unhappy things, treat you as an emotional trash can, like such people, also remember to stay away, positive people, in order to help you develop better, always bring negative emotions, it will lead to the whole person to do things, often messy.
3. People who like to suppress you
People who like to suppress you, don't get along with this, no matter what you do, in their eyes, it is not good, or they disdain to look at it, sometimes, people are more encouraging, from relatives, friends and strangers to encourage, and people who like to suppress others, this kind of nature will also make people dislike.
The author believes that in our lives, it can indeed play a helpful role, and it can also allow us to learn lessons, so that when facing problems, we can also solve it well, rather than sit idly by.