The new "Tan Zhu" is here again, and it turns out that "Tan Zhu" is not a person, but a group. During the three-year relationship, Ah Ming spent 330,000 yuan for his girlfriend Ah Fang, but the two only met five times.
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Details of what happened
Amin, an ordinary young man with a gentle personality who works on a construction site, has little chance of contact with the opposite sex due to the peculiarities of the working environment, so he is still single.
At the end of June 2020, 26-year-old He went on a blind date with a 24-year-old woman, A Fang, through the introduction of relatives. The two met in the presence of their parents and soon began their daily communication on WeChat.
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At first, Ah Fong only seems to occasionally suggest that Ah Ming buy small goods for her, such as fruits or daily necessities. Amin, with good intentions, fulfilled these small requests.
However, as time went on, Fong's demands intensified, and he began to specify specific items and frequently asked Ah Ming to pay for his purchases.
Whenever Ah Ming hesitated, Ah Fong would threaten to break up with him or attack him with insulting language, such as calling him "waste" or "dead".
Ah Fang's demands gradually escalated to high-priced items such as designer cosmetics, luxury bags, and even expensive electronics.
According to the chat logs, Ah Fang was able to send up to 22 product links in a single day, asking Ah Fang to pay on his behalf.
In this case, Ah Ming sometimes said that he could not pay immediately because he was short of money, and Ah Fang would send dozens of messages in a row, the content was full of bad insults and urges.
The true face of a relationship
During these three years of "love", Ah Ming and Ah Fang actually only met five times, and each time they met was extremely short. Among them, the first time they met was on a blind date, and the next few times were either Ah Ming's mobile phones, luxury goods, or simple meals.
Fong was never really involved in the relationship, and her attitude towards Amin was always cold and self-interested.
In September 2021, Amin finally couldn't help but complain that the two had only met three times in their relationship for more than a year. Ah Fang responded that they could meet, but then asked Ah Ming if he had paid his salary.
When Ah Ming transferred 520 yuan, Ah Fang canceled the date on the grounds that something was wrong. Such scenes are not uncommon in chat logs, where Fang often refuses to meet for various reasons, but keeps asking for money.
The intervention of the law
Fed up with this one-sided demand and emotional abuse, Amin eventually chose to seek help through legal channels.
He entrusted lawyer Zheng Xuezhi to sue Ah Fang for the return of unjust enrichment.
After the trial, the court ordered Ah Fang to return 270,000 yuan, holding that the transfers were unjust enrichment. However, Ah Fang has not yet executed the judgment, and Ah Ming has to prepare to apply for enforcement.
Netizens are hotly discussed: anger, incomprehension and sympathy are intertwined
As soon as this situation broke out, it immediately rushed to the hot search. In the comment area, netizens reacted in a variety of ways, and some netizens couldn't figure out why the boy did this.
What's wrong with this man, he only met a few times and transferred so much money.
I was stunned, blind date, I only saw it 5 times in three years, and it cost 330,000.
It's strange, this should be more on the head before turning, you can't kiss or hug, what's the picture?
Some netizens think that this kind of girl should be severely punished.
This is fraud, and it is not right to return only 270,000, and it should be returned in full and sentenced to more than 3 years in prison.
deceived people's feelings, and verbally abused, why did 330,000 take in 60,000.
Some netizens even ridiculed why they couldn't meet this kind of boy.
I can't even fool a man with a cup of milk tea.
I wonder where this kind of love brain boy is?
Where to find this kind of man, why is there a lot of money on the Internet, but I can't touch one in reality, and it's not bad for me to make money.
In-depth analysis
Thankfully, the guy didn't sink into the pain of falling out of love. Although he could not fully recover all his losses, at least he did not make a radical choice, and he can be said to be lucky compared to the previous "fat cat" incident.
Through his chat records with the woman, we can get a glimpse of one or two that this guy gradually lost his sense of self-protection in the whirlpool of feelings.
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In this story, we need to understand that protecting our psychological and financial security is especially important in the online age. Giving in a relationship must be a two-way balance, not a one-sided sacrifice
True love should be based on mutual respect and support, not material demand. Amin's case reminds us of the need to be wary of this kind of economic exploitation in the name of love.
Conclusions and Recommendations
Hopefully, Amin's story can serve as a warning to others to avoid similar tragedies. At the same time, we also look forward to further legal intervention to provide more effective protection and remedies for victims.
I hope that everyone can be discerning and vigilant on the way to pursue love, and enjoy true happiness and joy.
How do you feel about such a woman who spends a lot of money and is only a few faces? Does this remind us that on the road to pursuing love, we should be more vigilant and judge the true intentions of the other party? We look forward to your insights and comments.