In order to facilitate teachers to send messages and notices, and at the same time to enable parents to understand the situation of students in a more timely manner, the effective communication between home and school is promoted. On this basis, the Parent Association came into being and became the right-hand man of the teachers.
As a result, many parents are proud to serve on PTAs. Running for the Parents' Committee became a hot event, and a simple self-introduction could show a powerful aura that surprised the teacher. In the face of these eye-catching resumes, the teacher couldn't help but be afraid, and deep down in his heart, he sighed that "it was really a challenge".
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The competitive landscape of modern society emphasizes the word "spelling", and students not only need to compete for grades, but also need to work together with their parents. Therefore, many parents joked that "when I was a child, I was embarrassed to my parents, and when I grew up, I would be embarrassed to my children."
However, there are also some parents who pretend to be sophisticated, and in order to win the election of the parent committee, they do not hide their hole cards. For example, there is a classmate's family background, his mother is the head of human resources of a well-known foreign company, and his father is an alumnus of Fudan High School.
The society has generally established the concept of "education first", believing that the higher the education of the family, the deeper the influence and influence of the child. These parents are not only able to provide a great learning environment for their own children, but also to help the rest of the class as a whole. In the Parent Council election, a high degree of education has become a sought-after trait.
Take the parents of a classmate as an example, they are all graduate students, they served as the president of the graduate student association during their doctoral studies, and have been engaged in university education after graduation.
In fact, the core task of the PTA is to assist the teacher in their work, although there are many other responsibilities on a regular basis. Parent-Teacher Associations have important responsibilities when organizing activities at school, so a relaxed schedule is essential to carry out their duties, and busy work may hinder participation in Parent Association activities.
As a result, some parents have successfully demonstrated their campaign strength by emphasizing their ability to work freely and to be able to help with school activities. These parents have masterfully grasped the purpose of the PTA and ensured their appeal in the campaign.
For some parents, due to the lack of academic qualifications or careers, they may choose to make up for this shortcoming with wealth. They try to get the attention of their teachers by "showing off their wealth" so that they can get a place in the election committee.
For example, some parents claim to own 25 demolition houses and an additional 15 units, and although they admit that they are not highly educated, they emphasize that they usually have enough free time and are willing to contribute to the class. This has aroused some netizens' doubts, thinking that the child has become a rich second generation and still seems to be a little unnecessary.
The original intention of the parent group and the parent association group was to promote home-school collaboration, but the reality has gradually deviated from the original intention and has become a place for some people to show off. From the volume of children to the volume of academic qualifications, and then to the volume of family history, these behaviors all reveal the superiority of parents.
In order to let their children enter a higher level of learning group, some parents directly become "chicken baby" parents, even if the child is not yet 5 years old, and complete a large part of the primary school curriculum in advance. This practice leaves the teacher speechless, because the child's advanced learning has gone beyond the normal educational process.
In fact, many parents invisibly show their family situation, on the one hand, to get the attention of the teacher to the student, and on the other hand, to gain some face for the child. This overly flamboyant demeanor is often unpleasant.
Although parents are superficially complimented by their teachers, they are privately a little scoffed at this kind of flaunting of wealth. Some teachers even have some strange views on students because of their parents' flaunting of wealth, at least they are worried that criticizing students may cause dissatisfaction among parents, so as to reduce the criticism of students' education. Therefore, parents' self-assertion can be detrimental to their own children.
In the author's view, the cultivation of excellent children does not only depend on external conditions, but also depends on the correct guidance and education of parents. If parents focus too much on the "chicken baby", they may end up making the child feel extremely tired, and the parent will not be able to find satisfaction on their own.
Therefore, parents should correctly grasp the focus and improve family education is the most important. Although being selected for the PTA has a positive impact on the child's development, it is not possible to blindly follow the trend, but should carefully decide whether to participate according to your own conditions.
The work of the PTA is not an easy one, and it requires parents to have the ability and time. If you are not qualified, you don't have to run reluctantly, and it is wiser to focus on the development of students than to spend time on the Parent Association.
At the same time, the author hopes that when selecting the members of the Parent Committee, we should not only pay attention to the external conditions, but conduct a comprehensive evaluation, and select talents who can assist parents and the school in effective communication and coordination, so as to avoid the Parent Committee becoming a meaningless existence.
Finally, the author sent a message to parents that they have used various means to run for the parents' committee, and their resumes are more amazing than one another. The teachers were a little afraid when they saw it, for fear of offending these "big shots". Therefore, parents should keep a low profile to avoid unnecessary trouble for themselves and their children due to excessive publicity.
Topic: What do you think of the campaign for parents' committees?