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My name is Li Dahai, I am 68 years old this year, I have been retired for many years, and I live with my son and daughter-in-law. Life is quite stable, but the son and daughter-in-law are usually busy with work, and the home is often deserted. I was once married, but my wife died at an early age. As I got older, I often felt lonely, which made me decide to marry my neighbor, Aunt Chen, a year ago.
Aunt Chen and I are about the same age, and after her husband passed away a few years ago, she lived alone, and her son rarely came back from working in other places. We take care of each other when we are neighbors, and she has a gentle and kind personality and takes care of people, which makes me have a good impression of her. Later, I offered to remarry, and Aunt Chen readily agreed. After we got together, we took care of each other, and life became a lot more lively.
After I remarried, I cared for Aunt Chen as much as possible, and she was very considerate to me. We spend time with each other on weekdays, and occasionally go out for a walk or go to the market to buy groceries. Aunt Chen likes to knit sweaters, she is skillful, and the clothes she knits are very delicate, and she knits me a new sweater, which I am very touched. She is always busy and wants to keep her home clean and welcoming, and she says it's the life she's always dreamed of.
One day, my son and daughter-in-law came to visit me with their grandson. They are also very kind to Aunt Chen, and the whole family is full of joy. Aunt Chen prepared a sumptuous dinner, and everyone had a good time eating and chatting. The daughter-in-law was also very grateful to Aunt Chen and expressed her gratitude for her care. My grandson also had a lot of fun with Aunt Chen, which made me feel the warmth of family.
However, there has always been one thing in my heart that I can't let go, and that is that Aunt Chen has never had a decent piece of jewelry. She never complains, but I know she loves some delicate accessories. I would like to give her a precious gift to show my gratitude and love for her.
After some planning, I decided to give Aunt Chen a jade bracelet worth 20,000 yuan. It's a lot of money, but I think it's worth it. I went to a reputable jewelry store and picked up a delicate jade bracelet. This jade bracelet is crystal clear in color and very beautiful. I imagined what Aunt Chen would look like when she wore it, and she would be very happy.
When I got home, I couldn't wait to give the jade bracelet to Aunt Chen. When she saw the bracelet, she was amazed, and tears of emotion flashed in her eyes. She smiled at me and said, "The sea, you are so good, how can I accept such a valuable gift?" I smiled and responded, "This is a gift from you, you must accept it." ”
Aunt Chen finally took the bracelet and looked particularly beautiful on her hand. She couldn't help but shed tears and said excitedly: "The sea, you are so good to me, I really married the right person!" I shook her hand and said with a smile, "You are also very good to me, we have to cherish each other." ”
We had a great time at dinner that day. Aunt Chen has always been in love with the jade bracelet and strokes it from time to time. Looking at her happy face, I felt like I had made the right decision. Life seemed to have become a warmer place, but I never imagined that a year later, this gift would become a source of pain between us.
Aunt Chen cherishes the jade bracelet I gave her very much. Every now and then she takes it out to admire, always with a smile of satisfaction and happiness on her face. But as time went on, things seemed to change.
Aunt Chen began to complain that the bracelet was uncomfortable to wear on her hand, she said: "The sea, although this bracelet is beautiful, it feels a little tight after wearing it for a long time." I was a little worried when I heard her say this, but I thought it might just be a minor issue. So I said, "If you don't feel well, we can go to the jewelry store and adjust the size." ”
We went to the jewelry store and asked the clerk to help adjust the size of the bracelet. After the adjustment, Aunt Chen felt better, but after a while, she began to complain that the bracelet was easy to scratch her skin. I once again suggested that she adjust the size, and even asked if she wanted to change it to a new bracelet, but Aunt Chen insisted on not changing it, saying, "This bracelet was given by you, and I am reluctant to change it." ”
Gradually, I noticed that Aunt Chen's mood began to become unstable. She became easily angry and often lost her temper over trivial things. At one point, she was furious at me for accidentally breaking her favorite cup, which had never been done before. I tried to comfort her, but she was clearly unwilling to accept an apology.
I began to suspect that there was something wrong with Aunt Chen's health. She often complains of dizziness, fatigue, and sometimes says that her vision becomes blurry. I advised her to go to the hospital for a check-up, but she always refused on the grounds that she didn't need it. I began to worry about her physical condition and secretly asked a doctor to come to her to check her up.
The doctor told me that Aunt Chen did have some problems with her body, which may be related to her long-term wearing of jade bracelets. The doctor advised us to take the jade bracelet off for the time being to see if her symptoms would improve. I was worried when I heard the doctor's advice, but Aunt Chen insisted that she was reluctant to take the jade bracelet off.
I patiently persuaded Aunt Chen: "Auntie, your health is the most important, let's take off the bracelet first and see if your body will improve." Aunt Chen hesitated, but finally agreed. We took the bracelet off and set it aside.
However, Aunt Chen's symptoms did not improve immediately. Her vision continued to blur, and sometimes she complained of darkness in front of her. I took her to the hospital for a detailed check-up, and the results were shocking. The doctor told us that Aunt Chen's vision problems were serious, probably because the jade bracelet contained some harmful ingredients, and her health was damaged due to long-term exposure.
Hearing the news, Aunt Chen and I were both shocked. Aunt Chen wept bitterly, and she blamed herself for not being so attached to the jade bracelet. She said, "The sea, I'm so blind that I have a problem with my body because of that bracelet." ”
I have mixed feelings in my heart, not only regretting that I did not dissuade Aunt Chen in time, but also feeling sorry for her current pain. I could only comfort her and say, "Auntie, it's not all your fault, let's face this problem together." Aunt Chen nodded, her eyes full of self-blame and remorse.
In the days that followed, I faced her vision problems with Aunt Chen. I took her to the ophthalmologist and actively cooperated with the treatment. Our son and daughter-in-law also gave us great support and help, and they often visited Auntie Chen and brought us some supplements and nutritional supplements.
Aunt Chen's mood gradually calmed down, she no longer complained, but faced the reality positively. She did some simple chores with me, and although her eyesight was not good, she still tried to stay optimistic. We spent a lot of quiet and welcoming time together, which made me feel important as family.
Although Aunt Chen's vision problem is still not completely resolved, her mood has become much more stable. We have learned to cherish the present moment and stop chasing the superficial things too much. Aunt Chen said to me: "Dahai, you are so good to me, I will definitely take good care of myself and no longer let you worry." ”
I smiled and nodded, taking her hand. Our lives move on, but we learn to appreciate the people and things in front of us more. Although Aunt Chen's health has been affected, our relationship is still strong. This experience has made us realize that what really matters is the affection and care between people.
Over time, although Aunt Chen's vision problems did not fully recover, her attitude towards life changed. She has learned to accept reality and stop being too attached to her physical condition and try to stay optimistic. She began to adjust her lifestyle to minimize her dependence on her vision and to do more light activities.
One day, my son and daughter-in-law came to visit us with their grandson. The grandson is lively and cute, and brings a lot of laughter to the family. He had a great time with Aunt Chen, who was still able to interact with her grandson despite her poor eyesight, and she had a smile on her face that she hadn't seen for a long time.
The daughter-in-law was also relieved to see that Aunt Chen's condition had improved. She said to me, "Dad, Auntie looks much better now, and your care has played a big role. I smiled and responded, "It's my aunt who is very strong and positive, and that's the most important thing." ”
Aunt Chen also joined us in the conversation, saying, "I can't keep everyone worried, I still have to cheer myself up." The son nodded and said to Aunt Chen, "Auntie, don't worry, we will always be with you." Aunt Chen smiled with relief.
In this warm atmosphere, we started planning a family outing. The daughter-in-law proposed to go for a walk in the park in the suburbs to get some fresh air. When Aunt Chen heard this proposal, she immediately agreed, she said: "It's a good idea, going to the suburbs for a walk is good for your health." "I also agreed to the plan, thinking that going out together as a family would make us feel relaxed.
The next day, we took Aunt Chen and her grandson to the park in the suburbs. Although Aunt Chen's eyesight is not good, she still feels the beauty of nature in our company. She smelled the flowers, listened to the birdsong, and had a satisfied smile on her face.
The grandson was running around in the park, and Aunt Chen was smiling and watching him play. "The sea, I'm happy to see him so happy," she said. I nodded, "yes, children's laughter always lifts people's moods." ”
We walked in the park and chatted about homely topics. The son and daughter-in-law also communicated with Aunt Chen and shared their work and life. This made Aunt Chen feel the care and support of her family. She no longer feels lonely because of her vision problems, but is integrated into the warmth of family.
This day out was relaxing for our family. When Aunt Chen returned home, she seemed much better. She said to me, "The sea, I am really happy today, thank you for taking me out for a walk." I smiled and responded, "As long as you're happy, we're happy." ”
In the days that followed, we continued to maintain this warm family atmosphere. Aunt Chen and I cook and chat together, and our son and daughter-in-law often come to visit us. Aunt Chen's mentality gradually recovered, and she learned to adapt to her situation and face life positively.
We also started hosting small gatherings at home and inviting neighbors and friends to come over. Auntie Chen likes to be lively, and she will prepare some small snacks and tea to make everyone feel welcome. Such gatherings made us feel the warmth of the community and made Aunt Chen's mood even happier.
I also go to some senior activities with Aunt Chen and make many like-minded friends. This has made our lives more colorful, and Auntie Chen has found a lot of joy in it.
Although Aunt Chen's vision problems still exist, her attitude towards life and mood have improved greatly. She begins to accept her shortcomings and strives to find joy in life. My family and I have always been by her side, accompanying her and caring for her.
This process made me understand how important it is for a person to have the support and love of my family. I am also glad that Aunt Chen has changed, and I will continue to accompany her and help her find more happiness and joy in the days to come.
Aunt Chen's vision problem is still not completely solved, but her mentality has greatly improved. She began to accept her body's limitations and learned to adjust her lifestyle. As a family, we are trying to give her more love and support, and try to make her feel the beauty of life.
One day, Aunt Chen suddenly made a suggestion: "The sea, can we take our grandson to the zoo?" I want to see the critters. "I was pleasantly surprised to hear her offer. Aunt Chen has always been not very interested in the zoo, but she didn't expect her to have such a wish now. I smiled and responded, "Of course, Auntie, when do you want to go?" ”
Aunt Chen smiled and said, "Tomorrow, tomorrow the weather will be fine, bring your grandson with you." I nodded and agreed to the plan. The son and daughter-in-law were also happy to hear the news, and they said, "It must be fun to take the kids to the zoo!" ”
The next day, our family went to the zoo with our grandchildren. Although Auntie Chen's eyesight is not good, she can still enjoy the different animals in the zoo in the company of us. She listened excitedly to the sounds of the animals and asked my son and me from time to time for the names of some animals.
The grandson was having a lot of fun at the zoo, he took Aunt Chen's hand and kept introducing her to the animals he saw. Although Aunt Chen couldn't see clearly, she still smiled and interacted with her grandson, she said: "I can feel the vitality of these little animals, it's so cute." ”
We visited the whole zoo and Auntie Chen developed a strong interest in many small animals. Together with her grandson, she watched the little monkey show and heard various bird calls. Although her eyesight is poor, she can still feel the joy of the zoo through her sense of hearing and touch.
After the visit, we found a quiet place to have a picnic in the zoo together. Auntie Chen was very satisfied with the trip, she said: "Haihai, thank you for bringing me to the zoo, this experience makes me feel that I can still feel a lot of beautiful things." ”
I smiled and responded, "Auntie, as long as you like it, we can go out for more walks in the future." The son and daughter-in-law also chimed in: "Yes, Auntie, we will go out with you more in the future." ”
The grandson was happily eating snacks on the side, he took Aunt Chen's hand and said excitedly, "Grandma, let's come to the zoo next time, okay?" Aunt Chen smiled and touched her grandson's head: "Okay, let's come back next time." ”
This trip to the zoo allowed Auntie Chen to find a lot of fun again, and it also made her feel that she can still enjoy the beauty of life. Her mood has become more positive and she always has a smile on her face.
After returning home, Aunt Chen seemed much better. She began to be more active in family activities, cooking and cleaning with me, and discussing the education of her grandson with her son and daughter-in-law. This makes our family more harmonious.
Auntie Chen and I also participated in some senior activities together, such as square dancing, singing, etc. This allowed her to meet many new people, and she found a lot of fun in these activities. Her social circle has expanded and her mindset has become more cheerful.
At home, we also play some light games together, and our son and daughter-in-law often bring their grandchildren over to bring laughter to the family. Aunt Chen's life has become more colorful, and she has adjusted her lifestyle to try to adapt herself to the current situation.
During this time, Aunt Chen also began to pay more attention to her health. She regularly goes to the hospital for check-ups and actively cooperates with the doctor's treatment. My son and daughter-in-law and I have also been paying attention to her physical condition and trying to provide her with more support and care.
Although Aunt Chen's vision problems still exist, her mindset has changed drastically. She has learned to cherish the present moment and stop dwelling on her own shortcomings, but strive to find joy in life. I am glad that this change has made my family's life more harmonious.
Although Aunt Chen's vision problem has not fully recovered, her positive attitude has made me and my son and daughter-in-law feel relieved. We worked together as a family to make her life more colorful and her laughter ringing more often in her home.
One day, I was walking in the park with Aunt Chen, and she suddenly said to me, "The sea, you know what? Although my eyesight is not good, I can feel the love of my family and the people around me, which makes me feel happy in life. I took her hand and smiled lightly: "Auntie, your strength and optimism are also an example for us to learn." ”
Aunty Chan continued, "I used to feel like I was stuck in a difficult situation, but now I realize that we can all choose to face it positively, no matter what the circumstances are. You guys have always been there for me and made me feel like I'm not alone. "Hearing her words, I feel that my care and companionship for her is worth it.
After returning home, Aunt Chen began to participate more actively in family activities. She not only actively communicates with her son and daughter-in-law, but also plays with her grandson and tells him stories. The grandson also began to understand Aunt Chen's difficulties more and slowly became more considerate.
Her son and daughter-in-law also came to visit Aunt Chen from time to time, bringing her some nutritional products and gifts to make her feel cared for. One day, my daughter-in-law came back with a cute puppy and said, "Mom, we brought you a new little friend, you will love it!" Aunt Chen had a look of surprise on her face, she smiled and took the puppy and stroked its soft fur.
Aunt Chen is very fond of the puppy, and she named it "Huanhuan" because the puppy brings joy to the family. She walks and plays with Huanhuan every day, and Huanhuan has become her new life partner. The son and daughter-in-law were also very happy to see Aunt Chen's smile increase.
In the days that followed, our family continued to maintain this warm family atmosphere. Aunt Chen and I took care of Huanhuan together, and her life became more interesting. She started volunteering in some of the community to contribute to others as much as possible. This made her more positive and allowed her to find a new purpose in life.
Because of Aunt Chen's optimistic attitude, her son and daughter-in-law began to take the initiative to care more about everyone in the family. As a family, we often eat together, chat, and share the bits and pieces of life. This caring and supportive family atmosphere brings us closer together.
Auntie Chen's mindset has made her popular in the community, and she has made many friends and found more fun in it. She often chats with her neighbors and participates in community events. This makes her life more fulfilling, and she always has a smile on her face.
Although Auntie Chen's vision problems still persisted, she learned to accept her shortcomings and worked hard to adapt to life. She actively cooperates with the doctor's treatment and maintains regular check-ups. I was deeply touched by her mindset and positive attitude towards problems.
In the family, we also maintain the care and care for Aunt Chen. Her son and daughter-in-law often bring their grandchildren over to accompany her, bringing more laughter to the family. Aunt Chen will also tell stories to her grandson and teach him some principles of life, which makes her grandson learn a lot.
Aunt Chen's optimistic attitude has changed her life for the better, and her laughter always warms our family. Although her vision problems still plague her, her attitude to life gives us hope for her future.
In the days to come, we will continue to accompany Auntie Chen and help her through every good time. Her bravery and optimism are an example for our whole family to learn from, and together we will face life's challenges and find happiness and joy together.
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