#头条创作挑战赛#
Su Shi once said: "Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a companion." ”
On this rugged road called life, no one can stay out of it, and we are all walkers.
In the face of hardship and frustration, the heavier we feel, the more we must reject the temptation to sink.
It is important to know that difficulties and challenges will not dissipate for no reason, and only by exploring the three places often and absorbing the power of life can we usher in the bright future of life.
Although life is like a boat on a bitter sea, no one is a guest on the shore. Every sailor struggles to navigate the waves, without exception.
In the face of troughs and storms, we must refuse to indulge in despair. Because the predicament will not take the initiative to give way, only self-redemption can find the bright exit.
The key to changing one's destiny lies in having the courage to visit the Three Realms.
Absorb nutrients from these endless sources, and the picture of life will suddenly open up and usher in a new dawn.
Go to the high-level circle and borrow strength
Liu Yong said: "The limitations of life are often not set by IQ education, but are actually limited by the life circle. ”
Indeed, the low-lying environment may quietly erode your passion.
On the contrary, a high-level social circle is like a golden key to the door to success, and the words and deeds of its members invisibly pull your destiny.
Fan Yusu, a private teacher from a remote village in Hubei, resolutely bid farewell to his teaching position and went north to the capital in pursuit of a better life.
But in Beijing, she was alone and had to toil day and night in restaurants.
After two years of wasted time, she got married hastily, but because of domestic violence, she fled with her son.
Running for a living, she tried her hand at the role of a street vendor and eventually became a domestic care worker.
Life seems to fall into an endless "trough", until she stumbles upon a group of literature lovers. There, every Saturday, a university teacher teaches literature on a voluntary basis.
Since then, Fan Yusu has seized every moment of leisure and immersed herself in literature class. In this circle, she made many new friends.
Under the influence of his friends, Fan Yusu gradually moved away from the trivial and mediocre, and his mentality became more and more peaceful. It was these friendships that led her on her journey to write.
As Cao Xueqin said: "The good wind sends me to the clouds with its strength." ”
The catkins rode the wind and were able to travel the sky; The peach blossoms are flowing to be able to go to other places.
The ups and downs of life are often closely linked to the circle in which they live.
The self-discipline of others becomes a mirror of your self-requirements;
The wisdom of others broadens the boundaries of your cognition;
The vision of others to enhance your thinking pattern;
Your circle is an indication of your future form.
When you encounter difficulties, switch to a positive environment and take the initiative to get close to those who have strength, insight and heart.
Only by making good use of the "help" of the excellent can you renovate your fortune and open a new chapter in your life.
Swim in the sea of books and recharge
Tang Xingfen's birth marks an unexpected role in a rural family with a strong patriarchal concept. The lack of a caring environment made her personality gradually introverted and lacked self-confidence.
Subsequently, the arrival of a new member of the family forced her as the eldest daughter to interrupt her studies, and the scythe became her daily companion with the burden of housework on her young shoulders.
The turning point happened by chance, when a copy of "Seven Heroes and Five Righteousness" left behind at home ignited her enthusiasm for reading. That summer vacation, in the face of the challenges of the paper, she was like drinking nectar and indulging in it.
In the years that followed, Tang Xingfen was accompanied by books, looking for an oasis of knowledge in the fields, and this companion was more than a dozen spring and autumn seasons.
Looking back, she sighed: "It was books that gave me the warmest comfort when I was at a low point in my life." ”
The nourishment of books broadened her horizons and prompted her to go out of the countryside and embrace the dream of being a teacher. Unfortunately, the academic hurdles kept her out, and she eventually became a university dormitory administrator.
Although the post is ordinary, the enthusiasm for reading has not diminished. Not only did she read, but she also began to write, and essays, essays, and even novels gradually became a part of her life.
In the past six years, she has published more than 2 million words of works online, and this perseverance and talent have been recognized by the school, she was invited to serve as an instructor of the Literature Club, and was invited to join the Zhejiang Internet Writers Association, writing an extraordinary chapter with a primary school degree.
Tang Xingfen proved that although reading is not a paving of the road, it is a beacon in the fog, giving hope to people in distress.
As the old saying goes: "There is no better way to nourish the heart than to have few desires, and there is no greater pleasure than reading." ”
Ordinary people like you and me, life will inevitably be ups and downs, and books can give us the strength and calmness to stand tall in the wind and rain.
The real challenge of life is not the constraints of the outside world, but the shackles of the heart.
In the face of misfortune, instead of letting anxiety swallow up, it is better to turn to the wisdom of books.
"Books are only hated when they are used", so that the soul is immersed in the sea of books, even if the current situation is difficult, after restarting can also climb new peaks, because the power of knowledge will eventually lead us to a higher place.
Go back to a quiet place with few people and gather momentum
Feng Jicai's wise words reveal a philosophy of life: "The mediocre cover up the emptiness through the excitement, while the outstanding forge themselves in solitude." ”
Indeed, after the hustle and bustle of the world, mastering the art of solitude is all the more precious. It is not only a sign of maturity, but also the best way to self-improvement.
Diplomat Hua Chunying's high school years witnessed her multi-faceted talents.
At that time, she excelled academically and was enthusiastic about various student activities. From planning and hosting speech and recitation competitions to being active in the green football field, she is everywhere.
However, stepping on the threshold of the university and facing the elites from all over the world, Hua Chunying, who was born in a small city, felt an unprecedented challenge for the first time. The gap with top students in various places frustrated her, and her inferiority complex quietly grew.
But she quickly adjusted her mentality and resolutely bid farewell to the complicated social interactions of the past.
She chose to stay away from the hustle and bustle, no longer actively participated in various activities, did not rush to broaden her social circle, and even during her four years of college, she was the only single person in the dormitory.
During this time, Hua Chunying immersed herself in lonely cultivation, silently making up for her shortcomings, and constantly enriching herself. In the eyes of everyone, she is always that quiet existence, obscure.
However, on the occasion of graduating from university, Hua Chunying amazed everyone with her outstanding achievements, becoming the only female graduate hired by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs that year, which is an eye-catching achievement.
His teacher later sighed: "It is incredible that the little girl who was once silent has now grown into a shrewd, decisive and calm spokesperson for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs." ”
This transformation demonstrates the power of solitude, which allows Hua Chunying to shine in silence and achieve her extraordinary self.
Being alone, not isolating oneself, is actually the precipitation of the soul, so that we can find peace in the chaos and peace in the hustle and bustle.
Often, human excellence begins when you are alone. This quiet place is a fertile ground for growth, giving birth to extraordinary buds.
Time is the most impartial arbiter. It silently records every moment of unremitting efforts in loneliness, and does not forget every slack that indulges in the noise.
The journey of life is more tortuous than open, and the more tenacious it is in the face of setbacks, it is necessary to be tenacious and keep one, so that the clouds can open the moon.
Bear in mind that every frustration is a turning point carefully paved by fate, guiding self-reflection and adjustment;
Every setback is nothing more than a clever arrangement of life that pushes you to embark on a new spiritual journey.
Only by concentrating on solitude, unremittingly accumulating strength, and waiting for the day of self-improvement, the ups and downs of the past will eventually transform into a solid ladder to a better future.
Wang Xiaobo said: "Life is nothing more than a slow tempering process. ”
It is true that in the journey of life, there are only one or two smooth things, and all beings are looking for balance in the ups and downs.
However, the advent of adversity is not intended to make people depressed, but to promote people's awakening;
Not to indulge, but to guide us to quietly transform.
Try to visit three places often:
One is the natural realm to relax the mind;
the second is the ocean of knowledge, which empowers the self;
The third is the palace of art, which inspires life.
In this way, every day forward, there will be countless beautiful things waiting for the road ahead.
With a light touch, between the attention, may you climb the peak bravely for the rest of your life, walk steadily, and at the end of the darkness, you will usher in a bright dawn.