Preface
Recently, a video of a delivery man and a restaurant waiter scolding and beating each other has gone viral on the Internet, which is very distressing. Although the incident originated from a gaffe of "fat head and big ears", it reflects all kinds of bad habits and hidden dangers in the current social interpersonal communication, which is worthy of our deep thought.
A word that is not covered causes a bloody case
According to the recovery of the incident, the cause of the incident is not a major event. At the door of the hotel, a welcome waitress had a quarrel with the takeaway brother who came to pick up the food for some reason, and directly cursed the other party to "die".
In the face of such outrageous rhetoric, the takeaway brother naturally couldn't tolerate it, and immediately replied, "Why don't you die?" I've never seen anyone as fat and big ears as you." I'm afraid this is just a ridiculous counterattack, and I didn't expect the other party to be so sensitive.
Unexpectedly, as soon as these four words came out, they completely ignited the anger of the waitress like a fire. She picked up the drink and smashed it at the other party, and pounced on it and beat the little brother's head and face wildly, shouting "Who has a fat head and big ears?" Say it again!"
Throwing fruit and winning the car, paranoia and violence provoke public anger
What is unbelievable is that in the face of such an out-of-control atrocity of the woman, the takeaway brother never fought back, but just turned helplessly in circles. His glasses were knocked off the ground, his nose was blue and his face was swollen, and it was obvious that he had suffered a lot.
It wasn't until the woman completely vented her anger that she let go of the little brother's collar and asked him to squat down and pick up his glasses. And during the whole process, the little brother never fought back, which shows that his determination is not trivial.
The incident quickly sparked heated discussions on the Internet. Netizens complained about the little brother, questioning the woman's behavior as too paranoid, violent and double standard. First, he cursed the other party to die, and the other party was beaten up after a few words of counterattack, which was really unreasonable.
What is the root cause of the trouble
So why does an unintentional tease elicit such a violent reaction? Analyzed, the root causes are mainly as follows:
Inflated self-image. Some people pursue "perfection" one-sidedly, are extremely sensitive to their own appearance, and cannot face reality. The words "fat head and big ears" undoubtedly touched the woman's reverse scales.
Lack of self-cultivation. With the progress of society, contemporary people are becoming more and more affluent in material life, but their inner cultivation is in great contrast with it, and their behavior is often irrational.
Poor emotion management skills. Some people lack good self-regulation in the face of provocations or stimuli, and are easily carried away by anger and engage in impulsive and extreme behaviors.
Lack of awareness of rights. Some people ignore the rules and bottom lines that should be reasonably followed in public places, and act recklessly and recklessly.
It can be seen that the essence of this incident lies in the fact that both sides have certain personality defects, and under a small fuse, both sides lose.
The alarm bell rings for a long time, how to recast rational civilization
In the face of such a low-level conflict, we have to pinch a cold sweat for the degree of civilization and interpersonal quality of society. In fact, similar scolding fights and beatings occur from time to time in some public places, which is deplorable.
On the one hand, this requires the whole society to pay attention to it and strengthen the moral cultivation of citizens and the education of social ethics from an early age. Everyone should uphold a humble and loving attitude towards the world, and cultivate a noble personality and rational and prudent habits. Any vulgar behavior that goes against the rationality of civilization should be criticized and stopped.
On the other hand, public places should also strengthen standardized management and improve emergency plans to prevent the recurrence of such incidents. When it does happen, it should be quickly and decisively intervened to stop it, and the aftermath should be dealt with.
epilogue
Finally, we also hope that the judiciary will be able to deal with the matter fairly and give justice to the insulted person. Perpetrators must pay the price for their actions in order to restore public confidence in the rule of law.
Only in this way can our society truly strive for goodness, and civilized, courteous, and mutual help and love become a new social trend. Let us work together to use action to hold up the new height of civilization in society.