1. The origin of Zhu Zhenfang's "money worship" remarks
On the night of early winter, in the poor but warm little family in Nanchang, Jiangxi, Zhu Zhenfang was finally born in the world. Even though she overcame obstacles and her family was poor, she still did not change her original intention and was committed to creating a better life for herself.
It's gold that always shines! After unremitting struggle, Zhu Zhenfang was successfully admitted to a secondary professional school, which paved the way for her to go out of the mountains in the future and realize her ideal life.
Her excellent academic performance should have given her more choices, however, in the face of her family's financial difficulties, Zhu Zhenfang could only give up the opportunity to study in high school. She urgently needed to find a job to ease the pressure on her family.
So, with the belief that knowledge can change fate, Zhu Zhenfang found a decent career in a bustling office building.
During the initial period, Zhu Zhenfang was very satisfied. Despite her meager salary, she is extremely happy to have a stable income. She works hard, strives to accumulate wealth, and is looking forward to her future life.
However, life is always full of uncertainties, Zhu Zhenfang suffered a major blow in her life - bad news came from her family, her dear father was seriously ill, and the huge medical expenses were like making her life worse, which put her life in a desperate situation.
In order to save her father, Zhu Zhenfang borrowed money everywhere, but in the end she still failed to save her father's life. The departure of her father not only took away her relatives, but also left a debt of up to hundreds of thousands of yuan.
From then on, her life fell into endless pain and struggle, and during the day, she had to devote her full attention to her work; At night and on weekends, she has to work hard to earn money, pay off her debts, and the hardships of life make her personality gradually become indifferent, and her desire for love is gradually drifting away.
In its place, there is a "money first" mentality. She even openly said that only people with a monthly income of one million or at least 200,000 are worthy of her attention. Since then, no one has dared to confess to her.
Second, the turmoil caused by appearing on the blind date show
After several years of unremitting efforts, Zhu Zhenfang finally succeeded in paying off all the high debts and regained her freedom. Seeing her daughter maturing day by day, as a mother, she has always been concerned about her, constantly urging her, looking forward to her participating in the blind date show, looking for her own other half, and settling down.
At first, Zhu Zhenfang was inevitably a little hesitant in her heart. The lonely life for a long time made her a little numb to life and love. However, under the patient persuasion of her mother, she finally decided to sign up and stepped on the blind date stage.
Unexpectedly, Zhu Zhenfang's remarks quickly caused an uproar after the show was broadcast.
At the beginning of the show, Zhu Zhenfang introduced herself with an extremely arrogant attitude: "My temperament, my talent, and my gestures are all symbols and synonyms of beauty. In the face of the surprised eyes of the audience, she didn't seem to care.
Immediately afterwards, when the male guests appeared on the stage, Zhu Zhenfang made the jaw-dropping remarks unabashedly: "My hand is only allowed to be touched by my boyfriend, and anyone else who wants to touch it once must pay 200,000 yuan."
The scene was in an uproar, and everyone was shocked by Zhu Zhenfang's amazing words. The host hurriedly tried to help her, asking her what choice she would make between "having a happy boyfriend" and "owning a luxury home"? Zhu Zhenfang chose the latter without hesitation.
Since then, no matter which male guest comes on stage, Zhu Zhenfang always emphasizes her strict requirements for her boyfriend with a blank face - the monthly income must reach at least 200,000 yuan. Her persistent pursuit of money made the atmosphere more and more tense.
The audience cast mocking and contemptuous glances at her.
As soon as the program was broadcast, it was immediately met with crazy heated discussions and severe criticism from the majority of netizens. They compared Zhu Zhenfang to the well-known "money worshipper" Mano, who once declared that she would "rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle", and mercilessly accused her of being a "complete money worshipper".
3. Suffering from online violence, life is in a difficult situation
Since the day the show was broadcast, Zhu Zhenfang has been deeply involved in the center of the storm of online abuse. Some netizens began to question whether she was carefully planned by the program team and deliberately arranged to go on stage as a gimmick to attract attention and increase ratings.
The reason they gave was that the host of the show had publicly stated that many guests who had signed up for the show had been waiting in line for two years before they could appear on the stage. And Zhu Zhenfang successfully entered the blind date stage in just one week after submitting the registration form, which is really suspicious! .
The anger of many netizens is not only aimed at Zhu Zhenfang herself, but also directly at the person in charge of the program team who is rumored to have script manipulation.
However, in the face of all kinds of doubts from netizens, the program team has always remained silent. This attitude of no response made the majority of netizens once again shift the focus of criticism to Zhu Zhenfang herself.
They sent a large number of malicious abusive messages to Zhu Zhenfang's mobile phone mailbox, and some even found the address of her work unit and continued to make harassing phone calls to interfere.
Under such violent verbal violence, Zhu Zhenfang's life became like walking on thin ice. It's hard to concentrate at work, and you're always worried that the next nuisance call will ring out of nowhere.
Even when I get home from work, I still have to put up with the unsightly abusive messages in my mailbox.
In the end, with the firm support of her family, Zhu Zhenfang and the company finally decided to resign voluntarily after many consultations, and temporarily stay away from this place of disputed right and wrong. Having lost her job, her life was once again in jeopardy.
Fourth, regain your life and work hard to regain your life
Time flies, time flies, and the pain will eventually be healed. Many years later, at an accidental moment, a netizen accidentally found a familiar figure when browsing the work account of a Mercedes-Benz car salesman, which was Zhu Zhenfang, who had caused an uproar.
According to the account, Zhu Zhenfang has now become an outstanding luxury car salesman, selling as many as 178 Mercedes-Benz cars a year. On average, every two days, she is able to close a major order for the sale of a luxury car, which is one of the best in the industry.
With such a generous commission, Zhu Zhenfang is fully capable of living a carefree and prosperous life.
What's even more surprising is that in the video posted by Zhu Zhenfang's account, netizens seem to have caught a glimpse of a little girl, suspected to be her daughter. If this is the case, it means that Zhu Zhenfang has not only found her ideal career and has a considerable income, but has even formed her own warm little family and lived the happy life she once dreamed of.
Yes, after many hardships and difficulties in the long years, Ms. Zhu Zhenfang finally realized the grand aspiration she made when she was young with her unremitting efforts and perseverance! With the help of her strong and unyielding fighting spirit, the problems that once plagued her dissipated like a cloud of smoke.
Whether it was the debt-ridden years ago or the relentless abuse of online violence, she could not completely collapse.
However, for those netizens who have personally attacked her, what about their lives now? Are they also like Ms. Zhu Zhenfang, who bravely moved forward under the obstacles of fate, and finally won their own happiness? We can't give a definite answer to this question.
However, we can be sure that only with a never-say-die determination can we continue to move forward in life.
Part 5: Reflection in Irony
There is an old adage that says it perfectly, "You have no right to judge the actions of others unless you have personally experienced their suffering." Looking back on the past, when people judged Ms. Zhu Zhenfang's words and deeds, they classified her as a "gold worshipper", but they didn't know what kind of bitter process she had experienced behind her.
Looking at it now, the so-called "money worship" remarks made by Ms. Zhu Zhenfang in the blind date show were actually just to find a stable and wealthy home to fill the wounds left by her past life.
In the eyes of others, the concept of "money first" she pursues is actually the embodiment of her survival instinct. Having experienced the pain of a broken family, she simply wanted to find a bright path for herself to escape poverty and live a dignified and decent life.
However, Ms. Zhu Zhenfang's rhetoric was indeed too radical, which caused strong dissatisfaction among the majority of netizens, and it was inevitable that she would be abused. However, how can endless online violence and harassment, even if motivated by revenge, be justified? Just because of a blind date show, he was criticized by netizens and even forced to resign, which is really unacceptable.
To a certain extent, the uproar of public opinion back then undoubtedly revealed the distortion of the values of netizens who are "pro-rich and hateful to the poor". They are short-sighted, stubborn, and only based on their own interests, ignoring the plight of others, and turning a blind eye to Ms. Zhu's life experience.
In fact, like Ms. Zhu Zhenfang, everyone is just trying their best to pursue a happy life.
With the spread of online violence, it has seriously eroded the otherwise pure and immaculate cyberspace. Such an act not only undermines the core value of citizens' freedom of expression, but also adds fuel to the fire of social fragmentation.
In this context, we need to empathize with each other, listen to the inner call of each individual, and accept each other with a generous and inclusive mind, rather than making rash judgments and hurts.
6. Future prospects
From the sporadic clips of Zhu Zhenfang's recent life situation, we seem to be able to feel that her attachment to money is no longer as hot as in the past. Those days of hardship are a thing of the past, and now she has a decent and stable career, a good financial income, and even feels the warmth of family.
The journey of life is always full of endless possibilities, and the difficulties of the present will be resolved by the joys of the future. Perhaps everything Zhu Zhenfang has experienced is a tempering given to her by fate, making her more tenacious and courageous, to pursue the beautiful life she longs for in her heart.
At this moment, she is walking on the road to happiness, and we sincerely wish her a smooth journey and enjoy the joy of family.