Preface
The woman cheated on the marriage of 510,000 dowry, and the reason for not returning it turned out to be "already asleep"!
In order to marry his Hunan girlfriend Wang Ting, Mr. Che, a man from Shanghai, took out more than 200,000 cash dowry and gold jewelry worth more than 100,000 yuan, which was full of sincerity. But Wang Ting was unwilling to live together, which made Mr. Che very incomprehensible.
In desperation, Mr. Che sued the court to demand the return of the bride price. But he refused to return it and gave a reason: Are you chasing me just to sleep with me? The goal has been achieved, why should the money be returned?
The event passed
In 2014, Mr. Che and Wang Ting met and fell in love in other places and established a romantic relationship. Out of love at first sight, Mr. Che took out more than 200,000 yuan in cash on the spot when he saw Wang Ting alone, plus more than 100,000 yuan of luxury gifts such as gold jewelry and bags, with a total price of 510,000 yuan.
Although friends are dissuading, saying that Wang Ting is not sincere and has other plans. However, Mr. Che firmly believes that "as long as you treat it sincerely, you will definitely be able to influence the other party to tie the knot". After completing the marriage formalities, Wang Ting has been postponing her cohabitation plan with Mr. Che on the grounds that she is "very busy and can't leave her hometown".
At the same time, Grandma Wang Ting often "reached out to Mr. Che to ask for money" on the grounds of paying electricity bills. Although the amount is not much, this also makes Mr. Che quite disgusted.
Eventually, all sorts of things come together. Mr. Che couldn't bear it anymore and decided to end this ridiculous marriage. But when he asked Wang Ting to return the 510,000 dowry, Wang Ting suddenly turned her head and said that she was willing to live with Mr. Che in Shanghai.
For this "reunion" opportunity, the naïve Mr. Che once again took out more than 100,000 yuan in cash. It didn't take long for Wang Ting to leave Mr. Che as before. When Mr. Che filed for divorce for the second time and asked for a refund of all the bride price, Wang Ting openly refused, the reason was: "Are you chasing me just to sleep with me?" I've already achieved my goal, so why should I return the money?"
It turned out that Wang Ting had been entangled with Mr. Che for all these years, and had been hiding the fact that she had given birth to an illegitimate child with another young man. And Mr. Che, who had gone through hardships and wanted to reform Wang Ting, was completely desperate, so he could only sue Wang Ting to the court and demand that he immediately return the 510,000 dowry.
The court finally ruled that Wang Ting needed to return more than 20 yuan to Mr. Che. But Wang Ting refused to carry it out. In desperation, Mr. Che had no choice but to apply for enforcement again.
On the day of the execution, the staff of the Hunan High Court broadcast the whole process live. They surrounded Wang Ting's residence, hoping that she would take the initiative to return the bride price. But Wang Ting argued: "How can I have money? I don't have a job, so I can't afford it!"
Mr. Che retorted on the spot: "You post luxury goods in the circle of friends all day long, where are you poor like this?" Subsequently, the relevant staff searched Wang Ting's home and found a gold necklace worth 26,000 yuan that she had worn, as well as a number of brand-name bags!
However, Wang Tingshi still quibbled and prevaricated and did not cooperate, so the relevant staff took her away on the spot and forcibly detained her for 15 days. Mr. Che was also crying because his mother still had no money to pay for the operation.
Netizen comments
I think Mr. Che himself has a problem in his own province
There are also netizens who are wondering if the money can be recovered?
It is hoped that the relevant departments will take action to ban the bride price and not buy and sell marriages
There are also sober netizens who said that this is naked deception and suggests severe punishment!
Reflection on the event:
This marriage fraud case has once again triggered people's in-depth reflection on the concept of bad marriage in the current society.
The phenomenon of "high bride price" highly materializes the marriage relationship and puts money first, which also takes feelings as the original intention of marriage, which is completely contrary.
The traditional bride price is just a manifestation of the man's sincerity, and the amount is moderate. However, today's excessively high bride price has long been reduced to a bargaining chip for showing off wealth, which has brought a heavy burden to the man's family.
Secondly, the "flash marriage" behavior of the two parties in this case is also worth pondering. Being in such a hurry is destined to bring all kinds of hidden dangers to each other in the future because they don't know each other well.
Integrity is the cornerstone of the marriage relationship, and once it is missing, it will inevitably bury the bane of contradictions. Wang Ting's concealment of the fact of childbirth is undoubtedly deliberate deception, and Mr. Che's blind superstitious naïve idea of "true sincerity can be influenced" is also difficult to understand. It can be seen that there are some problems in the cognition of marriage on both sides.
In addition, the current law is still not strong enough to control marriage fraud and high bride price. Although the court took custody of Wang Ting, it failed to resolve the underlying issues.
Improving relevant laws and regulations is the best way to prevent problems before they occur. At the same time, vigorously publicizing the basic morality of marriage and family ethics and enhancing the public's awareness of marriage and childbearing are also projects with a long way to go.
epilogue
Although marriage can pay attention to some traditional etiquette, it must not be reduced to a bargaining chip to show off wealth. The bride price may be okay as a sign of sincerity, but an excessively high bride price will only put a heavy burden on both families.
More importantly, the core of marriage is affection, which is the commitment and tolerance of two people. Without this emotional foundation, what is the point of having a lot of money and gold? Just like in this case, the man blindly pays, the woman is mercenary, and the two sides have long been in a quagmire.
Therefore, we should have some reflection and change in the concept of marriage. Marriage should never be purely about the supremacy of interests, nor is it an endless demand for each other, but is based on mutual understanding and care.
Finally, let's talk about it first
What would you do if you were also the victim of a marriage cheat? Feel free to share your stories and thoughts in the comments section.