"Star Family Tragedy! Abandoned by his father at the age of 9, he is now ill-fated at the age of 22"
The children in the entertainment industry who grew up under the spotlight since childhood were held in the palm of their hands, so beautiful. is such a second-generation star with an extraordinary family background, but now he has a bad fate and a bleak future. is talking about Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei's eldest daughter Mai Baoyao.
Soon after the marriage, the bloody plot was staged
In 2000, the popular singer Sun Nan and the well-known sketch actor Mai Hongmei tied the knot, and soon after ushered in the crystallization of their love - their daughter Mai Baoyao. The family of three is happy, and they are willing to be concubines, and they are bravely walking towards a happy tomorrow.
Who knew that the good times would not last long, in 2007, after the birth of the second child Sun Pei, the marriage of this popular star couple flashed cracks. It is rumored that Sun Nan is stealing outside and making his wife "green" like a garden.
It is unknown whether cholera is really a thing, but a big truth is: in 2009, Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei divorced in tears, and the bloody plot was staged like this. As a single mother, Mai Hongmei worked hard to pull her two children to grow up alone.
Stepmother appeared brainwashing daughter to send "female virtue school"
finally survived the most difficult days, and Mai Hongmei thought that the children could finally escape the haze and welcome a sunny life. However, no one expected that what was waiting to buy Bao Yao was a heavier blow.
Soon after the divorce, Sun Nan met a woman named Pan Wei. Pan Wei is also a well-known host in the circle, but in this marriage, her role is quite "scum".
Pan Wei not only persuaded Sun Nan to divorce Mai Hongmei, but also started the dirty act of fighting for the custody of the child. At her instigation, Sun Nan falsely accused Mai Hongmei of having an extramarital affair, so as to snatch the two children.
Mai Hongmei was isolated and helpless, watching her flesh and blood snatched away. She was so grief-stricken that she was powerless to go back, and she couldn't even take out the lawyer's fees to defend her rights.
After the divorce, Mai Baoyao and her younger brother Sun Yi were forced to live with their father and stepmother Pan Wei. Pan Wei was greedy for money and snobbery, ignoring the two children, and even tried every means to "brainwash" to buy Bao Yao.
In 2015, when Mai Baoyao was 15 years old, Pan Wei sent her to an illegal private school that called itself the "Huaxia Women's Moral Academy". There, in addition to learning traditional culture such as playing the guzheng, it is to recite the three virtues and four virtues, and receive the so-called "virtuous and virtuous" education.
In this way, Mai Baoyao was deprived of normal educational opportunities, and the trajectory of her life was artificially distorted and changed. In contrast, Pan Wei's biological daughter was happily funded by Sun Nan and happily went to a prestigious foreign university for further study.
Pan Wei is so eccentric, and he is so dirty in life and work, which is despicable. Mai Baoyao is also pitiful, suffered from such a poisonous hand, and the future is bleak.
The dream of graduating from junior high school is shattered, and the future is worrying
Before the "Women's Virtue School" was closed, Mai Baoyao had been in it for 4 years. By 2019, at the age of 20, she only had a first Chinese certificate, and her life has been chicken feathers since then.
Everyone else has stepped into the ivory tower, but she can't even dream of college. The acting road that Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan once paved for her has also become an unrealizable distant dream due to the interruption of her studies.
The 22-year-old Mai Baoyao is skeletal and sad, and she can't see the shadow of the lively and lovely little Lori at all. Everything is to blame for the ruthless divorce of the parents and the harsh treatment of the stepmother.
Nowadays, she is rarely seen on social media. I don't know what happened to this poor second generation star, whether he will regain his dream and work hard, or he will just live the rest of his life.
In any case, her fate has been tossed to the point of being torn apart and mentally exhausted. This pair of excellent celebrity parents really owe this baby daughter too much.
I believe that everyone has sympathy for this sad second-generation star Mai Baoyao. However, sympathy alone is not enough, we should reflect on what went wrong with such a family education case.
The elders want their son Jackie Chan to have too much load
First of all, let's find the reason from the parents who bought Bao Yao. As celebrity parents, they have too high expectations for their daughter, hoping that she can also show her excellent talent and talent in the entertainment industry in the future.
However, this so-called "Jackie Chan" mentality set her a path to art when the child was young, without considering her true thoughts. This is inevitably a bit too arbitrary and arrogant.
A child's future is too hasty and often counterproductive. The child's physiology should be grasped and chosen by herself, rather than being pressed into a certain mold by her parents.
The stepmother is mean and assertive, and there is a chance to hurt the child
Of course, what is even more distressing is that Mai Baoyao was severely beaten and injured by her stepmother Pan Wei. In order to please her husband Sun Nan, Pan Wei ignored her daughter's actual needs and insisted on sending her to the "women's moral school".
Pan Wei's understanding of traditional culture is too narrow and stereotypical, believing that if she wants to cultivate a "virtuous and virtuous" woman, she must be locked in a deep boudoir and taught her three obedience and four virtues.
She ignored the thirst for knowledge and knowledge of girls in Mai Baoyao's time, blocking her door to science and modern civilization. Under Pan Wei's arrangement, Mai Baoyao's precious study time in her youth was wasted in vain.
Too much of a traditional view is anachronistic
Pan Wei's concept of "women's moral education" has undoubtedly seriously deviated from the development trend of contemporary society. Today, social civilization has made great progress, and people attach more importance to equality between men and women than ever before.
Women are no longer just passively accepting outdated and backward values like "three obedience and four virtues", but bravely stepping out of the family, actively embracing society, and pursuing self-realization.
However, some parents and elders are still confined to the dregs of feudalism, deifying and arbitrarily "female morality", locking girls in tree-hole schools and instilling stereotypes and bad habits, covering their eyes, ears and brains. This not only deprives girls of their right to modern education, but also seriously stifles their dreams of pursuing freedom and independence.
Education must not be wasted by choking
The problem of education runs throughout, and it is this reckless and irresponsible parents and elders who bury the fate of their children. The most precious stage of life in the world is the stage of youth, and once the critical period of education is consumed in this way, the rest of the life cannot be repeated.
Of course, we can't deny the entire traditional culture because of choking and abandoning food, aiming at extreme "women's moral education". But at the very least, we must abandon complacency and rigid thinking, grasp the good and the bad, and selectively absorb beneficial cultural nutrients.
At the same time, we must also speak out and call on relevant departments to strictly rectify the chaos of private education to avoid innocent people like Mai Baoyao from being harmed. Only by allowing every child to enjoy a scientific, modern and systematic education can China truly become strong in the future.
Although the experience of Mai Baoyao is heartbreaking, we have the responsibility to learn from it, reflect on the educational philosophy, avoid the pitfalls of family education, and strive to build a solid foundation for the next generation to shine in life.