#头条创作挑战赛#
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Gao Yalin, who has always been regarded by the audience as a model good husband and father, was recently exposed by his ex-girlfriend to a strong scandal of cheating during pregnancy and domestic violence.
It is understood that Gao Yalin not only cheated on his ex-girlfriend during her pregnancy, but also mentally and physically abused her ex-girlfriend who was pregnant for five months, which made people angry.
In the face of such a bloody plot, the fans were speechless and could only shout injustice. However, there is a lot involved in this matter, what is the truth? Let's find out.
The pregnancy was derailed in May
"You say, is he a good father? Pregnant women don't let go, it's just scum! "
This is the most intuitive complaint from netizens after Gao Yalin was exposed by his ex-girlfriend to have cheated during pregnancy. As a much-loved actor, Gao Yalin has established a commendable image of a good husband and father for the audience on the screen. However, in real life, he did the dirty act of cheating on his pregnant girlfriend.
For ex-girlfriend Wei Jia, this is undoubtedly a heavy blow. When she thought that she was pregnant with Gao Yalin, but she was derailed and mentally destroyed, she couldn't help but burst into tears.
Thinking back to the beginning, Wei Jia remembered the bits and pieces of falling in love with Gao Yalin, he was so considerate to himself at that time, and soon after the two fell in love, they gave birth to each other's baby sons.
But who would have thought that not long after Wei Jia became pregnant, Gao Yalin would start cheating. At that time, Wei Jia was suffering from morning sickness and vomiting all day long, and her body was weak and abnormal, which should have been the time when Gao Yalin should serve her and take care of her. But Gao Yalin forgot Wei Jia behind, and was happy all day long, ignoring his beloved wife's physical and mental health.
What's even more outrageous is that Gao Yalin actually committed domestic violence against Wei Jia, who was pregnant for five months. The severe stomach pain made Wei Jia unable to stop crying, thinking that Gao Yalin would comfort himself and care about him.
Unexpectedly, Gao Yalin actually raised his hand to slap him, and then grabbed Wei Jia's neck, and the whole person was furious to the extreme, not caring about the child in his womb at all. In the face of such a brutal act, Wei Jia was terrified, for fear that it would affect the child in her womb. At that moment, she really felt despair......
Shameless prostitutes linger
So, who is Gao Yalin cheating with? Judging from the exposed chat records, he has been secretly in love with a young woman named "Ji Xiaoshuai", often dating her in high-end restaurants, and also transferring large sums of money to her.
"38,888 yuan, are you sure you're not raising a junior? You've done this kind of thing in broad daylight! "
This is indeed the case. After verification, this "Ji Xiaoshuai" is none other than the popular little flower Dan Xu Zijun. As a well-known new star in the actor industry, Xu Zijun not only looks sweet, but also has a first-class figure, and is favored in the circle. Unexpectedly, she turned out to be Gao Yalin's "hunting object".
On a date with Xu Zijun, Gao Yalin even narrowed a high bill of 4,279 yuan in a high-end restaurant. As a housewife, Wei Jia's monthly living expenses simply cannot afford such extravagant expenses.
It can be seen how infatuated Gao Yalin is with this illegitimate daughter who is 26 years younger. In addition to spending lavishly, he also poured money into Xu Zijun, transferring tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands of yuan again and again. It can be said that Xu Zijun is completely treated as a hostess.
In the face of Gao Yalin's shameless behavior, Wei Jia, as his wife, was angry and cold. Thinking about how much effort she put in to pursue Gao Yalin. It is really sad and lamentable.
There is a mystery in the past
Seeing that the scandal between Gao Yalin and Xu Zijun is intensifying, the outside world has also begun to question the reason for Gao Yalin's divorce from his previous wife Shi Wei. The two were so loving back then, they were destined to be a natural pair. But in the end, it came to an end because he "couldn't give birth to children".
"Could it be that Shi Wei has been waiting for many years to no avail, and it is also due to Gao Yalin's private debauchery?"
This speculation is not purely unfounded. Gao Yalin once publicly said that the reason why Shi Wei and he have not been able to have children is because they are busy with work and have never been able to serve their wives well.
But after this incident was exposed, we can't help but wonder if Gao Yalin had cheated on Shi Wei at the beginning, and even did something more dirty? caused Shi Wei to have a long-term grudge, and finally chose to divorce and settle it.
If that's the case, it's a shame. Shi Wei has always been regarded as a model wife by the outside world, and she is sincere to Gao Yalin.
But Gao Yalin abandoned her from beginning to end, making her spend so many lonely days. As the saying goes, "people are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong", Gao Yalin has long been accustomed to subtle eating, drinking and having fun, which is outrageous.
Two feelings are in common?
The criticized Gao Yalin finally embarked on the road of no return to derailment, but we also have to think about a deep-seated question: The reason why Wei Jia and Gao Yalin were able to fall in love with each other back then, is she a third party involved?
Even if the two gave birth to a lovely son afterwards, they failed to reach the final ideal hall after all. Being reasonable, Wei Jia may not be able to explain his conscience.
"If you do the same, are you considered a junior? It's something I've been figuring out. "
I have to say that the outside world reacted very strongly to every move surrounding Gao Yalin, Wei Jia and Xu Zijun's bloody love and hatred drama. Some people ridiculed Gao Yalin for being shameless, some people suspected that Wei Jia also had problems, and some even pointed out that this was just trying to rub off some heat. All kinds of voices come and go, which is really dazzling.
Personally, I believe that everyone's attitude towards life determines their inner integrity. A person like Gao Yalin, who has been abandoned from the beginning to the end and has done all the dirty things, has undoubtedly become a complete scumbag.
But Wei Jia should also reflect on what he did at the beginning, after all, being a third party is always biased. But then again, everyone has the right to find happiness again, as long as it makes sense.
The warmth and coldness of human nature have their own value judgments
When people live in the world, they will inevitably make some mistakes. As the widely circulated song of the year wrote: "Grievances are beautiful and ugly, not black or white." How should we judge people like Gao Yalin and Wei Jia? There is no doubt that cheating and domestic violence are severely condemned after all.
But at the same time, we also need to think about how many times in a person's life there are opportunities to be happy. If we are always bound by the mistakes of the past, won't life lose its meaning?
Even those who have done wrong can be a viable path as long as they sincerely repent and atone for their sins through their own efforts and start a new life.
"The right and wrong in the world are often a thin line, and the key is how to look at it with what kind of mentality. Who of us is qualified to deny a person altogether? "
Therefore, I hope that Gao Yalin and Wei Jia can reflect on what they have done, rather than simply choosing to escape. There should be a correct understanding and calculation of right and wrong, and should not be arbitrarily magnified or reduced, and only by thoroughly understanding the essence of the matter can we avoid making the same mistakes in the future.
After all, human life is nothing more than the pursuit of happiness. Wishful thinking to belittle a person or thing is a bit too arbitrary and self-righteous. It is wisest to keep an open and inclusive mindset and look at the world with good intentions.
The impact of this incident may also be worth thinking about. After all, this is not only a private matter of Gao Yalin and Wei Jia, but also reflects some urgent problems in contemporary society.
For example, is there still serious unfair treatment in contemporary marriage and family? Once a husband has broken his treachery and hurt his wife, how should the wife protect herself? And how can we avoid repeating the mistakes of the past and maintain an independent personality? These are all directions worth reflecting on.
Furthermore, when there is a rift in the marriage, should outsiders have more empathy? After all, it is not easy for a person to be happy. We must learn to care for others, understand others, and examine the inner world of each individual with warm and inclusive eyes, instead of rashly judging and criticizing them.
We live in a highly civilized society, and people should care for each other and help each other, instead of choosing harm and revenge. As the saying goes, "only when you have to endure hardship can you become a superior person".
If we all face the various circumstances of life with an open mind and understand each individual with kindness, the world will become warmer and more uplifting.
"What do you think about this? Feel free to speak. "