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You transfer money to me, but you are just a means for you to pursue me and try to establish a relationship with me; The fact that I accept the transfer you have shown me does not mean that I accept your feelings.
Gao Yalin's recent news of cheating and domestic violence has caused huge controversy.
According to online reports, his girlfriend Wei Jia publicly accused Gao Yalin of cheating and was involved in domestic violence and rape allegations.
Wei Jia posted a chat record with Gao Yalin, showing that Gao Yalin repeatedly transferred money to the cheating partner, ranging from 20,000 to 40,000 yuan, and these behaviors were regarded by Wei Jia as a betrayal of her. In addition, she also revealed that Gao Yalin physically violently treated her during pregnancy, including choking her neck and slapping her. These acts were described by her as serious domestic violence.
Wei Jia's revelations not only involved Gao Yalin's chaotic private life, but also involved other people, including Xu Zijun, who was accused of cheating. Mr. Gao has not publicly responded to the allegations.
Xu Zijun shouted Gao Yalin to apologize publicly
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I'm Xu Zijun. At this moment of courage, I decided to share my recent experience with you, hoping that through my words, I can provide reference and reflection for the prevention of similar incidents in the future.
Recently, my name was involved in a dispute with Gao Yalin and his girlfriend. It's something I never expected, and it involves humanity, trust, and misunderstanding.
Gao Yalin is a senior I once deeply admired, however, he maliciously slandered me behind my back for his own interests, which made me very shocked and disappointed.
I come from a happy family, and my parents are very considerate of my education and protection. My life has always been smooth sailing, and I have rarely been exposed to the dark side of society. However, this incident made me deeply aware that even those who look glamorous on the surface can have a side that is not well known.
Back in 2021, I unexpectedly learned that Gao Yalin was not single as he said, but was already a father, which made me feel cheated. I immediately cut off all contact with him, and since then I have never responded to any of his attempts to contact me.
I feel very hurt and unfair about Mr. Gao Yalin's insulting remarks to me. Let me be clear, even at the best of our relationship, I never crossed the boundaries of being a friend. His transfer is just his personal kindness to me, and it does not mean that I have accepted his feelings, let alone that there is an improper relationship between us.
Here, I would like to ask Mr. Gao Yalin to publicly apologize to me for his inappropriate remarks. At the same time, I would like to express my deep apologies for the inconvenience caused to my family and friends by choosing a friend.
Finally, I would like to say to all those who are concerned about this matter, thank you for your care and support. We should respond to online violence and disinformation with reason and kindness. Let us work together to build a more just and fraternal society.
Netizens are hotly discussed
Netizen: You are so good at fun in the entertainment industry, you don't need to associate with others to transfer large amounts of money to you, is there still this kind of bodhisattva?
Netizen: There is no need for the heroine to respond at this juncture, because the more she paints, the darker it becomes. Waiting for time to digest is the best option.
Netizen: I accept the transfer you have shown me favor, it does not mean that I accept your "feelings", hahahahaha
In this era of information explosion, every public figure can become the focus of online public opinion overnight, and the power of the Internet can quickly amplify any little detail, regardless of the truth. Xu Zijun's experience reminds us that in the face of the complex and ever-changing entertainment industry, we need to remain calm and objective, rather than easily joining in the baseless accusations and attacks.
Through this incident, Xu Zijun not only showed his perseverance and courage in the face of adversity, but also taught us how to maintain personal dignity and authenticity under pressure. His public response is not only to justify himself, but also to advocate a more rational and inclusive online environment. As he said, in the face of disinformation and online violence, we should respond with reason and kindness, and work together to build a just and fraternal society.
Let's remember that everyone deserves to be properly understood and respected, both online and in real life. I hope that in the future, we can pay more attention to the verification of facts, less unnecessary speculation and attacks, and make our society brighter and warmer.
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