1. The exposure of Li Youbin's relationship caused controversy, and his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi generously came forward to relieve them
One day at the end of March 2008, Li Youbin drove Shi Lanya out shopping in a car, and accidentally exposed the relationship between the two. Because the news of Li Youbin's divorce from his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi has never been made public, their relationship has instantly become the focus of public opinion, causing questions and criticism from the outside world.
For a time, Li Youbin was accused of being a "negative man", while Shi Lanya was regarded as a "third party".
Facing the pressure of public opinion, Li Youbin frowned tightly and looked solemn. He never imagined that his private life would cause so much controversy and attention. Shi Lanya tugged at her cuffs uneasily, she was a simple and kind person, and she never expected to be so criticized.
Neither of them did anything wrong, but they had to endure such questioning, which made them feel helpless and aggrieved.
At this juncture, Li Youbin's ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi stepped forward and solved the dispute for her ex-husband and Shi Lanya in a sincere and enthusiastic tone, she said: "I divorced Li Youbin not because of Shi Lanya, but because Li Youbin was too focused on his career and neglected his family responsibilities.
The conflict between us deepened day by day, and we finally chose to break up peacefully.
Zhang Ruiqi's generosity and tolerance have won the understanding and praise of the outside world. Finally, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya got rid of the disturbance of public opinion. Although they have both experienced failed marriages, it undoubtedly takes a lot of courage to step into the palace of marriage again.
With a firm heart and pure love, the two accelerated the pace of entering the marriage hall.
Second, Li Youbin's growth experience and Zhang Ruiqi's encounter and love
Li Youbin was born in 1958 in Changchun City, Jilin Province, and his family background is ordinary but warm and loving. Since childhood, he has had a strong interest in performing arts, and at the age of 16, with his extraordinary acting talent, he joined the Changchun Repertory Theatre and officially started his artistic career.
In the repertory troupe, Li Youbin not only found the stage of life, but also met his first love, Zhang Ruiqi. At that time, Zhang Ruiqi was like a blooming flower, young and beautiful, and she was the leader of the troupe.
Although she has many suitors, she has a special love for Li Youbin, a young handsome and upright young man.
Whenever rehearsals or performances, as long as Li Youbin stands in the center of the stage, Zhang Ruiqi can't help but look at him a few more times. Li Youbin is 180 cm tall and is definitely the ideal lover that many girls dream of.
Zhang Ruiqi is naturally no exception, she is attracted by Li Youbin's appearance and talent, and secretly admires it in her heart.
Li Youbin naturally also noticed Zhang Ruiqi. Although his career achievements were not as successful as Zhang Ruiqi at that time, the latter was full of confidence in him and believed that he would achieve greater success.
So, the two looked at each other and smiled, fell in love, and fell in love.
In 1982, after several years of blind date and love, Li Youbin finally proposed to Zhang Ruiqi successfully. On the wedding night, he hugged his wife's petite body tightly, dropped a dragonfly kiss on her forehead, and solemnly promised to be with him for life, vowing to work hard and cherish this fate.
In the days after marriage, in order to support Li Youbin's career development, Zhang Ruiqi gave up the job at the peak of her career and devoted herself to the family. Every day, she will take care of her husband's daily life, work hard and thriftily to create a quiet and comfortable living environment for him.
Seeing her husband getting better, Zhang Ruiqi was full of joy, and she was convinced that her choice was the right one.
3. Li Youbin gave up his family to drift north and worked hard, and his career gradually became popular but led to the breakdown of his marriage
Although Li Youbin has filmed many film and television works in Changchun Film Studio, he has never been able to attract widespread attention. Gradually, he felt that he would not be able to realize his dream if he stood still like this, so one day, he solemnly said his thoughts to his wife Zhang Ruiqi: "I have entered middle age, and I have gone through most of my life.
If I stay here, my life will be uneventful. I want to go out into the world and fight for my dreams.
Hearing her husband's words, Zhang Ruiqi gave him full support without the slightest hesitation. She knows that performing arts is Li Youbin's lifelong passion, and if he can't achieve something on this road, he will regret it.
So the family of three came to Beijing and started the "North Drift" life.
When they first arrived in Beijing, the couple felt helpless and lost in all kinds of unsatisfactory life. Li Youbin is busy in the crew every day to fight for opportunities, while Zhang Ruiqi is trying his best to maintain his family and live a frugal life.
Sometimes Li Xiaoke's school has become a big problem. But seeing her husband gradually showing his edge in his career, Zhang Ruiqi was sincerely happy for him.
Finally, in 2005, Li Youbin starred in the TV series "Bright Sword" with his outstanding performance, and skillfully portrayed the role of the classic character "Li Yunlong", becoming famous in one fell swoop.
The show instantly broke ratings records, made him famous, and won the first "Golden Eagle Award". After becoming famous, he continued to play and brilliantly performed countless heroic images.
However, just when Li Youbin's career was rising, the distance between him and his wife Zhang Ruiqi was also invisibly widened. The long-term separation between the two places and the seldom of seeing each other led to a rift in their relationship as husband and wife.
The conflict accumulated, and finally in 2006, the couple officially divorced, ending their 24-year marriage.
Although Zhang Ruiqi has been silently supporting Li Youbin behind his back, when he really realized his dream, he did not share this joy with him. This ending is undoubtedly a heavy blow to Zhang Ruiqi.
But she didn't hold grudges, she just wished Li Youbin happiness.
Fourth, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya know each other and love each other, and the two enter the marriage hall hand in hand
During the filming of the TV series "Red Sun" in 2004, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya met for the first time. The two played a loving couple in the play, and they also had inextricable feelings in reality.
Although Shi Lanya is 13 years younger than Li Youbin, there is an indescribable feeling of seeing each other and hating each other.
During the filming, Li Youbin often stared at Shi Lanya's side face stupidly after the director shouted "card", and his eyes were full of indescribable tenderness. And Shi Lanya will bow her head slightly, her cheeks will be crimson, and her delicate demeanor will make people's hearts pound.
In this way, a tortuous relationship gradually grew in the hearts of the two.
In the years that followed, they collaborated several times, and there were more and more intimate interactions and heart-to-heart collisions on and off camera. Shi Lanya is a simple and kind person, and she is deeply attracted by Li Youbin's integrity and tenacity.
And Li Youbin was also moved by Shi Lanya's virtuous gentleness.
With Shi Lanya's encouragement and support, Li Youbin resolutely played the role of Zhu Kaishan, the actor of "Breaking through the Guandong". Sure enough, this drama was well received after it was broadcast, adding luster to Li Youbin's career.
As time passed, the relationship between the two warmed up. One day at the end of March 2008, their relationship was accidentally exposed. In the face of doubts and criticism from public opinion, his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi resolutely stood up to relieve them, which made Li Youbin and Shi Lanya feel warm.
Despite the fact that both have experienced failed marriages, their feelings for each other are so pure and beautiful. With the magnanimity of their ex, they accelerated the pace of entering the marriage hall.
Just a few months later, Li Youbin knelt down on one knee and successfully proposed to Shi Lanya. The groom's face was full of red light, and he kissed the bride tightly, and the two walked towards a new chapter in their lives with the blessings of relatives and friends.